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Czechmate
New member
Username: Czechmate
Post Number: 10
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 03:13 am: | 
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Much as I have been entertained by the exploits of all the charming, pretty and despicably naughty girls of this den- I have one serious concern- You all seem to be enjoying yourselves far too much! I fear discipline is not what it could be in your households, your tops are, it seems not putting any effort in. As for all this 'cuddling and holding' afterwards' I'm appalled. My Spankees are sent, after their walloping straight to stand in the corner of the room or to sit on the stair to consider their future conduct.
What chance of improvement can we expect. If you are all out there having "fun"?
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Naughtyboy50s
New member
Username: Naughtyboy50s
Post Number: 31
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 05:50 am: |
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Czech,
I absolutely agree! The spot for a naughty girl is in the corner both before and after her bottom is smacked pink! |
Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 191
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 07:03 am: |
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I am never sent to the corner and hubby prefers it that way. This does not mean that my punishment spanking was not effective!
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Nicenick06
Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 55
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 07:38 am: |
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I agree with Ladygator...
What does the 2904 mean?
Birthday? |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 564
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 09:42 am: |
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birthday?
that would mean she was born Feb 9, 1904 ???
I don't think so!!
poor LadyG!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 766
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 10:06 am: |
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Sorry Czechmate My husband doesn't do corners either. We don't always have snuggle time afterward either. But I can tell you that his spankings are VERY effective!!  |
Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1770
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 10:07 am: |
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Or Feb. 9, 2004? Wouldnt that make her babyG? 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 565
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 10:08 am: |
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We don't do corner time either...but like Tammy, my hubby's spankings are very effective as well.
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 261
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 10:31 am: |
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Sorry Not a corner type of girl here ....I am WAY to old to be facing one . and really the punishment is done ..why beat a dead horse and drag it out? Kinda pointless for both of us.(In our Oppionion)
(and when punished by my hubby ...it is NOT the same as when he puts on the Dom, when its for just attitude its DOM time ....when its due to risking my health its hubby I can tell the difference ..when he is Dom its all work ..and then he leaves the room ...but Hubby does and then comforts ..to show WHY he did it and that he cares)
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Nicenick06
Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 70
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 11:28 am: |
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I am with Gator, BB (Blistering_Blonde), Tammynx (what does the nx stand for?) and Pinkcheeks (why not red?)
In fact the punishment and pleasure boundary is getting very blurred… |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 566
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 12:04 pm: |
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my my Nick...you are an inquisitive guy aren't you?
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 772
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 12:06 pm: |
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Sorry but asking about the questions about names takes us off topic.
Nick you could start a new thread and ask away!!
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 449
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 12:52 pm: |
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My husbadn does spank very hard and yes I do corner time but that only last a little while and than all the fuun takes over the hugging and kissing
Besides who say we really want to change behoavior for some of us getting spanked is soemthing we can't live without. I know if my butt does have attention in a while I get cranky.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Czechmate
New member
Username: Czechmate
Post Number: 11
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 03:26 pm: |
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I din't really expect any kind of marked improvement, but some attempt at contriteness would be satisfying, I blame that silly King George- frankly you ladies in the colonies have been on a downward slope since 1783!
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Subbie
Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 73
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 03:35 pm: |
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I do corner time but the spankings are erotic and not for punishment, that doesn't mean I doesn't get a very red bottom and sore afterwards, but after a little corner time comes bedroom fun...
my name says it all
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 593
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 06:06 pm: |
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Not sent to the corner or to sit or kneel on a hard surface... if it's a punishment spanking, Jake holds me and rubs lotion on my bum, and talk. Then he'll get ice for me and treat me like a princess... BUT... if it's an erotic spanking, we do something else, LOL...
although we have roleplayed where I was a naughty student and wore a uniform we ordered and he wore a suit and I got corner time then... but I don't think it was very long because neither of us could stand it, LOL...
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 263
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 06:15 pm: |
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Kate LOL
Oh sure corner time in play ....you GOT to love that *S*
yeah why is it when its in play ....the men have a VERY hard time ..waiting ..I mean sheesh .. someone should teach them to wait ..umm but not me ..I am usually the one teasing with looks and suggestions.
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 596
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 06:22 pm: |
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haha BB!!! I do the same thing!!! I do the spanking dance and rub my bum even though it doesn't hurt that bad and then look back at him with a pouty face... that's a lot of fun!!!! And I'm with you man, they should have to wait, LOL!!! 
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 264
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 20, 2006 - 06:48 pm: |
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lol ...make them do the corner time ...I am too busy teasing *S* lol
yep in play is fun...but never for real for me
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 603
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 05:56 am: |
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Same here - great in play especailly depending on the r/p scenario but we don't use it is r/l - neither of us think it would do anything and for us, once the spanking is over, it's over and I am held - no need to spend time in corners... unless I am in a schoolgirl outfit and we're playing, that is, LOL...
