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Little_miss
New member
Username: Little_miss
Post Number: 22
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 12:20 am: | 
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i had no clue that wooden paddles were so painful! We always used thin ones and i just imagined that thicker ones would be hotter and more exciting...i can usually take 50 hits with anything but after 3 with a wooden paddle i was almost in tears..it's so vicious! how many hits can you guys usually take? Am I a wuss?
"Lately it just seems to me like we have the letters ADD branded into our mentality"
~Reliant K
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1011
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 12:31 am: |
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You're not a wuss! We all have different levels of tolerance and preferences. Myself, I don't like big wooden paddles but I enjoy the smaller ones because they have sting as well as thud. I'm a big fan of sting with a nice side of thud.  |
Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 21
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 12:40 am: |
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I don't like big wooden paddles *at all*. Actually, I hate them. They are pretty much my least favorite impliment (after the ones that have personal negative conotations mentally). That said, I've had to endure a few rounds with them.
To answer your quesiton little miss, I think the most I've taken in any one session was at shadowlane in Feb. during a spanking contest. We each took a set of ten swats with the paddle, followed by a set of 30. The ten swats were over clothes, the 30 were half clothes, half bare. However, in general I struggle to get through a 10 or 12 swat "school style" paddling. I don't think you're a wimp because of this, experiencing that type of pain can be quite surprising. It isn't the same as other impliments.
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Nicenick06
Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 59
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 08:02 am: |
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Well it depends on the paddle and whose yielding it and how hard it is being done.
Every one has limits.
One day you may take one and another day 3…
Take Care
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 597
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 06:24 pm: |
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You are not a wuss at all!!!! I hate wooden paddles - Jake and I only use them for discipline, not for play and I usually tear. They are extremely painful! OMG!!!
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Tplayer
Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 84
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 06:47 pm: |
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Wood is a killer when applied hard. Lighter paddles are okay. Wood goes deep, and causes long lasting bruises on me. Leather is much easier to take. And I think lexan is alot easier to take than wood. No wuss are you Little Miss.
It's all a matter of perspective
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Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 192
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 08:00 pm: |
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My last punishment spanking ( the one for leaving the cell phone accidentally off for 4 hours) was ten smacks with the frat paddle.. a brief pause and ten more! It was the first time I had tears.. man that sucker stings... hubby packs a powerful sting. I was glad when it was over 
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 193
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 08:02 pm: |
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YIKES... correction! ten smacks total... five then a pause and then five more! Twenty total would have killed me!!!!!!! anyone do twenty? enquiring minds want to know ...Grin....
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 453
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 08:08 pm: |
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Not being able to chose when it cmes to a punishment spanking I can tell you that all wooden paddles hurt. we have some that have a finish on them that makes them stingy and thuggy at the same time. I usually can feel it the next day and dear hubby says that's why he uses them to remind me the next day to be a good girl. The most I ever got with a wooden paddle was 50. I was crying and sobbing by 15.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1772
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 10:58 pm: |
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I now receive the CB for breaking curfew, and got my first (and hopefully last!) dose recently. Up to this point I'd only felt it in play, so the disciplinary aspects were eye opening to say the least. OUCH!!!
Ive been very good about going to bed on time ever since.... 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 607
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 11:19 pm: |
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I can totally related Wolfie - prior to Jake I was never disciplined and only played and the paddle is an entirely different issue when it is used for disciplinary reasons.
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 787
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 22, 2006 - 05:14 pm: |
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I hate our big wooden paddle so much it is "lost" I hope FOREVER!! Wood can be very ouchie!!! |
Czechmate
New member
Username: Czechmate
Post Number: 15
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 23, 2006 - 06:11 pm: |
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Paddles too painful?
I have a couple of slender canes if you'd prefer,
waxed and ready for whacking? Hmmm?
Speak up girl you're mumbling!  |
Uh_oh
New member
Username: Uh_oh
Post Number: 29
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 24, 2006 - 08:48 am: |
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a few days ago i got over 100 with a thick wooden paddle...it was purely for punishment...i was a very very bad girl. i deserved it all but damn was i jumping after the 5th one. |
Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1775
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 24, 2006 - 09:47 am: |
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Ummmmm Checkmate...I DONT THINK SO! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 585
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 24, 2006 - 10:32 am: |
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yeah...I know we talked about this topic once before - exactly HOW many swats someone can take with a certain implement - and I gotta say....
over 100? It still surprises me. Isn't there worry of broken skin? or other serious complications? **imho of course**
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 794
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 24, 2006 - 11:30 am: |
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I'm with you Pink!!
Something else I was wondering....WHO counts???
I know I cant count while being spanked, not a serious spanking...counting is the LAST thing I want to do. My husband isn't counting....he has other things on his mind!! |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 587
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 24, 2006 - 02:11 pm: |
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 ...yeah...us too!
