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Zin
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Username: Zin

Post Number: 4
Registered: 03-2007
Posted on Friday, March 09, 2007 - 05:04 pm:   Edit Post

I'm seeing some terms used on the forum that I'm not familiar with. Can someone help me out? For example, I'm not sure what a topper is, and what a DD relationship is. Those are the only two I can think of right now, but I'll be back with any more I find. Thanks in advance!
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Weasel
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Username: Weasel

Post Number: 212
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Friday, March 09, 2007 - 08:36 pm:   Edit Post

DD is domestic discipline and to "top" is to be the spanker or the dominant part of the equation. The spankee would be the "bottom", or the submissive partner.
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Blushingbride
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Username: Blushingbride

Post Number: 70
Registered: 10-2006
Posted on Friday, March 09, 2007 - 08:38 pm:   Edit Post

A topper is (at least as far as I know) the person who spanks. Also in same manner - those whose bottoms are being spanked are often called bottoms. Also in place of "top" and variations, you may see HOH (Head of House) which I know confused me for ages.

As for DD it usually means Domestic Discipline.

Good luck with translating our shorthand and when in doubt, ask.
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Zin
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Username: Zin

Post Number: 5
Registered: 03-2007
Posted on Saturday, March 10, 2007 - 12:32 am:   Edit Post

thanks! will do!
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Aka
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Username: Aka

Post Number: 9
Registered: 03-2007
Posted on Saturday, March 10, 2007 - 02:14 pm:   Edit Post

Quick references:
hoh - head of the house
dd - domestic discipline
otk - over the knee
cp - corpral punishment
xp - experience(s)
sub - submissive spankeee
dom - dominate (Spanker)
bb - bare bottom
bd - bondage & discipline
sm - heavier sub/master forms of sadistic pain

I was a top years before I found the net and was puzzled by a lot of these and more
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Monkeymomsc1
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Username: Monkeymomsc1

Post Number: 11
Registered: 05-2007
Posted on Sunday, June 17, 2007 - 10:27 am:   Edit Post

thank you all. ive had the same questions as we have no one in our lives to ask. most ive decoded on my own, but AKA has a great list. thanks again.
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Lilgirl
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Username: Lilgirl

Post Number: 6
Registered: 02-2006
Posted on Sunday, June 17, 2007 - 07:31 pm:   Edit Post

don`t forget

TTWD= This Thing We Do

i`ve seen that one in alot of sites...and it took awhile before i found out what it meant...
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Bethie
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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1587
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Monday, June 18, 2007 - 01:14 am:   Edit Post

In regard to "TTWD" (which I personally hate for various and personal reasons), we prefer to just come right out and say "spanking" or whatever it is we're talking about. We're all adults here and shouldn't be afraid to say the words. Also it's confusing because some people use that term to refer to spanking and others to BDSM subjects. That's probably why it didn't get mentioned here.

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