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Kryssi
Spanko
Username: Kryssi
Post Number: 86
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 02:41 pm: |
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We've done corner time a few times, but that's only in between spankings.. like, if I'm in a really bad mood and yelling, or something then I get one spanking followed by corner time, then another one.. but never if it's just one spanking, 'cause it's kinda pointless.. get the point across and be done with it..
"I wasn't armoured, you were king, I gave my everything, Because sometimes you showed me just a hint of you and then. For just a moment I romanticised the notion, I can take away the torment, I can love you like they never did"
~Darren Hayes~
Unlovable
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 608
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 11:21 pm: |
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that's how i feel - he has brought up the idea of corner time btw spankings but neither of us think it would do anything and personally, if I am getting spanked for discipline, I would rather just get it over with.
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Amarie
New member
Username: Amarie
Post Number: 19
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 11:36 pm: |
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I don't do corners.
I have a friend who tries to point out to me that the point of corner time in a punishment spanking is the "standing in the corner before the spanking waiting for it" type of deal. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 785
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 22, 2006 - 11:57 am: |
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I'm with you Amarie...I dont do corners either!! |
Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 24
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 22, 2006 - 02:25 pm: |
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When I've done corner time it's actually usually been separate from spanking. It is a punishment all to itself. My Dominant starts at half an hour and goes up from there. The longest I've ever been in the corner at one time was two hours. I'd definately rather have the spanking.
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Fwmc
New member
Username: Fwmc
Post Number: 2
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 25, 2006 - 04:23 pm: |
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Corner time in our case is before the punishment begins. If gives my s/o time to anticipate the puniishment and me time to view a delightfully nude woman in a totally submissive situation. s/o reports that she feels very submissive while waiting in the corner for her spanking. |
Naughtyboy50s
New member
Username: Naughtyboy50s
Post Number: 32
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 25, 2006 - 04:32 pm: |
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It is all cerebral!
Corner time is meant to excite the miscreant with anticipation of the stinging pain to follow- It is a sexual stimulant for a spankophile! |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 799
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 25, 2006 - 08:10 pm: |
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It is??? |
Fwmc
New member
Username: Fwmc
Post Number: 4
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 25, 2006 - 09:06 pm: |
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Tammynx and the other reluctant subs, as a spanker, I encourage you to try it once. The spankee should stand in the corner before punishmnet, she should as bare as possible. She should be aware that taking her head out of the corner or other looking around will result in immediate punishment. The corner she stands in should be located where her S/O can watch her and enjoy her submission.
And I definitely agree with some of the posts above that say after the punishment is over she should be cuddled, kissed, praised, cherished and treated as the treasure she truely is until her pleasure is complete. By then my cup will have runth over. |
Tplayer
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 111
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 25, 2006 - 09:44 pm: |
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I agree tha corner time is a submissive act. Some only spank for pleasure, but I think submission is a part of the scenario.
It's all a matter of perspective
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 276
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 25, 2006 - 10:36 pm: |
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Fwmc ..
Again I state my case ...corners are not for the Adult me..
I do not care about the submission others find it gives them ...in truth ...I find them pointless as a punishment ..
the anticapition for me is sitting there ..watching as he lectures me ..slowly slapping his hand with the first tool he will use on me ... with a low calm tone ..and the look in his eye ..
Gawd that LOOK
... a corner would actually be relaxing I would not have to see that look and focus on that tool.
Heck give me the corner .I would LOVE time to myself ..just think of the mental shopping list I would have time to get done 
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Fwmc
New member
Username: Fwmc
Post Number: 5
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Monday, June 26, 2006 - 07:54 am: |
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Some boats float in salt water, some on fresh and some in between. As long as your boat floats, life is fine. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 802
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, June 26, 2006 - 10:40 am: |
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Naughtyboy50 said that corner time was a sexual stimulant....and Fwmc is saying that it is an act of submission. I think it must vary greatly between people.
I do think it is an act of submission just not one that my husband and I practice. In my opinion it isn't a sexual stimulant...but what do I know maybe it is for some. |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1208
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 27, 2006 - 04:37 pm: |
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I don't do corners...I don't do windows and I don't brat...
Why am I here again????
I'm lost.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 279
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 27, 2006 - 05:37 pm: |
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LOL You do not do windows Shylah ...but I thought you wanted to soap your neibours windows just fine the other day *S*
ok back on topic ...
Corners ...
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Sexybrat
New member
Username: Sexybrat
Post Number: 1
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 12, 2006 - 11:30 am: |
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I'd love some corner time...or anything remotely non vanilla!!!I found all of your comments interesting, such a wide range of answers with different reasons. I'm curious about what naughtyboy said...how stimulating is it for the guy watching his naughty sub in the corner? |
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