I tried counting once........it was during a birthday spanking. I was having so much fun that I kept screwing up the numbers - so he would try to start over!! I stop counting!!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2561
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 24, 2006 - 02:41 pm: |
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I don't like the distraction of counting. It takes away from being "in the moment"
Starting straight off with a paddle is usually what causes bruising. My husband always gets me nice and warmed up with his hand before we picks up the paddle. By then, it doesn't take much force with the padddle to make me FEEL it.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 25
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 24, 2006 - 06:42 pm: |
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I have to count for actual punishments with my Dominant, and sometimes at the studio. If the numbers get to a certain point, or if my spanker wants to go faster I usually stop. Fast spanking is too hard for me to keep up with.
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Bonnie
New member
Username: Bonnie
Post Number: 4
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 24, 2006 - 07:43 pm: |
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I have a slightly different perspective. Spankos often talk about how different a cane or a strap can feel depending upon how they are applied. In my experience, this can be equally true of wooden paddles.
I agree that a heavy paddle swung with full force is extreme. However, a thinner, lighter paddle when used with a flicking motion can be very erotic (at least for me). The result is a pink, warm bottom, but no serious damage.
There are many types of paddles and almost as many ways to employ them. Some combinations are very much to my liking. Other are not. So do I like wooden paddles? It depends... |
Jeanie36
New member
Username: Jeanie36
Post Number: 1
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 25, 2006 - 11:50 am: |
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Bonnie voiced what I was thinking. I used to think that I hated wooden implements (heavy paddles & the cane). My boyfriend demonstrated that they can be sensuous. I used to love this certain razor strop (because I'd only experienced moderate strokes with it & loved the radiant warmth). My boyfriend took the thing to me for twenty hard licks and disabused me of that notion. Like knowledge, it's all in the application. But to sum up, I once had a horrendous session with a wooden hairbrush, so I know what made you write, Little Miss.
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1200
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 25, 2006 - 11:55 am: |
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I hate wooden paddles. I keep telling my hubby that he doesn't need to use one!! His hand is plenty hard enough! He says it keeps his hand from stinging. I say if my butt is stinging his hand should also!!
So he smacked me again with the paddle and said...No
Old fart
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 590
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 25, 2006 - 02:07 pm: |
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"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 632
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 07:32 am: |
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I prefer a caning to a paddling any day!
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 809
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 10:28 am: |
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If paddles can be sensuous I would like to give that a try. Our wood paddle....is anything but sensuous....but if it could be done....I might just be willing to give it a try!!  |
Weasel
Spanko
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 78
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 10:49 am: |
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No experience with wood paddles except the ol' hickory spoon. Stingy and thuddy both. Wicked.
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 811
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 01:51 pm: |
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Weasel....I like that word...Wicked!!
Wood is Wicked....stingy and thuddy....just plain Wicked.
I'm still open to the sensuous..... just haven't felt that with wood.....yet..... |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 600
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 02:37 pm: |
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lol...try saying that 3 times....."wood is wicked"
I have experience both wood and leather paddles (leather is my fav)....but wood can be erotic and sensuous; that depends on the spanker ....and the type of paddle used.
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 643
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 11:07 pm: |
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LOL Pink!!!!
But I am so with you there Tammy. I got paddled earlier and paddles are the worst! I hate them I hate them I hate them!
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 815
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 10:21 am: |
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Me too Katie!!!
I prefer leather!!! |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 604
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 11:15 am: |
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 ....mmmmm....me three!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Paq13
New member
Username: Paq13
Post Number: 6
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 04:30 am: |
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nothing like having a woodshop and being forced to make a paddle with holes in it while knowing it's goign to be used on you within an hour...
as for how many..depends...i have had broken skin and that weird, hard bruised feeling after 20 and have only been bright red after 250 over the course of an afternoon...
just depends on how she's wielding it. |
Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 653
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 04, 2006 - 06:59 am: |
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Got paddled not too long ago and am sitting on ice and repeating the mantra of this post over and over in my head, LOL : "Paddles = hellish!"
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 207
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 04, 2006 - 07:09 pm: |
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I packed our three wooden paddles,, in preparation for the move, I purchased two cute flyswatters instead moving men wont think anything of them. Will hubby miss the wood? probably, but I look forward to the plastic 
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 670
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 05, 2006 - 03:27 am: |
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LOL Gator - it sounds like you are feeling better and that makes me happy... good luck with the move and I'm sure the movers will think nothing of the swatters, LOL...
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Atomicpuppy
New member
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 14
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, August 05, 2006 - 05:47 pm: |
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I hate wooden paddles also.I find them a bit too heavy and thuddy.I prefer something a bit more stingy.Like leather straps or the tawse or even the slipper,not so sure about the cane as we have not really used them,but each to their own,right? |
Sarahsbrat
New member
Username: Sarahsbrat
Post Number: 40
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 09:55 am: |
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Damn, I have never counted so have to clueBut these are what she has except for the spghetti thingie.
Of them all the worst is that damn purple paddle that came from America from a Toppie friend who had it made by a Dom friend of hers.
Yeah handmade just for us, whoopie.
Not just any naughty brat...Sarahsbrat
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Sarahsbrat
New member
Username: Sarahsbrat
Post Number: 41
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 09:59 am: |
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well that didnt work bah! It was too big so I am on my way upstairs to take another one Buggerit!
