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Naughtyboy50s
New member
Username: Naughtyboy50s
Post Number: 23
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 08:09 pm: | 
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No matter how bruised my bottom gets, I do not cry! I wish I could! Does anyone ever get to that level, or is crying just for those who aren't spankophiles? |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2452
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 08:29 pm: |
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I don't cry from pain, I have had to endure a lot of physical pain for various reasons. When I do cry it is an emotional release.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 162
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 08:52 pm: |
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I too am one who doesn't cry. As M says, some people cry and some people laugh. It's a release." I laugh.
I have almost cried twice and teared up slightly once. Both times b/c I thought I couldn't take it. So it was from emotional distress.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 624
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 09:29 pm: |
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I'm with Fanny on this one. The very few times I've cried it has been an emotional release not pain. |
Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 14
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 09:52 pm: |
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I cry. I used to not cry, but after a while with my Dominant I had a punishment where I said I wanted to cry for him. He decided to spank me until I let go. That was probably one of the more severe beatings I've ever received (I was black and blue from my bottom down to my knees), but it did allow me to cry. Now I cry most of the time, once I get to know a top.
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 891
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 09:58 pm: |
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The only time I ever cry is if I'm really stressed out and need the release. I'll get really grumpy and then Dan will give me a stress-relief spanking which helps me release my stress. The length or severity of the spanking varies depending on how stressed I am. I just get to the point where I can't hold the tension in check any longer and I let the it go and have a good cry. For me, crying during that kind of spanking has nothing to do with the amount of pain, it's emotional. |
Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 475
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 02, 2006 - 08:40 am: |
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agrees with Bethie 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Uh_oh
New member
Username: Uh_oh
Post Number: 27
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 02, 2006 - 09:08 am: |
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i never cry and i am always disappointed with myself for never crying. i really want to get to that point during the session but it never ever happens. i do get teareyed but never expose myself in that way. i ALWAYS have my guard up and i never let myself get THAT vulnerable, i don't trust myself get that vulnerable. hopefully one day i'll be able to cry. |
Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 165
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 02, 2006 - 04:50 pm: |
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I don't feel the need or desire to cry. I wonder why that is. I guess I'm just not one who has a good cry when things get rough.
I do cry at sad movies or when something moves me, though.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 149
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 02, 2006 - 07:01 pm: |
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I also don`t cry, especially during my punishment spanking I wanted to cry... BUT, didnt  G doesnt lecture me during the spankings, he is quiet. Perhaps this is why. Maybe, in time. My last spanking he said something about this is what I deserve <g> it was nice.
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Naughtyboy50s
New member
Username: Naughtyboy50s
Post Number: 25
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 02, 2006 - 07:26 pm: |
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Ladygator,
I envy your relationship! You must be pretty special to have someone love you so much that they want to satisfy your needs despite not having the same desires! |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1054
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 02, 2006 - 08:10 pm: |
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Being in "that time of life" I tend to cry at corn flake commercials but I have never cried during a spanking. I think one reason is because my hubby never takes it that far. He's really soft hearted.
Bless him.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 444
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 02, 2006 - 08:45 pm: |
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First Shylah I love your new picture somehow even with me knowing that youa re not that old I think it fits your new status.
I am sorry to say that I do cry when getting a Bad girl spanking in fact it usually starts before he even starts spanking. Bill says that crying is crying because I'm getting a spanking not because I feel bad. However after a while the tears are real and Bill waits for them to determine if I had enough.
Now girl good spanking as not like that at all I don;t cry and I have been known to laugh- guess I have a tickle spot on my butt.
As far as commericals go I to can cry at from a corn flakes commerical but if it is a HAllmark Card commerical get out the big tissue becasue can't stop.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Mistydawn
Spanko
Username: Mistydawn
Post Number: 75
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 02, 2006 - 09:10 pm: |
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I cry. I cry at everything. I cry if it hurts too much , I cry if it doesn't hurt enough. I cry if it's the best I've ever had. I cry because it is having no effect. Like many have said it relieves stress and I seem to be stressed a lot so i cry. Crying is good !
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MistyDawn
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Learning to love and loving to learn
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Rex138
Spanko
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 65
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 03, 2006 - 01:14 pm: |
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I agree that you have to let your emotional guard down to cry sometimes. BUT if you REALLY want to cry from pain...
Take some lashes from a whip on the back!
Please note - Whip play can be dangerous and should not be approached lightly and without some caution and some research.
Safe play is ALWAYS first! 
