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Gigi
New member
Username: Gigi
Post Number: 3
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Monday, January 01, 2007 - 08:16 pm: | 
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I've read some earlier posts about where to find a partner to spank you. Most people seem to have spouses or partners already. What if you don't are not in a relationship currently? Is the internet safe and how would you go about it? Guess I wasn't clear in some of the responses I had read. Thank you all for your patience. |
Nd2bspankd
Spanko
Username: Nd2bspankd
Post Number: 93
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Monday, January 01, 2007 - 11:38 pm: |
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Hi Gigi. I was married 14 years before I was brave enough to approach my husband about spanking me. I was shocked at his willingness to do it for ME. Now he really enjoys it. Perhaps you could find a partner you enjoy spending time with and could introduce spanking to the relationship. It seems most people are very open to trying it and enjoy it. I don't know much about using the internet as a source for finding a partner but please be careful if you do.
"It's not easy being pink...er, I mean, green."
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Her_guy
New member
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 9
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 02, 2007 - 04:39 am: |
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Hi Gigi,
I would recommend getting to know someone REALLY well first. It would be hard to do this over the internet.
Does your social life or work life put you in contact with many people. If so, a few carefully placed and timed comments will bring forward someone who is interested. Watch for their eyes to light up.
It has happened to me a couple of times.
Then you will have a better basis on which to trust the individual.
Ed |
Wilson
New member
Username: Wilson
Post Number: 18
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 03, 2007 - 07:14 am: |
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Try writing a short note to your partner. Just enough to start a conversation about the subject.
If there is any spark there, try writing a full letter, laying out what you would like to try.
Let us know how it turns out.
Good spankings are SUPPOSED to hurt !
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Gigi
New member
Username: Gigi
Post Number: 4
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 03, 2007 - 04:16 pm: |
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I guess I should've asked how to find a partner in the first place. j/k
I haven't dated anyone at all seriously for awhile.
Thank you all for you responses. |
Buenaventura
Advanced Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 401
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 03, 2007 - 10:56 pm: |
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I found my spankee through a Yahoo group.I admit I was very lucky and that there,s a bigger problem with security when you,re a female spankee looking for somebody to spank her.Some of the ladies here found good relationships through the internet and maybe they can give you advice on the safest way to do it.I think most men(I emphasize MOST)can be turned into spankers with a lot of communication.I,d say unless you,re dead set against starting a regular relationship with a guy(or girl as the case may be.Right Rose??)And if you don,t want to borrow some lady,s spanker once in a while the internet is probably the answer.Think this calls for the feminine point of view y,all. |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1214
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 04, 2007 - 01:35 am: |
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Here's my story. I met my Dan on a forum like this. We started out as pals with common interests. We were both intrigued by each others comments and soon started emailing each other daily. Pretty soon after that we started chatting via instant messenger. Eventually we moved up to phone calls.
Those were some marathon phone calls btw! Most nights we'd talk four to six hours but we had some calls that lasted even longer. I remember one night we talked until the sun came up. That was so much fun!
We took our time getting to know each other and making sure our expectations were the same for a relationship. Then we started making plans to meet in person. I had already learned so much about him that I had all the information I needed to feel comfortable meeting him. I made sure I took as many safety precautions as possible.
I knew as soon as the first time he put his arms around me that I had found the man I'd been waiting for. We were a perfect match and before I went home, we were making plans to be together permanently. It's been three years now but it feels like I've always known him and we're still deliriously happy.
We were fortunate to find each other and have it all work out for us. Remember to be patient. I've been in this lifestyle for many years and tried a few different spanking relationships before I found the right one for me. I always knew I just had to find the right fit and it might take time...and it did! But it was so worth it. 
Sites like this are great for making contact with your fellow spankos. Just remember if you do find someone online, be very safe and take precautions no matter how well you think you know that person. It's always better to be safe than sorry.
Also, if you can find a spanking group in your area, I encourage you to get involved. If nothing else, you'll make new friends.
Good luck! |
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