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Wilson
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Username: Wilson
Post Number: 3
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, July 06, 2006 - 01:32 pm: | 
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Come-on men...do you cry when spanked ?
I've never cryed during an adult spanking...and I've gotten it pretty good... 
 
***If you can't be good.....Be good at it !***
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Wilson
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Username: Wilson
Post Number: 4
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, July 06, 2006 - 01:36 pm: |
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Ladies...I didn't want to leave you out...sorry!
Does your man cry when you spank him ?
***If you can't be good.....Be good at it !***
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 852
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 06, 2006 - 02:50 pm: |
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Sorry Wilson I don't spank men at all...but mostly I would never ever spank my husband.
He would never let it happen even if I tried. |
Wilson
New member
Username: Wilson
Post Number: 5
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, July 06, 2006 - 03:39 pm: |
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Tamm...
Thanks for your response.
In our DD both have the right to call the other to the carpet !
I admit I get it much more often than she does, and severe when I show any disrespect toward her.
***If you can't be good.....Be good at it !***
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 854
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 06, 2006 - 04:43 pm: |
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Well if that is what works for you then thats great!!
I get it I would say severe when I show disrespect. That is something my husband does NOT tolerate. |
Znut21
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Username: Znut21
Post Number: 4
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Friday, July 21, 2006 - 01:51 am: |
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I have never cried during a spanking but sometimes my girlfriend will. I guess it all depends on the situation. |
Paul_puckett
New member
Username: Paul_puckett
Post Number: 2
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 03:40 pm: |
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I have yet to cry during a spanking, but would love to experience what I imagine is a cathartic release. My "not crying" may be a result of not being in a committed relationship, so my spankings have been more of a casual nature, play, etc. I think it takes a good headspace and absolute emotional comfort with the spanker to enable spanking. |
Paul_puckett
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Username: Paul_puckett
Post Number: 3
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 03:41 pm: |
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oooooooooops, that should have been to "... enable crying." So much for proofing ... |
Nicenick06
Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 81
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 29, 2006 - 06:48 am: |
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Not yet
Nick |
Atomicpuppy
Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 51
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, August 10, 2006 - 04:50 pm: |
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Haven't cried yet,but I've been in some pain.
Maybe I can take more than expected,but then I guess we all can. |
Nicenick06
Advanced Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 127
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, August 10, 2006 - 06:00 pm: |
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NO!
At least not yet.
Neither have I made a female cry yet. |
Atomicpuppy
Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 60
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, August 17, 2006 - 05:00 pm: |
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Of all the guys here why do you not cry? Is this a macho thing?
And girls why do you(or not) cry?
Do men hit harder than women?
Maybe it is just more women are beaten than men?
Your thoughts. |
Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 244
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, August 18, 2006 - 07:28 pm: |
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I cried only once. It was a nice emotional release.
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1059
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 06:57 pm: |
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I can't really answer as to why I don't cry. It isn't like some of the spankings don't hurt...they do some of them a lot. I cried once and it wasn't from the pain...it was just a release of a lot of pent up emotions.
I wish I could cry more often. I really wish I knew why I can't/don't. |
Cpchevi
New member
Username: Cpchevi
Post Number: 4
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 09:02 pm: |
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I have a wierd natual ability to make my females cry before their spanking. from the scolding. I have a couple of them cry from pain but I have seen a lot more emothional "guilt" crying than "Pain" crying. |
Spkrbryan
New member
Username: Spkrbryan
Post Number: 11
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Monday, August 21, 2006 - 08:07 pm: |
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When my g/f Dee and her g/f Raven get together to punish their boy toy David, he cries, screams, begs, and blubbers out incoherent nonsense. David is not what you would call a manly kind of guy, but I think any guy would make noise while in a session with Dee and Raven.
Bryan
If it breathes, Spank it!
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Weasel
Advanced Spanko
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 150
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 23, 2006 - 01:04 pm: |
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My guy and I are still new-ish to this spanking scene, since I came out to him earlier this year about my desire to be spanked. I found that he wasn't quite "getting it" after he laughed at my having made a (rather nice) leather covered paddle, complete with whip-stitching around the edge. He laughed!
I thought about it for a few days, posted here about it, and what ended up happening was that I told him SOMEONE was going to get it with that damn paddle, whether it was me or him was to be seen.
Guess who ended up over whose lap that night. And he didn't cry. He thoroughly enjoyed it, I could hardly believe it but he really liked it. Now he gets it AND he GETS it. Now when I get it, I get it more they way I wanted it in the first place.
But... no tears from my guy.
No tears from me either. It just doesn't affect me that way. Yet. Ya never know what the future brings!
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Kzoo
New member
Username: Kzoo
Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 30, 2006 - 09:08 am: |
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I wish I could find out, but my wife is pretty vanilla! Ho-hum
Maybe you can give me some advice as to how to get her more "involved" in "alternative" activities? |
Prissietl
New member
Username: Prissietl
Post Number: 13
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 30, 2006 - 02:02 pm: |
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Hey Cpchevi you said you make "all your females" cry, your very young, i bet you would have a harder time with a more mature (nice way to say older) woman. just my opipion.(no disrespect meant) what do you all think can someone so young be a dom to someone older?
