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Ogo1
New member
Username: Ogo1
Post Number: 6
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, May 26, 2006 - 08:25 am: | 
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Recently I posted that I cannot enter quite into a DD relationship with my husband at this time - problems  - and I can't trust him right now to be judicial and give him the freedom to spank me - double .
But in trying to work things out, it takes two to make or break a relationship and I definely am a bad wife  . (Probably I deserve a good spanking!!). The first thing our therapist told us is to work on being more respectful to each other. I am not very respectful - Make faces when he asks me to do things for him or find forms or phone numbers ....
So recently there was a posting about if anyone spanks themselves. I have to admit that lately a couple of times I have resorted to this  . I have a picture of him on my side bedstand and I imagine it is him delivering the blows. I can't really hurt myself, but I can make my bottom sting a little as I imagine him giving me a good spanking. When he comes home, I imagine that he did give me a good spanking. This makes me SOooo hot! I greet him with big hugs and kisses! He likes this! It doesn't get me the real spanking I deserve, but it makes for a GOOOOOD night, if you know what I mean! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2412
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, May 26, 2006 - 08:45 am: |
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Ogo, I am glad you found a solution that is working for the time being. I have to wonder why it is that you are not respectful?
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Smartnnaughty
Advanced Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 343
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 10:31 pm: |
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Ogo,
Fanny asked just the right question. If there are problems and you can't enter into a DD relationship right now, what can you do to clear up those problems. The disrespect is a symptom of something deeper. Figure out the answer to what is behind the disrespect and you will know what you need to work on.
Good luck with the processing. With the problems resolved you will be closer to being able to enter a DD relationship. It is worth working toward!
SNN
Everyone has a photographic memory, however, some just don't have film
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Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 153
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 04:13 pm: |
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Ogo,
If you can't stand him asking or telling you to do something, why do you think that you want to be in a DD relationship?
A DD relationship won't work if you don't respect him. And spanking will not solve whatever it is that is the problem between you.
Cheers,
Victoria
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