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Pamela
New member
Username: Pamela
Post Number: 9
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, August 17, 2006 - 11:08 pm: | 
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My man wants to take me to a swingers/s & m nightclub and spank me in public. I am titilated by the idea but also somewhat ambivalent. Has anyone ever done this? |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 127
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, August 18, 2006 - 07:44 am: |
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Pamela you must be very brave, I could not do that, my spankings are here at home and it's just Hubby and me....good luck..:}
my name says it all
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 753
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 18, 2006 - 10:32 am: |
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Sorry Pam...gotta go along with Subbie on this - Hubby and I keep my spankings at home and in private (but..."to each his own")
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 35
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, August 18, 2006 - 11:03 am: |
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I've been spanked in a variety of public situaitons. This includes private parties, bdsm clubs, and spanking videos for the web. I usually enjoy it if the people are respectful (and usually at a bdsm club they will be) because I have an exhibitionist streak. What I don't like are a lot of comments while it is happening. However, being spanked in public is one thing. Being punished in public is another. I would never want my Dominant to punish me in front of people I don't know. Heck I woudln't want to be punished in front of poeople I *do* know!
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1048
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 18, 2006 - 11:04 am: |
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I've never been spanked in front of anyone or by anyone other then my husband. Well...once at a part I won a prize and had to take a 5 swat spanking from a friend but it was quick and done in fun.
I sure I wouldn't like being spanked for real in front of anyone else.
I'm sure you will have fun just don't do anything you don't want to do. |
Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 243
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, August 18, 2006 - 07:24 pm: |
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I have been spanked in public but only playfully! In fact, just today, he took me behind a corner (outside) of our bank and spanked me lightly ... of course, no one was watching... ( I hope) lol
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Spkrbryan
New member
Username: Spkrbryan
Post Number: 3
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, August 19, 2006 - 04:08 pm: |
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I've lost count of the number of times I've spanked my g/f Dee in public, most of the times were in a tavern we went to a lot, but she's been spanked in parks, at the beach, on the side of a busy highway, even in the 1st class section on an airplane(bare assed).
If it breathes, Spank it!
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Mitch_otk
New member
Username: Mitch_otk
Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, August 19, 2006 - 09:23 pm: |
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Spanking in public at a play party or similar scene event is no big deal. Everyone understands, and it's part of the ambiance. Any limits re: modesty, etc. could be easily honored. I agree with others that punishment in public would be rough as it should be a private thing.
mitch
http://allthingsspanking.com/
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2619
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 01:36 am: |
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question Bryan. Was there any one else sitting in first class with the two of you?
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Spkrbryan
New member
Username: Spkrbryan
Post Number: 4
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 01:48 am: |
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Fanny,
It was the last flight out of LaGuardia to San Diego non-stop, so the plane was pretty empty, but there were 3 other people in 1st class, a couple in their 20's, and a guy 50. This was long before 9/11, when the flight attendants played word games with the passengers, and gave out free booze to people in coach.
If it breathes, Spank it!
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2621
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 02:54 am: |
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Interesting, bet you would have a harder time getting away with it now. 
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Atomicpuppy
Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 64
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 11:00 am: |
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Haven't been spanked in public,yet.In the open air I probably wouldn't mind,but in front of others not so sure. |
Spkrbryan
New member
Username: Spkrbryan
Post Number: 5
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 01:40 pm: |
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Fanny,
Your right, probably not a good idea now days.
Bryan
If it breathes, Spank it!
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 756
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 01:45 pm: |
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I have to agree with Mitch......
I am sure, Bryan, that you and your g/f were comfortable with a bare-assed spanking on a 1st class flight.......but what about those 3 other people? How comfortable were they?
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Spkrbryan
New member
Username: Spkrbryan
Post Number: 7
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 02:12 pm: |
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Pinkcheeks,
Actually everyone got into it, except the 50 y/o gentleman, he was really wasted and didn't pay any attention. I should point out, I spanked Dee 4 different times on that flight and we had an audience for the last 3, the young couple, a couple of flight attendants, and one of the pilots. One of the flight attendants took pictures and even did a little directing.
