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Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 30
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 12:50 pm: | 
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Hi Guys,
I'm just curious how you guys feel about being spanked or doing the spanking on thighs? What about calves? This may seem like a random question, but I'll explain my thinking anyway. As a model I get pretty hard spankings in my bottom every week, plus whatever happens at home. The result of this is I basically never mark anymore. I know bruises are controversial here, but I really love them, and have missed them.
Ok soooo the other day I got a spanking to help me get into a better headspace. I always get a afew swats on my thighs, but this time because he really wanted me to let go and cry (I know i cry in my videos all the time, but it isn't the same!) he was really focused there. Afterward he commented, "Your bottom barely shows anything but your legs are pretty marked." Also, back when I was first with my Dominant I had a heck of a time letting go and crying. Finally he decided he was going to spank me until I did, and it was a very very severe spanking. Long story short, when my thighs were covered he moved on to my calves. Only one or two blows there and I did finally cry.
Ok so all of that to say, "this is my experience, what do you guys think?"
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Tplayer
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 152
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 01:48 pm: |
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Bailey,
Although I do still mark well, I crave the pain on all parts of my body-from the top of my back to the bottom of my feet(ommitting the organs area). Mt thighs don't seem to react to the pain as much as I have heard others complain of. I think foot spankings are torturous because he gives me 12 light while I count, and I know every time that the 13th is going to hurt. I whine and cringe alot during those.
I have just recently cried for the first time while being spanked, and it was the most wonderful release. And I hope that I go there again, but for me it was a painful process.
I rambled alot, so I'm not sure if I addressed your question!!
P S Bailey- You probably know more than I do, but I have heard that only using a cane for a while will tenderize your tail again for marking!!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Fireman_chris
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fireman_chris
Post Number: 133
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 01:49 pm: |
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I generally give at least a few on the backs of the thighs when I'm spanking, unless its specifically agreed against before hand. Case in point, I have a friend who has cancer that's affected the bones in her legs, and its dangerous to spank her on her thighs.
With Sparkle, I also occasionally spank the insides of her thighs as well, and I've given her a couple of spankings that were focused on her thighs (usually as part of a disciplinary/punishment situation).
I've never spanked the calves, though I have given one or two full body floggings which included the calves, but those are different and much lighter.
As you slide down the banisters of life
may the splinters never point the wrong way.
Old Irish Proverb
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Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 31
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 02:02 pm: |
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I just wanted to clarify one thing. When I got my calves spanked it was with a belt. I don't think it would be safe to hit them with something stiff. Just wanted to be clear!
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 941
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 02:07 pm: |
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Yikes Bailey that sounds painful!!
I always get at least a few swats on my thighs with my husbands belt and always some swats with his hand. I think the hand swats hurt more on my thighs then the swats with his belt.
I haven't been spanked hard enough on my thighs to cause marks though. |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 693
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 02:42 pm: |
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No calf spankings
A few swats to the back of the thighs if I am OTK- but no marks
I agree with Tammy - it sounds painful!
Bailey - you sound like such a sweetie  and only 19? can I ask when you starting the spanking lifestyle? You can PM me cuz I don't want to  ...LOL~~~~
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2588
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 03:14 pm: |
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I'm for thighs but not calves, just because I haven't tried calves. I find that by extending to the thighs you are naturally expanding the spank area and are therefore less likely to bruise, (I don't like bruises) I have also been spanked on my inner thighs. Wakes me right up!!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Uh_oh
New member
Username: Uh_oh
Post Number: 30
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 03:27 pm: |
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i always have wanted to cry while spanked, im still working on it, hopefully the day will come when i can do it and let my guard down. for thighs, i have gotta a few swats with the paddle or strap on my thighs, and boy did it hurt! felt like the skin was peeled right off my body!!! major ouchie! |
Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 32
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 03:50 pm: |
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Hey Pinkcheeks,
Thanks that was very nice! I shot you a PM, hopefully it will answer your question.
Fanny,
I agree that the inner thighs are quite a wakeup call. It's funny how I always crave more pain, but am also very afraid of it. I usually enjoy having been in pain much more than being in pain!
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 104
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 07:02 pm: |
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at times i have been spanked on the thighs with a fly swatter most times it has been after OTK with the paddle, the fly swatter does sting and will make me dance while i am doing my corner time.
my name says it all
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2590
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 07:21 pm: |
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Oh yes, Bailey, the tingle from after pain can be very nice. Warm and glowing.
Subbie, isn't is amazing what a darn little plastic flyswatter can do!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Arizonathief
New member
Username: Arizonathief
Post Number: 4
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 22, 2006 - 11:18 pm: |
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Have to be a little more aware of marks, which can be harder to hide... but thighs are usually fair spanking game. When she is extremely tensed up, and 'guessing' at my pace and placement... a few quick-hard spanks on the thigh can snap her out of it... and mover her back onto the path of accepting her spanking. |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 105
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, July 23, 2006 - 03:39 am: |
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Fanny those fly swatters have a million ouchies in them, thighs, back of my legs and he has no problem using it on my already red bottom!!
my name says it all
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Weasel
Advanced Spanko
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 121
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, July 23, 2006 - 09:35 am: |
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I might have to pick up a new "thigh"swatter and gift wrap it for mr. weasel! He has swatted on my thighs with light toys such as a paint stick or the shoehorn. I enjoy it so count me as a yes to thigh-swatting.
