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Kryssi
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kryssi
Post Number: 116
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, December 23, 2006 - 06:02 am: | 
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Okay, so unlike I said I haven't totally dissappeared from the world of spanking.. in fact a friend/roomate of mine spanked me about 2 weeks ago mostly to pull me out of the funk I had been in for about 2 months. Not only that but I have made myself sick numerous time over the past few months from smoking too much in a small amount of time.. (ie. Passing out from nicotine rush).
So I posted on one of my blogs that I was planning on spending Christmas alone while my other two roomies were out at their respective families houses, I'd be sitting at the apartment eating spaghettios and listening to Christmas music. Well, one of my best friends who knows about my kinks and is a top, told my other roomie that I needed to be spanked 10 times for that one (Ie, being so depressive and thinking the world is out to get me, which I do still kind think like that).. however, the roomie that spanked me before, I had made a promise to that I would never let anyone else "master" me. Because he managed to hit just the right nerve (something my (unfortunatly still is) husband couldn't do), and I guess he kinda adopted me as his "sub". So I am afraid that if the roomie that isn't the "master" tries to spank me the "master" will freak out and it will end in a lot of bitterness and me having to find another place to sleep at nights.. *sigh*
So my question is.. (besides the obvious, "Should I even be back in the "scene"" is What should I do? She is going to call this morning to talk to the "master" roomie, about it, and hopefully they can work out something.. but I have a feeling one way or another the next time I'm on the den I will have a sore bottom one way or another...
So I guess I'm asking for advice a little too late.. hmm.. oh well, any advice would be helpful anyway.
"I wasn't armoured, you were king, I gave my everything, Because sometimes you showed me just a hint of you and then. For just a moment I romanticised the notion, I can take away the torment, I can love you like they never did"
~Darren Hayes~
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Blushingbride
New member
Username: Blushingbride
Post Number: 48
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, December 24, 2006 - 11:27 am: |
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I would recommend that you talk with your "master" about your other friend's comments and let them handle it. If he feels that you need said spanking, by him or another, then you have your answer. If not, then that is your answer.
That is assuming that your unwillingness to submit to this friend is based ONLY on the fact that you agreed to "never let anyone else master you". If that is not the main issue for you, then definitely you should NOT allow this to happen as that is not being consentual. That then becomes abuse. At least in my opinion it does. |
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