Bryan
If it breathes, Spank it!
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 758
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 06:12 pm: |
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**Dee must have been awfully naughty to deserve 4 spankings on 1 flight! I am assuming this happened awhile ago right? Like Fanny pointed out, I'm sure it would not be a good idea today!
PS....that flight attendant must have been a spanko....lol
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1056
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 06:49 pm: |
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I can't believe a flight attendant took pictures!!! OR that one of the pilots watched.
I've been flying for years and have never been on a relaxed flight as that must have been. |
Spkrbryan
New member
Username: Spkrbryan
Post Number: 8
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 06:52 pm: |
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Pinkcheeks,
It happened about 8 years ago, and she was very naughty, Dee was wearing a short dress, with no panties, she kept hiking her skirt up when the flight attendant would come by, I told her if she kept doing it I'd spank her right there, she did so I did.
Bryan
If it breathes, Spank it!
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 759
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 10:12 pm: |
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*serves her right* 
lol~~~~
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Spkrbryan
New member
Username: Spkrbryan
Post Number: 10
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 20, 2006 - 10:56 pm: |
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Tammynz,
That's not all the pilot/co-pilot/navigator, whatever he was did, he actually sat across the isle talking with us and drinking booze for over an hour, relaxed is an understatement. This would never happen today.
Bryan
If it breathes, Spank it!
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Ewsbmad
Spanko
Username: Ewsbmad
Post Number: 71
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, August 21, 2006 - 03:27 pm: |
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Spanking in public is something my wife and I have talked about alot. My wife loves to tell me that she is going to spank me when we get home when we are in public. We love the reaction we get from people that hear us. The closest that we have come to public spanking is with our next door neighbour. Our neighbour is a busy body lady that minds herself in everyones business. If we are in our yard talking she will move close to us on the other side of the fence and we know that she is listening to our conversation. It is these times that my wife will tell me that she is going to take me to our room and take down my pants and spank my bare bottom. We have talked about following through with the threat and leaving our bedroom window open so she can hear the spanking. We have not done it as of yet but we are getting closer to trying it. |
Shayshay
New member
Username: Shayshay
Post Number: 2
Registered: 09-2006
| | Posted on Friday, September 15, 2006 - 11:39 pm: |
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I was spanked in a parking lot. Tommy pulled off the road to let me know that I was letting my mouth over run my common sense and I just could not help putting my point across.....So he put me across his knee and then over the hood of the car. I really need to work on the problem I have with having to have the last word 
Soothe my soul so it will heal; light the way so I might learn. Warm my heart so I’ll know love; empower me to serve.
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Frankeegirl
New member
Username: Frankeegirl
Post Number: 19
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, September 16, 2006 - 05:58 pm: |
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It's ok Shay, I run my mouth off a lot too. The brat side of me always seems to have to get the last word.
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1346
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, September 16, 2006 - 06:10 pm: |
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My hubby is old fashioned brit so he would never consider spanking me in public. I don't think I would let it happen anyways.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Zippo
Prime Spanko
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 1657
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, September 16, 2006 - 06:23 pm: |
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We have played in public areas but not in direct view per se of the public eye. Although we have been caught on a few occasions including a law enforcement officer at a rest stop. But to intentionally play right in the public eye is a step we are not ready to take at this point.
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Sissy9
New member
Username: Sissy9
Post Number: 35
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, September 21, 2006 - 12:20 am: |
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As time goes on,I fantize about my DOM,spanking me in public,the perfect setting I deserved it, didn't expect it,he didn't care,I got it,but,in reality not at his expience,police,domistic abuse,and so on.He once threathened me in front of my mother and her prayer partner,in reality I would have died,and they probely would have just watched,mother anyway,ADD,child,Religius science practishiner,she didn't spank.It has been a fantasy,yes,however we live ina a small town! |
Whereartthoux3
New member
Username: Whereartthoux3
Post Number: 1
Registered: 09-2006
| | Posted on Monday, September 25, 2006 - 10:30 pm: |
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Noo, can't say I have. Sometimes we fantasize about him spanking me in front of his friends or people I know...lol but we havent been to a club thing. give it some thought before saying yeah.} |
Mhw3rd
New member
Username: Mhw3rd
Post Number: 2
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 04, 2006 - 08:46 pm: |
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I have never been spanked in public, however I have had to show off my brightly spanked cheeks to others at Bally's in the locker room and to two different massage therapists, actually one from a spanking and one from a canning that left big welts. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2771
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 04, 2006 - 08:59 pm: |
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Okay, I am going to take a guess that these aren't your average massage therapists!!