Not just any naughty brat...Sarahsbrat
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Tansy
New member
Username: Tansy
Post Number: 16
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 22, 2006 - 10:04 am: |
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sorry to ask this as i'm sure it's been answered before, but i urgently need to find out how to take more with paddle type things!
the boyfriend just came back from work for lunch, and as the house was empty and i was frisky, i swiftly ended up bent over the bed being spanked...he started with his hand and i was loving it so much i asked for the hairbrush...(sorry, i know it's not a paddle but as it's small, thick and wooden i guess it's similar)
anyway, i was enjoying it all, arching my back appreciatively, and then he STOPPED...and wouldn't give me any more because he was hitting pretty hard and i was barely wincing, and i had those instant puurple bruise thingies...
the frustration!!! so yes...paddles and hairbrushes ARE evil. i love the feel of them but please tell me how to avoid numb bottom syndrome and the weird instant bruises!
or, failing that, is it ok to keep spanking even if you are nearly numb? it was feeling good, i was happy. i think he was worried by my lack of reaction and the bruising-of course i'm glad he cares for me, but i really wanted more!
sorry for rambling- i really need advice because we get this problem a lot! |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1074
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 22, 2006 - 04:08 pm: |
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Tansy, have you tried getting a good leather strap? You can get well-constructed ones that are heavy enough to deliver a good thuddy spank but won't make you bruise as much or get as numb as quickly as wood.
We have a good heavy strap from Leather Thorn Paddles (simply called "Strap" and has a basket weave pattern on the back) that I love because it's nice and thuddy as well as stingy and a leather frat paddle that has a steel spring inside (from Extreme Restraints I think?)
If you're committed to wood you might tell your spanker to alternate between using the wood implement and his hand or something lighter during the spanking. You might also try getting a light wooden paddle like the paddleball ones we mention from time to time; the CB paddles that can occasionally be found at Cracker Barrel.
Speaking of the CB paddle, I'm looking for a reliable online source and have had good luck with one company for the Classic paddle (puzzlemethis.com) and very bad service with another company I'm still battling with. Grrr! But I'm still looking for a source for the Tournament style. |
Tansy
New member
Username: Tansy
Post Number: 19
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 23, 2006 - 04:44 am: |
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thanks bethie...that's really helpful advice. i would love a leather paddle but living in a student house, secrecy is important so it might be tricky. (buying a buttplug was a nightmare, everyone was like 'OOOOH a package, open it, open it!' 
i'll try the alternation thing too...maybe this lunchtime!
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Atomicpuppy
Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 73
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 23, 2006 - 05:54 pm: |
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Bethie I'm not quite sure what sort of paddle you are looking for,but have you tried Amazon?
Type in paddleball you will get several,any good? |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1083
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 23, 2006 - 09:32 pm: |
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I'm about to go off-topic but I'll move this discussion to its own thread if I need to.
Atomic, we're looking for a specific paddleball game. If you'll look at this thread Where else can I buy a cb paddle you'll see what I'm talking about.
The paddles are referred to as CB paddles because you can buy them at a few Cracker Barrel stores but they were made by the BC company. That makes it a little confusing, I know! They're great spanko toys though because of their size and durability. Unluckily the manufacturer that had provided them seems to have gone out of business. |
Atomicpuppy
Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 92
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, September 02, 2006 - 02:52 pm: |
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Yes I see.The only one that seems to be available is the classic,but there are a few sites that might be able to make you the paddle rather than trying to find it.Though someone must have it. |
Whereartthoux3
New member
Username: Whereartthoux3
Post Number: 4
Registered: 09-2006
| | Posted on Monday, September 25, 2006 - 10:46 pm: |
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I dunno, though Mark has hinted about starting to use one. He thinks I'm getting too naughty for just the hand now...=( eek now i'm worried that this is gonna hurt like crazy, especially since i'm used to the hand. =P |
Ma_vie_en_rose
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 236
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, September 26, 2006 - 01:58 am: |
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Weasel, Oh yes, those wooden spoons are the worst.
...then again, I say this mostly having been spared straps, canes, and paddles.  but they're worse than riding crops! |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1360
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, September 26, 2006 - 07:13 am: |
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We use wooden paddles more than anything else.
The trick...just let it fall naturally. You don't need to use force behind them. The wood is stingy enough due to the fact that is does not give way and your skin does. It's possible to take quite a lot of smacks with one if the spanker doesn't use force behind it. There is minimal risk of bruising also if it's used this way. My hubby has spanked me several times with a wooden paddle (and I STILL don't like em!) and he has never bruised me.
Caution! ONLY spank with a wooden paddle on the cheeks! Avoid hitting the hips with one and avoid the tailbone area. There are nerve endings in the hips and you can cause damage. A tailbone is sturdy and can take falling on your backside but repeated smacks with an implement can cause it to chip or break. The cheeks and the "sit spot" are the best places to aim for.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1235
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 10:02 am: |
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Sounds like you have studied this in great detail Shylah....
Guess Ol'B taught you a thing or two about the paddle?? |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1365
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, September 29, 2006 - 08:38 pm: |
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SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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