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Annake
New member
Username: Annake
Post Number: 5
Registered: 01-2007
| | Posted on Monday, January 29, 2007 - 01:41 pm: | 
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Hello there! I do have a problem right now, i have lived in a M/s relationship for a long time and 2 months ago my Master took my collar away, i do miss Him, but what i miss the most is the lether strap and the sound of it hitting my ass,titts or any were, and the feeling after a good spanking.To be honest, i´m about to go crazy, sometimes i think that there are something wrong with me, but i do work better and are more focused in what i do when i get the strap every day. Is this a normal feeling for us or is it only me? i just feel that a piece of ME has been taken away, a thing that i cant live without |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1234
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2007 - 02:05 pm: |
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Annake, when you say your master took your collar away, what does that mean? Did the relationship end at that point or did it change? Since I don't know exactly what your circumstances are, I'll answer as best as I can.
I think it's only natural to miss spanking if you've been receiving it on a regular basis. Something would be wrong if you didn't miss it. Some of us need the structure we get in certain spanking relationships. It's comforting to know someone is watching over you and helping you be your best. The spankings were how you felt that in a tangible way so that might make you miss the strap even more.
I've been there in the past so I know what that's like. All I can say is hang in there and take care of you. It's tough but sometimes you have to stand on your own. (Again since I don't know your situation, this may not apply to you.) I've been in more than just a couple of these types of relationships and I've learned from each one. When each one ended, I was always sad and missed all the aspects of being in a spanking relationship. The upside was that it gave me the chance to evaluate each relationship so that when the next one came along, I knew what I needed and was able to express that to my next partner. I think that was important because when I met Dan, whom I'm completely in love with, we were able to say with confidence what we wanted then and now. I think that's one of the things which has made this relationship so solid.
I really feel for you especially because despite being in a solid relationship, right now I'm missing getting spanked on a regular basis. I know this situation is only temporary but it still sucks. We're in the middle of a family crisis so we haven't had any quality spanking time together and I'm missing it like crazy. I can't wait until things settle down and I can get some good spanking and loving. There might some people who think there's something wrong with us for missing our spankings, but here you're as normal as the rest of us.  |
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