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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1283
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 02:30 pm: | 
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I'm curious, how intense do you enjoy your spankings? Do you prefer light spankings, hard spankings, or spankings that have a little of both? Would you rather have spankings with stingy toys or thuddy toys?
I prefer fairly intense spankings with a combination of stingy and thuddy toys. I really don't care too much about how he gets me warmed up, but I like it when Dan spanks me with something that stings then goes to a thuddy toy and then back to a stingy one and then back again to thuddy. He can do that over and over again increasing the intensity with each toy.
When he alternates like that, he increases the intensity level slowly which is something I really enjoy. Also, I like a lot of change so it's a good thing we have lots of toys to choose from!
Also, when he delivers a good, long spanking like that, it means I'll be tender for a day or so which I really enjoy. I like having a bit of tender as a reminder, but not so much that I can't get another spanking again fairly quickly. Luckily my bottom is pretty tough resilient. 
So what kind of intensity do you enjoy?  |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1718
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 02:36 pm: |
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I have to admit I like intense spankings. I don't get much of a warm-up. I don't think my husband even thinks of a warm-up.
He does often switch between his hand and his belt or the hairbrush..or whatever he has handy.
I like that...about the time I get used to what he is using he switches.
I like thuddy things better....but I must say the stingy things leave an impression.
I really like to be able to feel a spanking the next day. |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1667
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 05:42 pm: |
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It depends on the situation for me. Sometimes I like it started out easily and built up then lasts for a long time...or sometimes I like it really intense so I feel it for hours afterward.
We have a nice selection of paddles and other stuff but his hand is quite stingy all by itself!
He doesn't think of a warm up either even tho I have asked that he try it. Silly ole...erm...never mind
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Oftenred
New member
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 10
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 08:40 pm: |
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I agree, I like some warm up with, things getting more intense as it goes along. And also that his hand is one of my favorite things, but like some leather things too...guess I would rate those as stingy/thuddy, depending on the weight of them...leather paddle...pretty thuddy, strap pretty stingy. |
Rusty
Spanko
Username: Rusty
Post Number: 53
Registered: 01-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 04:11 am: |
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From a spanker perspective it can be hard or as soft and sensual as required. If the spankee requires a hard spank then the spanker(me) can accomodate. I am driven by the spankee response. EG:Plenty of of noise with no escape, I'll increase the tempo. You have to work the moment. |
Bratattitude
New member
Username: Bratattitude
Post Number: 42
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, March 01, 2007 - 12:13 pm: |
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If a proper warm up was given I like an intense spanking. If no warm up is given I cannot take very much.  |
Pinkcheeks
Prime Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 1090
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, March 01, 2007 - 02:51 pm: |
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I love a warmup too - followed by a somewhat intese spanking (guess everyone's definition of intense is different). I prefer "thuddy" - but agree with Tammy - sting leaves a lasting impression! I think my favorite spankings start off with long slow warm-ups, followed by varying degrees of thud and sting - using several different implements.
**Although I LOVE when a spanking is spur of the moment!
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Mfb
New member
Username: Mfb
Post Number: 8
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2007 - 12:28 am: |
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I love my wife to really try to bruise my bottom. Strangely enough she rarely does even though she uses canes, slippers, hair brushes etc. I very much like to have to sit very carefully afterwards. A rosy red rear works wonders for me |
Msbehaving
New member
Username: Msbehaving
Post Number: 1
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 02:00 pm: |
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I also like a warm up. Once I am warmed up I can take a a pretty severe spanking. If it is a punishment spanking, I rarely get a warm up. For me, the intensity has a lot more to do with how and why the spanking is being given and my reaction. I can get a belt spanking for punishment that will have me crying and screaming. An hour later, I may not even have any physical signs of the spanking. On the other hand, I might just be getting a fun spanking, gradually increasing the intensity and changing implements, I might have marks for a couple of days, but I probably won't cry much. |
Blushingbride
Spanko
Username: Blushingbride
Post Number: 63
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 05:36 pm: |
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I too like pretty intense spankings, with a warm up. Sometimes I think hubby does more warm up and builds things almost too slowly that it never seems that intense although he feels it was. Before I liked more thuddy things, but I am finding a stronger apppreciation for sting over the last couple months or so.  We have a new wooden flipper thingy (like a wooden spoon, but flatter and squared off) that I is my newest favourite (especially since it came from dollar store  ).
