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Ewsbmad
Spanko
Username: Ewsbmad
Post Number: 53
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 01:38 pm: | 
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My husband has shared our DD arrangment in our house which basically means that I spank his bare bottom when needed, which is usually a couple of times a week. I have enjoyed the responses and suggestions from the board members, a special thank you to Blistering Blond on the GOODY brush, it is quickly becoming one of my favorites.
The input I am asking for today is a suggestion on a spanking I plan on giving him tonight. I usually turn him over my knee for the spanking so there is never a problem keeping him in positon for the spanking. Tonight I will be spanking him with a rubber school strap so the OTK position will not work very well because of the length of the strap. I will have him bend over a desk that will position his bottom perfect for the spanking and allow me to spank him properly with the strap.
So any suggestions on the following:
- How do I make certain he stays in position for the spanking, I am sure the strap will have him jumping around.
- Spankings in our house are always bare bottom, do I have him lower his pants to his ankles or take them completly off. Will having them around his ankles help keep him in place?
For a little fun I plan on dressing like a stern teacher, hair up, blue skirt and dark pantyhose. The entire should go well with his cherry red bottom.
Thanks everyone..Sue |
Wilson
New member
Username: Wilson
Post Number: 5
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 03:15 pm: |
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Set a straight-backed dining room type chair in the middle of the room. He will think that you are going to sit and put him over your knee.
In fact have him approach the chair from the back and bend over far enough to grab the seat.
Have two peices of rope ready to tie his wrists to the uprights (while he grips the seat) if he moves to avoid the strokes.
The taller the chair back the better...as it will stretch those gludious muscles...he should be on tip-toe, weight on the chair!
This is a real effective position...take it from the voice of experience.
If there is a lesson he must learn... have him stand naked at the back of the chair--stareing at the strap or whatever will take it's toll on his backside, scold him good and leave him there for 15-20 minutes to anticipate what is coming!
Let us know what you did...Wilson
***If you can't be good.....be good at IT !!***
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Ewsbmad
Spanko
Username: Ewsbmad
Post Number: 54
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 03:47 pm: |
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Wilson,
I do not really want to tie his wrists, I want him to develop the self control. I was thinking of giving him a set numbers of swats with the strap ( not sure how many ) and if he moves then I will add to the number.
Either way i want to make sure sitting is not an option later this evening.
Sue |
Wilson
New member
Username: Wilson
Post Number: 6
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 04:37 pm: |
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Sue,
Tieing is a option, only if he will not hold the position you place him in, until you tell him he can get up.
On my chairs the upright spindles stick up about six inches above the cross member...so one can't just slide out of the position without letting go...which would be a big mistake at my house.
As for the set number...I never give or get a set number...It gives the spankee a goal!...To last for X-number, the mind is on the number!
You may have in mind what he should get, but, don't let on...it makes it much more real.
You will be able to tell when the lesson is clear, or as you say, sitting will be avoided.
You never let on...is there a lesson he must learn from this ?
***If you can't be good.....be good at IT !!***
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 280
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 05:39 pm: |
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Your VERY WELCOME *S*
Lol . ok more advice ...
I agree with the chair ..but have him GRIP the seat ..should he move ..you could add so many hits ..or start over ..
either way he learns fast to stay still
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Ewsbmad
Spanko
Username: Ewsbmad
Post Number: 55
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 05:52 pm: |
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Blistering Blond.. Your advise is always welcome. I have a chair that will work just fine. I love the idea if he moves add more hits or start over, I am sure I can make him jump with a good smack of the strap. Any thoughts on how many smacks to start? remember red is my favorite color
Sue |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 281
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 05:58 pm: |
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LOL would LOVE to help you here
....but ...thats the wrong side for me ..I am always on the recieving end .and have NO IDEA when my rear goes from pink, to red, to crimson, to corral , to white ..I am TOO busy screaming .. and howling ..and stomping my foot as I recieve my share of the tools .
(not always fair ...I only actually get to feel the tool for a second at a time ..but MAN does that second leave LONG lasting impressions)
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Ewsbmad
Spanko
Username: Ewsbmad
Post Number: 56
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 07:40 pm: |
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Blistering Blond,
I must correct myself, crimson is my favorite shade of red. Being on the giving end I enjoy watching his bottom go from pink to red to redder to really really red...you get my drift.
I still do not know how many spanks to start with and spanking time is in less then 3 hours. So if anyone has any suggestions please reply. |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 282
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 08:09 pm: |
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Sue ..
I can not advice you on the number of hits ...
I do not know how fast his rear turns red ...how hard you have to hit ..nor have I ever experienced the rubber school strap .I would advice that you go by sight then ..
Think of a number ..but if his rear is getting flat white areas STOP (thats the sign of tissue damage and a sure sign he is bruising where ever it went white ..)but should you reach the number and feel he is not red enough...go ahead add 5 more then another 5 (remember I do not know the extent of this tool ..ANYONE know what it does to flesh ???) until you reached your desired effect ..you could start with 20 (is that too much for this tool???) and keep going till his rear is on fire to your desire
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 646
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 28, 2006 - 11:39 pm: |
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Jake adds extra swats when I move so sometimes I move but this alone is motivation for me not to move - perhaps this might be something you'll want to try. Good luck!
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Mhw3rd
New member
Username: Mhw3rd
Post Number: 5
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, October 05, 2006 - 05:30 pm: |
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If you Are punishing him twice a week, you are being much to easy. If he cannot behave better then that, then he is not afraid of your punishments and is just playing with you.
Placing him in bondage actually protects him from twisting and hurting his back as well as holds your target in place for you.
Maybe most important, if he cannot move around he will concentrate on the pain of the punishment instead of jumping around and the punishment will be more effective.
How many strokes? you ask, as many as it takes so his behavior greatly improves so that you only have to punish him once in a while. Increase the amount and force or upgrade to a cane until he obeys you better.
You will both find that his submission of good behavior to you will make you both happier then you just serving up his playfull spanking fun for him. |
Nicenick06
Advanced Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 155
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, October 15, 2006 - 09:33 am: |
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I am little late as this spanking is over and done with.
Can we have feedback please?
My input would have been;
Completely bare.
No trousers round ankles - it doesn’t restrain.
Don’t restrain unless he enjoys it.
Extra strokes if he moves.
(to be given immediately and/or later)
Nick |
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