I have enjoyed many massages without ever getting as much as a swat. I just want to make sure that any massage therapists reading this don't take it that we are saying they do more than just massages.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Naughtyboy50s
New member
Username: Naughtyboy50s
Post Number: 41
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, October 05, 2006 - 06:00 am: |
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Fanny,
I think you misread what Mhw3rd was saying! The massage therapist only viewed his previously spanked bottom.
Please don't take offense at this Fanny. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2773
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, October 05, 2006 - 08:51 am: |
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Oh sorry, never mind.....Yes, it was a misread.
I wasn't at all taking offense, I think you misread what I said. My point was that I didn't want any message therapists on the list to think we were saying that is what they do.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Mhw3rd
New member
Username: Mhw3rd
Post Number: 9
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, October 05, 2006 - 06:39 pm: |
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Thank you Naughtyboy50s for correcting Fanny.
When I have time tomorrow I will give you more information about the actual occurances. I found Their responses very interesting, nothing like what I expected. |
Mhw3rd
New member
Username: Mhw3rd
Post Number: 13
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, October 05, 2006 - 08:01 pm: |
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OK, my tennis got rained out so I have time for one story.
I had seen this one massage therapist for two years or more, she was about my age so we were friendly but not all that personal.
One weekend when I was scheduled to see her on a sunday, my wife decided that I earned a spanking. I did not think she was going to spank me before I went for the massage or maybe she would not let me go as additional punishment.
WRONG! She spanked me thirty minutes before my appointment. When I suggested that I should not go, she just laughed at me and said I was going.
Now, my wife does not give any play spankings, when she is finished my cheeks are red and black and blue all over, it takes over a week for even most of the color to go away.
The therapists room is usually fairly dark so she would not even notice faded spank marks as she has not noticed many times in the past.
But today they were fresh and bright like a neon sign. When the therapist move the sheet to massage my one cheek she stopped quickly and turned the overhead light on, and said what happen here?
I could not believe she was so bold and forthright in her examination of my spanked cheeks. Nevertheless, I told her that my wife and I had a disagreement and my wife explained to me why she was right. Well, the therapist was not satified, with the light still on, she asked what did she use? What was I to say, except to tell the truth and told her that my wife used a wood hairbrush. Oh, she exclaimed, how cute! while she chuckled. She truned off the light and moved on like nothing had transpired.
I did not remember enjoying the massage that day, all I could remember was the humiliation. |
Sondra
New member
Username: Sondra
Post Number: 10
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 01, 2006 - 12:02 am: |
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i love outdoor or public spankings they are such a buzz. I think this is because I had my first spanking in public when I was 19. Never had anything at all before then and my girlfriend, she was 31 suggested we went to a club in town. It only opened at midnight and went on until dawn. I soon found out it was a BDSM meeting place and they were doing demos??. Lots of people who were into it were being spanked whipped and caned for fun and people watched. They asked for volunteers and my g/f went and got tied up and worked on(rubbing touching spanking etc) for 15 mins and when she was finished she came to me and said I should go. No way was I going and I told her so but that was at 2 in the morning, by 4 o clock I was probably the only one left who was not spanked or half maked or both. So I went up to dom or dugeon master and asked what was best for a first timer and he showed me to a girl dressed in black shiny leather and a whip. She was dealing with a guy over a whipping horse a told him to get up and help me strip. I was gob smacked but at that time the rum and coke had control so I let this guy strip me and she then layed me over the horse and I never looked back from then its fantastic
may your god go with you
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