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Pamela
New member
Username: Pamela
Post Number: 2
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 19, 2006 - 09:52 pm: | 
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My somewhat ambivalent partner has agreed to discipline me tomorrow night. My question is, at what point are the pants and panties pulled down and who actually does the unbaring, me or him? Is it better to wait until I get into position or is it better earlier? Please be specific. I am a novice here. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2585
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 19, 2006 - 11:11 pm: |
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Pamela, I wish there was an easy answer here, but there isn't. Things don't even stay the same from spanking to spanking. Sometimes my husband starts straight on the bare, sometimes he unlayers, I guess it depends on his mood. He usually is the one to uncover me, but at times, especially in discipline, he has made me bare myself. It also depends on what I am wearing. It is easier to flip up a skirt after I am position, but with zippered pants, it is easier to do before hand. You are going to need to experiment to see what is most natural for you. You will likely find that you won't do it the same each time either.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 686
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 20, 2006 - 06:52 am: |
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wow...Fanny said EXACTLY what I was about to say!  *same in our house
Experiment and see what works for the both of you. Good luck~
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 930
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 20, 2006 - 09:59 am: |
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My husband always does the pulling down the pants part and he does it before spanking. He spanks bare ALWAYS.
If we are playing around and he isn't serious he might spank over pants.
I think you just need to do what works for you. Try several ways and see what you and your partner like best!! |
Fortysomething
New member
Username: Fortysomething
Post Number: 31
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, July 20, 2006 - 01:40 pm: |
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Usually, when I get spanked the panties are already off because I seldom wear them around the house. It's funny though that this topic has been brought up because that is all changing in my house. I would much rather him take them from me though and have figured out how to do that. First off, I need to have them on to begin with and second off... well.... see my blog tomorrow. That will expalin everything!
Forty-something and loving life
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Fireman_chris
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fireman_chris
Post Number: 131
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 20, 2006 - 02:03 pm: |
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It varies with us. I often enjoy beginning the spanking on Sparkle's panties, then pulling them down part way through while she's still over my lap.
However, we do also sometimes start with my pulling them down while she stands in front of me, and then having her lay across my lap. Both ways work.
And then, of course, there's many spankings where she's already panty-less (particularly at bedtime).
As you slide down the banisters of life
may the splinters never point the wrong way.
Old Irish Proverb
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Ewsbmad
Spanko
Username: Ewsbmad
Post Number: 66
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, July 20, 2006 - 02:47 pm: |
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My wife insists that the pants are down for the spanking and the bottom is bare. I have been spanked in our van, camping, in a hotel, at my inlaws etc and the pants are always down |
Sissy9
New member
Username: Sissy9
Post Number: 25
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, July 24, 2006 - 10:24 pm: |
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I always hear drop them.He will pull down from time to time,but not very often,part of the submission part of it for him,I think? |
Pamela
New member
Username: Pamela
Post Number: 5
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Monday, July 24, 2006 - 11:05 pm: |
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I think its better that the spankee is commanded to remove them. |
Tmichellebrat
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 137
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 25, 2006 - 07:32 pm: |
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I agree with Pamela ..I feel that it is always better that the spankee is told to remove pants/panites/lift up skirt ect. In my case I rather have "B" tell me to remove my pants/panties because it feels more nautral to me for some reason and because I like the submission part of it all too. |
Pamela
New member
Username: Pamela
Post Number: 6
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 26, 2006 - 10:39 pm: |
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What is your attitude while this is happening? |
Tmichellebrat
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 142
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 26, 2006 - 11:46 pm: |
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Well if it's a punishment spanking then I am usually very submissive because I feel bad about breaking a rule or for whatever reason I am getting a discipline spanking...although I can sometimes have a bratty attitude with "B" but that is rare. For some reason I feel embarrassed when I have to undress in front of him for a discipline spanking but any other time this does not happen so I am not sure what that is about with me, I am still trying to figure that one out. Not sure what my attitude would be with him if he ordered me to take down my pants and panties for an erotic spanking since we have not gotten that far in our relationship yet but I am sure for an erotic or gg spanking my attitude would be just fine  |
Bratattitude
New member
Username: Bratattitude
Post Number: 12
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 27, 2006 - 07:32 pm: |
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I am not spanked on the bare nearly as often as I used to be. Mostly now it is just for serious offenses. That's OK casue my man spanks hard enough even with clothes on that I feel it. But anyway. In our house he will tell me if he wants them off. The phrase "lose the jeans" is one I dread. |
Nicenick06
Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 75
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 29, 2006 - 06:12 am: |
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Pamela my view is as follows:
Pamela: My question is, at what point are the pants and panties pulled down
Nick: Always bare at the beginning. Otherwise it isn’t serious. Even in love play bare is always best.
Pamela: and who actually does the unbaring, me or him?
Nick: You. You present yourself fully naked. My view.
Pamela: Is it better to wait until I get into position or is it better earlier?
Nick: Your punisher will ask you/tell you what position to be in.
Best is over his/her knee; or on bed face down (pillows under bottom);
or bending over table, chair etc.
But the very best is an adjustable height massage table.
Nick: Some use special furniture….
Nick: What was it like … do tell. |
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