Once a princess always a princess
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Vixievamp
New member
Username: Vixievamp
Post Number: 12
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 30, 2006 - 10:24 pm: |
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I never cry from spankings or from everyday life. Really wish that I could. Crying is this huge degrading thing for me and I would feel so vulnerable and pathetic if I cried. Last weekend a lot of things in my life hit me pretty hard all of a sudden and he held me in his arms and told me that it was okay to cry and that he wouldn't think any less of me if I did, but I still couldn't do it. He spanked me once for the sole purpose of trying to get me to cry because he knows I need to but I stopped myself. Any advice on how to let myself cry? Sorry bout this being kind of off topic. |
Atomicpuppy
Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 90
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, September 02, 2006 - 01:27 pm: |
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It's not that easy to make yourself cry if you are blocking it in the first place.If you can identify why you suppressed this to start with you maybe able to let go.Though a lot of people feel weak/degraded,etc if they do,but crying is not a crime.It's an emotional release which often reflects how you feel about the situation your in or around.
When younger I suppressed all my feelings as I saw it as weak,but it wasn't until my mid twenties that I met a woman who I thought was the one and decided to let go.It worked,a little too well,but I have learned to control my feelings better and now my wife gets all the love she needs/wants and deserves. |
Tedflo
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Username: Tedflo
Post Number: 3
Registered: 09-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 04, 2006 - 01:12 pm: |
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I've never cried either,even though my S/O doles out some real hard spankings with both hairbrush and strap.Guess i haven't gotten into that space yet but would like to give it a try.I go through all the promising to behave and begging her to stop but haven't broke down in tears yet.I8 think if she go's a little harder and longer it might happen.I'm going to mention that to her. |
Mhw3rd
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Username: Mhw3rd
Post Number: 1
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 04, 2006 - 08:38 pm: |
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I have been spanked many times with a large hard wood hairbrush very very hard and have never cried. However, pain has never made me cry. I think it would be better if I could cry, something seems to be missing without the crying. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2772
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 04, 2006 - 09:01 pm: |
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Mhw3rd, I am glad to have you join us, why don't you introduce yourself in the meet and greet area.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Naughtyboy50s
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Username: Naughtyboy50s
Post Number: 40
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, October 05, 2006 - 05:52 am: |
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I think the reason a male doesn't cry that easily is because it sub-consciously would bring out his feminine side! Unfortunately this probably holds back a complete sexual experience during punishment.
Mhw3rd, I admire your honesty! |
Mhw3rd
New member
Username: Mhw3rd
Post Number: 7
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, October 05, 2006 - 05:52 pm: |
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Naughtyboy50s
Apparently you are equating feminine side with sexual experience??? Are you saying that one cannot be a male submissive without having it have something to do with a feminine side. Are you therefore saying that only females can be submissive?? |
Naughtyboy50s
New member
Username: Naughtyboy50s
Post Number: 42
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, October 06, 2006 - 05:55 am: |
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I would enjoy being submissive with the right woman and I don't consider myself feminine. However, if I'm wearing panties,I can't help feeling feminine and can be very submissive!
To be under the control of a woman is the ultimate stimulus for me and I am a male! |
Naughtyboy50s
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Username: Naughtyboy50s
Post Number: 43
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, October 06, 2006 - 05:57 am: |
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I guess we've gotten off the subject a bit. No I don't cry either! |
Steelman
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Username: Steelman
Post Number: 2
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, October 07, 2006 - 10:40 am: |
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I agree Nb50. I enjoy being under a woman's control, but with my wife it doesn't happen much. A while ago, after I had been begging my wife to dominate and spank me, she finally had enough and handcuffed me, forced me to the floor and paddled, forced me to begg for more, until I did cry.
I loved it, but it hasn't happened since. |
Slipperings
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Username: Slipperings
Post Number: 29
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Friday, November 24, 2006 - 09:41 pm: |
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Only a very luck few ever do cry. Must be great to just let go and let it all out, wish I could one day have that happen to me. I think its more of our up bringing that does not let us cry. Its that...only whimps and babies cry...be a man suck it in and all that stuff. And you ladies are a huge part of this problem as when a guy shows his feeling and there is a tear, then come the comments like...god what big cry baby. So from years upon years of conditioning...we hold it all in. This is why guy die much sooner as well I think. We are stressed out 24/7 and don't you dare show it, as its a sign of weakness in the eyes of you females. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2942
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 24, 2006 - 10:28 pm: |
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I am not going to comment on the above statements that blame "you ladies". I am 100% female and 100% bottom and yet I do not cry during a spanking. I don't think any blanket explainations fit anyone. I do not view crying as a sign of weakness. I have been in pain to actually passing out (not from a spanking) and never shed a tear. Other times when I have say good bye to one I love, there have been rivers. As a side note, when our son went off to Marine boot camp, my husband, my grown son and I all cried openly at the airport.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Chinnook
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Username: Chinnook
Post Number: 18
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 12:12 am: |
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I think men you cry are so much better as a person. Only real men cry wheather it be a spanking or for something sad. It is more of a macho thing passed down from father to son. Your not a man if you cry blah blah blah. Men need to stop hiding thier feelings maybe if they did this females wouldn't be so confusing to them. Letting out a flood of emotions is 10 times better then holding them in. |
Slipperings
New member
Username: Slipperings
Post Number: 32
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 02:30 am: |
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Well Chinnook all I can say is that I still find females confusing...and more like a paradox in many ways. No dought there will be someone that will blast me for voiceing what I feel........... no matter if your 100% this, that or the other thing. |
Fortissimo
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Username: Fortissimo
Post Number: 9
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, November 26, 2006 - 07:15 am: |
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I have never cried, hand spankings don't really hurt? |
Docben
Spanko
Username: Docben
Post Number: 69
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 26, 2006 - 11:19 pm: |
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nope..., if I cried it became worse, so I trained myself not to cry. (sorry for the run-on sentence)
(Message edited by fanny on November 27, 2006) |
Fortissimo
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Username: Fortissimo
Post Number: 10
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Monday, November 27, 2006 - 11:24 am: |
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....... but having your thighs slapped hard REALLY HURTS, that could make me cry |
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