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Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 70
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 06:04 am: | 
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If you know that within a few hours, you will be getting a spanking. punishment or play. What goes through your mind during the waiting? Are you aroused sexually, or just plain out and out worried?
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 59
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 06:12 am: |
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Mine are only ever play, so I fidget in anticipation and go 'absent' when people talk to me. The only thought in my head is, come on clock, go faster. My friends ask me why I'm smiling to myself, which is pretty hard to answer. For me definitely sexual arousal, never worried and when the moment comes, so have I, almost. |
Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 71
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 06:21 am: |
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Its very obvious for the person who is going to spank me, what my emotions are, but all i can think of all day is the spanking due. Punishment spankings are usually with the cane but I react the same way. I had an "accident" twice while otk.
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 60
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 07:03 am: |
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That's quite a compliment when you think about it. Either to your obvious pleasure or to your wife's skills.
If us ladies had the same equipment I'm sure it would be just as obvious. |
Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 72
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 07:11 am: |
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The first time it was'nt her, and she was not pleased about the stain! but My wife is always pleased to see that I love her and appreciate what she does for me. she is basicly vanilla but she does her best. which is all I ask. I hope you have the same complicity as we do.
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 62
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 08:09 am: |
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Well, that's what this is all about isn't it? Complicity with one's partner. No way could I ever consider putting myself in the hands of someone who I didn't feel I could trust 100%. |
Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 74
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 08:29 am: |
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Trust is essential in any type of human realtionship. complicity is the bonus nescessary for a close relationship to function on a long term basis. Respect is a large part in a long lasting relationship. We are lucky to have these elements and thats why she smiles when she see's me erect, before she spanks me, We have love in our relationship.
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1566
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 09:53 am: |
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If its a real punishment spanking then I feel dread. If its simply disciplinary Im not worried about it, I know its not going to be that bad. Playful or erotic spankings are anticipated with arousal and a dreamy expression on my face. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 77
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 10:34 am: |
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normally if I'm naked and waiting to be spanked, she does'nt look much at my face, so if I have a dreamy look or not, its not what she's concentrating herself on
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 70
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 02:23 pm: |
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No, she'll be looking at your deriere wondering when to plant the first stroke to wipe that grin off your face. (It probably doesn't, but that is one of the expressions used isn't it?) |
Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 83
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 03:39 pm: |
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I am sure the expression is correct. But she looks at my derriere just after looking up front at the happiness barometer. 
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 72
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 03:51 pm: |
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Now who's showing off? 
I'm sure your barometer is overdue for a reading. I think there might be a heatwave about to hit France.  |
Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 88
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 03:53 pm: |
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Me miss
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 99
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 06:03 pm: |
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You think its broken?
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 81
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 06:13 pm: |
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No idea. Let's ask your wife to put it to the test. Are the chop-sticks still in the bedroom? |
Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 101
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 06:18 pm: |
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fraid so, and they are ready to dish it out. There may be cooked rump on the menu tonight
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 93
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 07:07 pm: |
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Lucky man - a midnight feast 
Is your dreamy look in place? |
Me_home_here
Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 115
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 07:08 pm: |
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you bet 
Its like work. the harder its done the better it feels
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Sarahsbrat
New member
Username: Sarahsbrat
Post Number: 34
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 19, 2006 - 06:46 am: |
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Once Sarah said she had had enough and was going to stop it for as long as she could (behaviour). Her answer to that was to spank me every night for a week. Normally I don't give it much thought, she's gonna anyway, but this was different and as 8pm rolled around I knew after my shower and getting into jammies she was going to. It frightened me. I was nervous, scared, and in tears before she even began the spanking. By Sunday I just wanted it over and done with. Very unpleasant experience.}
Not just any naughty brat...Sarahsbrat
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1249
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 20, 2006 - 06:32 pm: |
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My hubby never gives me a warning...he just dives in and goes for it!
Once he did give me a days warning. I didn't think much about it till he started in and MAN did that one sting!
I loved it...tee hee
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 935
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, July 21, 2006 - 09:50 am: |
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I dont get warnings either. I know by the look in his eye when I've gone to far. |
Sky
New member
Username: Sky
Post Number: 18
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, July 23, 2006 - 04:20 am: |
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Gosh, I get extremely horny just thinking about the next time....
And because it's as much about sex as spanking for us, it just adds to my arousal. |
Weasel
Advanced Spanko
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 123
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, July 23, 2006 - 09:47 am: |
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rolling eyes - I wish I would get told I was gonna get it later. I have to tell him "I want it later" or I'll never get it. I'm with Sky, I also get very horny just thinking about next time...
The ONE time he did warn me I was going to get it later he did indeed follow through. I wish he'd do that again! Knowing that he's not a total spanko convert yet, I hardly dreaded what's coming, rather I anticipated with glee!
Lately though, with this heat (going over 100 again today)all activity (not just sexual activity) has been pretty much suspended.
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 339
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 23, 2006 - 12:37 pm: |
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hey Weasel ..now is a great time to remember why we love/hate wet spankings ...intice him into a cooler shower ..before you reheat things .
and to answer topic ..I would say I am not bothered . not until the time comes where I get the order ..COME HERE NOW!.. then no matter what type I have coming I have to FIGHT to keep the grin off my face.
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Sky
New member
Username: Sky
Post Number: 22
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, July 23, 2006 - 03:17 pm: |
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Sorry you're suffering in the heat, Weasel - I hate when it gets so hot
I know what you mean, Blistering_blonde ;) |
Uh_oh
New member
Username: Uh_oh
Post Number: 31
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 29, 2006 - 12:47 pm: |
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i get very very nervous. my stomach has butterflies and i know sitting will only be a memory in the very near future. i mostly have to take a deep breath and remind myself and that i deserve it and i need it. |
Nicenick06
Advanced Spanko
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 104
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, July 30, 2006 - 03:17 am: |
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There is an element of being scared but for me the overwhelming
feeling/emotion is one of being excited and sexual arousal.
Nick |
Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 237
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 01, 2006 - 10:52 am: |
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I second what Nick said... 
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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