For punnishment, there's no warm up and since that hasn't happened much  it still surprises him how much less I can handle than when it is for fun. |
Lexymalfoy
New member
Username: Lexymalfoy
Post Number: 7
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 06, 2007 - 12:12 am: |
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It all really depends what kind of mood I'm in. Sometimes intense and sometimes I prefer light.
I prefer when my boyfriend uses (and I kid you not) knotted fishing line. We both love to fish and so, through curious experimentation, have found out if you take about 2 feet of fishing line and make knots all the way through when you feel that line come down oh you...OMFG!!!
Yeah, pretty intense!
Sticks and stones may breaks my bones but whips and chains excite me...
...so throw me down, tie me up, and show me that you like me!
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Taco25
New member
Username: Taco25
Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, March 08, 2007 - 03:05 am: |
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it depends. Sometimes I like to be punished where the spanking is very intense. Other times I like to play spanking games and just get my butt hot and red. |
Chelle711
New member
Username: Chelle711
Post Number: 4
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, March 08, 2007 - 04:57 pm: |
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OK well - how about none of the above??? LOL I don't LIKE spankings of any sort, but when I've earned discipline, hubby knows that a warm up is required if the spanking is going to be long enough to get to my brain. I would prefer the thuddy type - but - go figure - he prefers stingy - he says it leaves a longer lasting impression on my fanny and my brain.
Blessings to you all,
Chelle |
Zin
New member
Username: Zin
Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Friday, March 09, 2007 - 03:27 am: |
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I'm pretty new to this, so I haven't really had a chance to figure out what it is I like. I've also never had a really intense spanking, or one that's lasted very long. I definately think I prefer things that sting over things that are too heavy. Part of me wants to try an intense spanking, but I'm too timid. |
Leannan02
New member
Username: Leannan02
Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Friday, March 09, 2007 - 04:12 pm: |
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My preference seems to change depending on my mood. Sometimes I like a sweet "loving" spanking, sometimes more erotic, other times more disciplinary and "angry" (not actually angry, of course, but you probably get the idea). I like the thud usually, but sting can feel good sometimes too. All I know is that I always get a sexual rush out of it... it isn't just a security thing like with some people I have heard about (and that preference is just fine in my book, it's just not the case with me).
"I do not understand words and will not accept them in exchange for my feelings." -Shirley Jackson
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Ruinae8
New member
Username: Ruinae8
Post Number: 12
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, March 29, 2007 - 06:36 pm: |
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Im with Leannan02 - for me it depends on the mood - sometimes I feel I could go the whole way and be restrained and just take whats coming and deal with it - othertimes I want just the "beginnings" and cry off as and when I feel - whichever, I still enjoy it for whatever it means to me at the time , but trust is still the over riding factor |
Pegus
New member
Username: Pegus
Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 09, 2007 - 04:00 am: |
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My favorite spankings are long (several hours) with sensual interludes. By stretching the spanking out like we do my limitis are greatly increased and I am always on or over the edge of orgasm. |
Burningcheeks
New member
Username: Burningcheeks
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, May 10, 2007 - 09:34 pm: |
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as a spankee i like a warm up first but other times i like a full on intense hard spanking |
Otktime4sassy
New member
Username: Otktime4sassy
Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, May 26, 2007 - 01:29 pm: |
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I like scolding, then long warm-up with continued scolding, progressive spankings (meaning stages of clothes that protect my bottom being lowered/raised one by one) spanks with both hand and implements; all the while he is telling me what is not acceptable and if this happens again...yada yada yada. I love feeling "well spanked" the next day. Sassy  } |
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