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Tina
New member
Username: Tina
Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 02:59 pm: | 
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This is my first time posting on this type of website. I am new to the whole scene. Over the past week I have finally faced up to something I've known all along but I could never face. I need to be spanked good and hard for my misdeeds. I need frequent correction. This is a very liberating feeling for me to finally face this. Now I just need to find someone to punish me properly. Nice to meet you all. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 684
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 03:03 pm: |
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Hi Tina its nice to meet you!! Welcome to the Den!!!
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 219
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 05:30 pm: |
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Welcome to the den ..a great place to answer all those lil questions.
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1099
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 06:39 pm: |
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Hi Tina! Welcome to the Den!
We are tickled you joined us. Congratulations on admitting to yourself what you want and need.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 2
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 07:31 pm: |
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Welcome
You said…
Now I just need to find someone to punish me properly
How often and how severely?
Have you any fanatsies? |
Tina
New member
Username: Tina
Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 07:32 pm: |
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I have a question. I'm into the submission thing mostly because for me it is a sexual turn on. However I am not interested in a whole "lifestyle" where the dominant/submissive thing is going 24/7. I am a strong-willed, independent professional woman, but behind closed doors I am looking for a different situation, namely to be on the receiving end of an authoritarian relationship. Does that make me a fraud because I am basically just playing a game? Or perhaps I am just on one end of the spectrum. |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 220
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 07:45 pm: |
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nope not a fraud ...realistic .. PS .. move this to disscussion area ...so we can respond on it
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He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 518
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 07:52 pm: |
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Hi Tina 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 7
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 08:05 pm: |
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Does that make me a fraud because I am basically just playing a game? Or perhaps I am just on one end of the spectrum.
Definitely not a fraud, each person and relationship is different and in terms of a spectrum there isn’t, in my view, and end – it is continuous and stretches to infinity. There was another thread about broken skin. Not that isn’t my scene but it is for some. And so it goes on.
For me spanking (giving and receiving) is all part of a sexual turn on. That isn’t true for everyone on this site.
You say: behind closed doors I am looking for a different situation, namely to be on the receiving end of an authoritarian relationship. My guess is that there are many like you. And for me your description of what you want is a turn-on.
Have fun and don’t worry. |
Tina
New member
Username: Tina
Post Number: 3
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 08:29 pm: |
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Here's another question. I've been doing on-line personal ads for a while now and its time to update my profile to accomodate my new "interest." Is there a code word that is used in the scene to alert others as to what I am looking for? I hate to use the word "submissive", that seems kind of overly blunt. However I must send out some kind of a flag in order to lure in the proper suitor. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 688
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 08:32 pm: |
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Good questions...please move them to the discussion area.
Thanks!! |
Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 159
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 08:59 pm: |
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Hi TIna... welcome to the Den. You will enjoy it here 
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 10
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 02:04 am: |
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I think you have to say you are also looking to have sex and/or a relationship (casual or otherwise)....
And then see who responds....
(I would for example but I am a bit far away) |
Subbie
Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 64
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 02:04 pm: |
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Hi Tina, everyone is a little different, for me a spanking is a sexual experience and i want to be the sub 24/7 at home, out in the work world i am someone else.
There is no one right path, we each try and find what feels right for ourselves. and there are plenty who like this life style. good luck in finding the right person, and becareful too.
my name says it all
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Tplayer
New member
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 47
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 07:09 pm: |
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Welcome Tina. Good luck in your search. There are alot of toads out there!!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Raymond
New member
Username: Raymond
Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 11:23 am: |
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Hi everyone, this is my first post on any forum outside of photography and an absolute first for expressing out loud my need to be spanked by a beautiful woman who may in turn want a spanking herslf. I am 60 years old probably to old for most of you but I am a descent kind of guy and hurting someone is not in my nature at all. It has to be for the pleasure of it. Maybe someone out there will talk with me about this fantasy that I have. |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1115
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 12:17 pm: |
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Hello Raymond, why don't you start your own new thread here to introduce yourself
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Weasel
New member
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 5
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 02:28 pm: |
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Hi Tina. You're not alone. It amazes me how many of us are take-charge no-nonsense alpha's out in the work world but our desires in our private lives is so different. |
Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 523
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 17, 2006 - 12:21 am: |
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Welcome and I can totally relate... in my normal life I take charge of everything and then with Jake I turn into such a little girl... I can't explain it, so why fight it you know? Enjoy your time here and happy spankings!
The Princess of Spanking
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