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2458
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 03, 2006 - 02:40 pm: |
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Whips would not make me cry, Rex.
Pass out? Quite possibly. I cry easily over even trival things, but I can take a lot of pain.
Tears are a natural release, but some people need to allow themselves to do so. Many people see tears as a sign of weakness and do not allow them to flow. I don't suggest pain as a good way to learn to make yourself cry.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Rex138
Spanko
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 67
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 04, 2006 - 03:23 am: |
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Hi Fanny, interesting viewpoint. That's what I love about this site.
I can see your point and agree about letting your guard down.
So Fanny, is there nothing that could make you cry spanking-wise if you didn't allow yourself to?
Rex
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Tplayer
New member
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 33
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 04, 2006 - 01:46 pm: |
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I tend to giggle, I never have cried. "OucHHHH" is the most emotion I show, besides squirming!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2460
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 04, 2006 - 06:54 pm: |
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Rex, whenever I feel badly about something I have done, I will cry. If I have disappointed or hurt anyone I love, I cry, spanking or not.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Little_miss
New member
Username: Little_miss
Post Number: 17
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 05, 2006 - 02:06 am: |
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I've never cried during a spanking...maybe after once or twice. It's just the way i am i guess.
"Lately it just seems to me like we have the letters ADD branded into our mentality"
~Reliant K
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Sarahsbrat
New member
Username: Sarahsbrat
Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 05, 2006 - 11:19 am: |
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I cry. Sometimes if the spanking is really long and hard I actually sob...hysterically.
Not just any naughty brat...Sarahsbrat
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Bigmischiefmaker
New member
Username: Bigmischiefmaker
Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 05, 2006 - 02:30 pm: |
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I cry, but only with a spanker that I am very close with emotionally. And, I usually only cry if the spanking has a real tone to it (i.e. I did something I am ashamed of, etc) and then, usually only if he scolds me and gets into my head. Then I cry. Crying is usually not from pain, as I can play very, very hard and never cry, it is emotional and that has to be tapped into.
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Obx_peach
New member
Username: Obx_peach
Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 06, 2006 - 12:56 pm: |
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Hi This is my 1st post and I've only been spanked for the past 4 days so this is very new , Last night I asked him how he would feel if I cried and his reply was "Do you want me to make you cry ? " I was pleasently suprised by this reply but I didn't know what to say I was speachless
BTW How do you start a new thread ? I need to introduce my self and how I found the Spanking Den |
Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 498
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 06, 2006 - 01:03 pm: |
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Obx_peach....go to the Meet and Greet area...You can introduce yourself there
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 500
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 06, 2006 - 01:07 pm: |
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Oh...btw...when you go to any of the topic areas, and scroll all the way to the bottom, you will see the words "new thread"...that is how you start a new topic for discussion!
You will find this website to be one terrific place with great people to chat with
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 488
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 06, 2006 - 07:58 pm: |
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If the spanking is hard enough and I m truthfully sorry, no matter how hard I try not to, I always break down and cry... can't help it
The Princess of Spanking
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Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 176
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 06, 2006 - 10:58 pm: |
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I'm never truthfully sorry! ;)
Cheers,
Victoria
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 512
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 01:24 am: |
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LOL Victoria... I got a spanking about an hour ago and cried, not hysterically, but it was my first spanking since I got out of the hospital. I think I forgot how much they hurt. I mean I know I deserved it and maybe that's part of why I cried, but man it hurt more than I remember and that was only 6 or 7 weeks ago.
The Princess of Spanking
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Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 179
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 09:01 am: |
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They always seem to hurt more than I remember!
Cheers,
Victoria
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Czechchick
New member
Username: Czechchick
Post Number: 13
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 05:25 am: |
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If I don't cry then i haven't been spanked properly! I like best when I'm really crying and also kicking my legs and wriggling and i am still spanked some more. It hurts me a lot but it's always worth it for the feeling afterwards! |
Weasel
New member
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 9
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 03:37 pm: |
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I can see where being spanked as punishment for something I honestly regretted doing would make me cry - emotionally.
Sexy or erotic spankings make something other than my eyes all wet |
Sarahsbrat
New member
Username: Sarahsbrat
Post Number: 11
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 05:40 am: |
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All of my spankings, excluding the M one are discipline spankings. I cry but there have been a few times when I didn't and then I felt all bottled up, so got spanked again. I know there are a lot of peeps who don't though, which I find amazing!
Not just any naughty brat...Sarahsbrat
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