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 107
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, July 23, 2006 - 09:40 am: |
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now there's a good name for it
my name says it all
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Tmichellebrat
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 134
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 23, 2006 - 07:51 pm: |
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it's been awhile since I have even gotten spanked on the thighs ...but I sure haven't forgotten the "ouchie" I have never experienced being spanked on the calfs though but i would think it would be "double" ouchie because that is a more sensitive area, at least for me it is. |
Sarah_aless
New member
Username: Sarah_aless
Post Number: 18
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 25, 2006 - 09:43 am: |
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Hey just thought I'd add my twopence worth as thighs are a 'thing' of mine.
My spanker likes to give quick stingy strokes of the cane on the the very top of the back of my thighs. Believe me it is VERY ouchie. (If anyone is interested I incorporated a description into my latest Buffy the Vampire Slayer fanfiction at http://www.spikeluver.com/SpuffyRealm/viewstory.php?sid=20280 )
I am always wont to protest that I HATE it but like Bailey I have to admit to liking the marks left afterwards (totally get your comment about liking having BEEN in pain) - especially when now and again he'll land a hard one there - ow ow owww! Thighs never fail to make me squirm and get the loudest protestations from me. It always feels much more intense there than anywhere else, but maybe that's because by the time he gets to the cane and thighs my bottom has usually been spanked almost numb, so it could just be the 'fresh skin' thing.
<UNDERAGE REFERENCE EDITED>
(Message edited by fanny on August 05, 2006) |
Nicenick06
Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 78
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 29, 2006 - 06:43 am: |
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Thighs. Never been able to spank anyone on the thighs too painful or safe word used.
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Legslapper
New member
Username: Legslapper
Post Number: 7
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Friday, August 04, 2006 - 12:39 pm: |
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Hi Bailey,
As some will know I am new to this site and from England. <UNDERAGE REFERENCE EDITED>
Subsequently this is my fetish rather than the traditional spanking although that too I like. My problem is meeting up with a girl who would like to do it too. I can both give and receive. I see from this that one or two postings that some have experienced it but reactions seem mixed.
(Message edited by fanny on August 05, 2006)
Slap my legs and I'll slap yours
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Nicenick06
Advanced Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 123
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, August 05, 2006 - 04:45 am: |
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Ah so you are a switch like me.
Giving and receiving.
Actually quite a few of the members would be willing to switch
around - one third I suspect - but have a preference for top (giving) or bottom (receiving).
Converting a bottom to do some top I think would be easy if you are in a long term relationship.
See the threads “how do you find each other”
and “how many of us are in permanent..”
Good luck
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Legslapper
New member
Username: Legslapper
Post Number: 8
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, August 05, 2006 - 05:05 am: |
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Ah, some of my last posting was removed under the guise of "underage reference edited". All I was saying was yes I like to both give and receive but slapping backs of legs is more for me than the traditional spanking. Oh how I wish I could find a lady with similar wants, wherever in the world she may live!
Slap my legs and I'll slap yours
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2610
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 05, 2006 - 07:40 pm: |
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Leg slapper this is taken directly from the site protocol, which you should have read before you registered.
"While I understand that some of you may want to reminisce about your childhood experiences, please don't. This is an adult forum and we have to keep it about adults. Also, someone could use this excuse to get around the over 18 rule. Sorry, but we cannot have any leniency on this one."
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Legslapper
New member
Username: Legslapper
Post Number: 11
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, August 05, 2006 - 08:52 pm: |
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Thank you Fanny and I did read it but you forget when you move into something as deep as this. I was only trying to give some background to my feelings and nothing else. However I do realise that not everyone is as honest!
Slap my legs and I'll slap yours
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2611
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 05, 2006 - 09:06 pm: |
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No worries Legslapper, it happens to the best of us. That is why there are moderators.
However, I understand what your point was.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Legslapper
New member
Username: Legslapper
Post Number: 12
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, August 05, 2006 - 11:47 pm: |
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Fanny,
Thank you.
Slap my legs and I'll slap yours
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Sissy9
New member
Username: Sissy9
Post Number: 36
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, September 21, 2006 - 12:45 am: |
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I'am aware of my legs,I use to dance,muscles viens,ect.I know from myself my skin is thiner then it use to be,older now,when viens pop up,it gets my notice.Bottom, is not legs,forget punishment,the skin is different,botttom is bottom,tight or flabby,your not getting into skin and viens,...?The pain that follows is a warning,not fore play,....I have taken bruses and splits on my bottom,that would proubly scare you,but my DOM, is very carefull with the thighs,because the skin and viens are different,if you can't spank enough throught the bare bottom,over and over,Maybe you are not doing it right,...? |
Legslapper
New member
Username: Legslapper
Post Number: 27
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, September 24, 2006 - 05:52 pm: |
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Or maybe my fetish is so much different. Which is where I began.I seek someone who might share my feelings but I am begining to realise that maybe I'm alone on this one.
Slap my legs and I'll slap yours
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Tedflo
New member
Username: Tedflo
Post Number: 2
Registered: 09-2006
| | Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 05:38 pm: |
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Sometimes right after a serious spanking my so will take a ruler or a thin strap to my thighs.Stings like the devil but i find it very erotic.Other times without a formal spanking she'll make me stand in place and just smack my thighs with her hand until their red with hand prints.OUCH!!!!!!! |
Legslapper
New member
Username: Legslapper
Post Number: 28
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 05:51 pm: |
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Lucky chap, just send those of similar ideas to Yorkshire before we get the snow! Thank you for your input btw.
Slap my legs and I'll slap yours
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