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Amarie
New member
Username: Amarie
Post Number: 9
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 08:58 pm: | 
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Has anyone been spanked while pregnant? Any thoughts on it? We're debating it right now.  |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 181
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 10:58 pm: |
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Yep I was ...does it hurt the kid ..NO !!!!
your child is high up and protected ..JUST make sure your not leaning on your belly too long go over a chair ..the back of a couch ..kneeling on the cousins ..what evber is comfortable. you WILL NOT HARM YOUR BABY
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Amarie
New member
Username: Amarie
Post Number: 10
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 08, 2006 - 01:10 am: |
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I can't lay on my tummy at all any more. The baby doth protest too much. She starts kicking me if I try to lay on my tummy.
Good to know. He's been worried about that. Though as vigorous as he can be during sex (TMI), I don't know why it's spanking he'd be worried about. |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 184
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 08, 2006 - 01:20 am: |
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lol yeah why is it ....that they can rock our world with out a care ..but to warm our derrier .. its a different story *S*
just remind him ..the baby is in the belly NOT THE BUTT ..lol
but yeah ..just support yourself kneeling on couch leaning against the back ...use pillows under belly ...if your finding your belly prevents you from reaching the back ...just to add support so when you do get smacked ..you do not jar your back (its for YOUR sake not babys )
if its an erotic one ..remind him your hormones are rageing ..and it may make you so ready for him ..HE MAY need to get protection from you so he can RECOVER ...and rest between times
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2461
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 08, 2006 - 08:43 am: |
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OTK worked for me while I was pregnant. My belly fit in between my husbands thighs.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 666
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 08, 2006 - 10:02 am: |
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It worked for me and my husband too. He spanked me right up the very day we had our daughter. Doesn't hurt the baby...like Fanny said...my belly fit between my husbands thighs and it worked out well.
You could also try lying on your side....experiment there are a few positions you can use.
Good luck!! |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 203
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 08, 2006 - 11:29 am: |
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lol oh i wish my belly fit between the hubbys knee ..at 6 months I was the shape of a 9 month preggy ..at 8 months I could NOT scratch my belly button ...the Dr ..up until the ultra sound thought i was having triplets .just a GIANT baby ..lol so the kneeling and chair worked ...ohh yeah so did that standing while he held my waist at his side(he has long arms ) while he smacked my backside
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Amarie
New member
Username: Amarie
Post Number: 11
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 12:49 am: |
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Hmmm, good ideas. Now to get him convinced. :D |
Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 203
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 10:02 am: |
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I read somewhere that paddling can be harmful for a pregnant woman b/c it jolts the baby. Is that misinformation? In terms of safety, I hope everyone really knows that what they are saying is true. Just b/c it didn't cause harm in some cases doesn't necessarily mean that it's a safe practice in general.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 217
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 10:31 am: |
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I guess it should be mentioned ...even though we assumed .. (Thank You Victoria_wood) That the use of sever impliments would NOT be good ..not only would be forced to put extra strain on your spine ..you could hurt yourself ..by pulling a back muscle ...just use hand or spoon ..or belt (lightly) stay away from the tools that make your body shift on impact ..you have enough strains on your skin and muscles you do not need others ..
and EXTREME spankings SHOULD BE AVOIDED ...
I am sorry we did not give full advice when we gave you our advice ..we just assumed.
to spank is fine ...if its for fun ..wack away ...then he better be prepared to be attacked , by the EXTREMLY erotic you ..(LOVED my pregancys for that effect )
but if for punishment .he does not need to wallop you .. he can do a lil harder a lil longer a lil faster ...and acchieve the same effects as if you were struck with a paddle in soreness .
Thank you so much Victoria_wood ...you were correct in bringing that to our attention ..we need to remember others are reading us thinking "OH yeah I read from her before that she took 500 hairbrush ...so its ok to go extreme .."" NO ITS NOT
we went so much easier when I was pregant.. still red still sore ..but LONGER (more fun )
Please DO NOT CAUSE BRUISING AT THIS POINT ..(hehe explain THAT to the Dr at the pelvic exam)
but do enjoy an nice hot red glow and then just have fun...after all his juices are a natural way to break the water when its time
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 931
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 03:19 pm: |
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You know, I almost said something about using implements, but since I've never been pregnant I stopped and didn't post my comment. I think that needed to be addressed for the spankos like me who never have a spanking without an implement. I think spanking and I think about implements. They two go hand in hand for some of us.
So, to carry this on, apparently heavy, thuddy implements are out of the question, but what about lighter ones? Or is it no implements at all? Does anyone here really know? I'm curious. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 685
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 03:30 pm: |
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I think we used a belt a couple of times. Mostly my husband just used his hand. I guess it just depends on the couple. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2466
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 03:48 pm: |
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R used his hand while I was pregnant, it was plenty as he uses it so well.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Hunny
New member
Username: Hunny
Post Number: 4
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 02:49 am: |
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Thank goodness someone asked this question!
I was wondering the same thing since I recently found out I was.
oh and how long should you wait after you give birth to start getting spanked agian because my fiance is keeping a book of any serious offence until after it's all done. (yuck)
~Victoria~ |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 227
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 03:04 am: |
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Hunny ... that is a personal choice ...
with my first kid I COULD do nothing ..till after the 6 week waiting period that you take before your even allowed intercourse .. but with baby number two ...it was nearly 2 weeks ...and then I was RED.
depends how the dilivery is done ..and how much pain your in ..remeber you NEED to heal first.oh and CONGRATULATIONS 
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Amarie
New member
Username: Amarie
Post Number: 12
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 03:54 pm: |
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He never uses anything other than a belt or his hand. I think most of it will be curtailed, anyway, since my hospital stay Wednesday. Oh well! |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 749
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 03:57 pm: |
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I'm sorry Amarie...are you okay??? |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2535
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 05:22 pm: |
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Amarie, do tell us that you and the baby are okay. How far along are you, dear?
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 955
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 05:47 pm: |
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There's a link to her blog in her profile that explains what happened.
Take care of yourself, Amarie!  |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 546
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 07:30 pm: |
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Amarie...I just read your last entry on your blog....Hang in there - I am sure things will be fine - Think good thoughts
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 249
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 08:59 pm: |
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the last few months ARE THE WORST ... add to it the waiting to hold the baby ....and not seing your feet .. the belly weight (those babies ARE heavy). Just hang in there ..it will be, all too soon, done ...and your lil one will make you relise it ...it was ALL worth it.
Good luck and take it easy ...
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Amarie
New member
Username: Amarie
Post Number: 13
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 17, 2006 - 11:52 pm: |
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The hospital stay was nothing, really. They thought it was early labor, but now they think it was a kidney stone.
Good news, though. Yesterday I found out I was having a girl. |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 983
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 18, 2006 - 12:08 am: |
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 Great news, Amarie! I'm so happy for you. Remember to take care of yourself! |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 254
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 18, 2006 - 01:14 am: |
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WOOOOOHOOOOOOO
Congrats .. awww a lil you running around the house
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 565
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 18, 2006 - 07:26 am: |
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Wow Amarie! I am so happy to learn that it wasn't early labor. Sorry to hear about he kidney stone - those aren't any fun whatsoeevr but much better than the aforementioned! Take care of yourself and drink plenty of fluids. Stay hydrated, especially in this heat.
The Princess of Spanking
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 760
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 18, 2006 - 02:51 pm: |
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Congradulations Amarie!!! I have 3 girls they are a lot of fun!!! |
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