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Jorge
New member Username: Jorge
Post Number: 11 Registered: 04-2006
| Posted on Tuesday, July 18, 2006 - 07:50 am: |
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I HAVE YET TO ENJOY SPANKING A WILLING GAL,BUT I WANT TO UNDERSTAND IN THE HOPE THAT I'LL BE MORE IN TUNE WITH ANY LADY I DO SPANK IN THE FUTURE; MY QUESTION,WHY DO YOU LIKE TO BE SPANK?I, HONESTLY FIND IT VERY EROTIC,THE THOUGHT MAKE MY BLOOD RACE BUT I KNOW WE ARE ALL VERY DIFFERENT;ALSO, IS IT ALWAY ABOUT SUMISSION?AND DOES}}}} THE NEED TO BE DOMINATED ARISE? RESPECTFULLY, JORGE |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2581 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Tuesday, July 18, 2006 - 02:42 pm: |
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Jorge, just a personal preference, but most people take letters written in all caps to be a form of yelling. I find it a bit difficult to read. That said, everyone in an individual, and enjoy spanking for their own satisfaction. A blanket statement about submission and domination does not apply to everyone. Therefore you cannot say "alway" about any aspect of life. When you met someone and that relationship develops in a spanking situation, you will need to take into account what you and the spankee want to get out of it. Queen of Innocence "Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Weasel
Advanced Spanko Username: Weasel
Post Number: 106 Registered: 06-2006
| Posted on Tuesday, July 18, 2006 - 03:29 pm: |
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...and how many un-willing gals have you spanked, hmmm? In answer to the question - yes I do like to be spanked, but our spankings are just for erotic fun, not punishment. I'm in charge of most of our life, so letting go of that being the one in charge is sort of in play for me personally. You need to negotiate with your prospective spankee what is considered ok in her book. Like Fanny said, it's going to be different for everyone. I like Blue but there are lots of shades of blue and I don't like all of them. There's lots of ways to get spanked and I certainly don't want to sign up for all of them! Ditto on the all-caps. It's considered "yelling". If you have a vision problem that prevent you from easily reading lower case, you can set your computer to large font in windows desktop properties section. Then you could use lower case, and it would appear larger for you to see easier. Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 225 Registered: 03-2006
| Posted on Thursday, July 20, 2006 - 06:04 pm: |
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I like being spanked because it gives me a warm fuzzy feeling. It helps me to fee wanted. In my first marriage my x reminded me how disposable I was. A spanking for being a bit mouthy is much nicer than a "if you don`t like my ways get the F out. I like being loved and I love the release of adrenaline a good spanking gives me. A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Jorge
New member Username: Jorge
Post Number: 12 Registered: 04-2006
| Posted on Friday, July 21, 2006 - 08:45 pm: |
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thank you ms. gator. |
Sissy9
New member Username: Sissy9
Post Number: 24 Registered: 04-2006
| Posted on Monday, July 24, 2006 - 10:17 pm: |
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I need the feeling of being dominated,then the sensation of sub-space after.I like the scolding, corner,and the whole bit,role play for me I guess. |
Nicenick06
Spanko Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 90 Registered: 02-2006
| Posted on Saturday, July 29, 2006 - 07:37 am: |
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As a switch I both like to spank and liked to be spank. I enjoy both. |
Sarahsbrat
New member Username: Sarahsbrat
Post Number: 46 Registered: 06-2006
| Posted on Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 10:44 am: |
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\why are you yelling??? Not just any naughty brat...Sarahsbrat
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1012 Registered: 10-2005
| Posted on Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 11:17 am: |
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The yelling issue was addressed back in July!! |
Atomicpuppy
New member Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 38 Registered: 08-2006
| Posted on Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 02:19 pm: |
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For some reason just thinking about spanking gets me excited.The feeling of someone smacking my bare bum,the sensation,warm after glow,even the pain,the many different implements you can use and yes the feeling of letting go and letting someone you trust take control.All the different senarios to explore |
Nicenick06
Advanced Spanko Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 132 Registered: 02-2006
| Posted on Friday, August 11, 2006 - 01:07 am: |
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Fannny your comment was thought provoking. AS ALWAYS. Welcome back. In answer to Jorge’s question. Endorphin’s get released into the brain when spanko’s get into the spanking frame of mind. Why? We are just built that way as some people are built with a 100% homosexual preference and others less so. Some are 100% hetero. Some change their preference during their life. Same with spanking. Was it Katie or Fanny which said we are more passionate? (both of them are the most adorable girls...) Lucky for their partners alas. Even if I was young enough which I am not unfortunately. Take care to all Nick |