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Clarity
New member
Username: Clarity
Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2008
| | Posted on Monday, June 30, 2008 - 01:04 am: | 
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Hello! So, a few days ago, I told one of my best guy friends about how I want to be spanked by my husband in a sexual way. I was always embarrassed by this "fetish" and had never told anyone before. He encouraged me to tell my husband, so I found a sneaky way to get him to bring it up! So far it's going great. The first time he did it was on our wedding night (2 and a half years ago) but only once or twice and very lightly.
On Thursday, we sent texts back and forth all day and I danced around the subject, trying to find a way to get him to say he wanted to spank me... and it worked! We were both about to explode by the time he came home. I went to the store and got some new panties (he has always wanted me to wear thongs) and a matching babydoll nighty. He still didn't know how much I wanted him to spank me, he just bit me and pulled my hair a little bit... so I got him in the mood again later that night and in the middle of it told him I needed him to spank me... harder and more. He started talking dirty (for the first time ever!) and started to totally dominate me in bed (holding me down, telling me what to do, etc.) I had never been so turned on!
Since Wednesday, we've gotten it on twice a night, and he's becoming more and more comfortable with spanking me, even saying that he likes spanking me. We went to Fascinations and he insisted on getting a paddle, cuffs, a clit teaser, and a feather. Last night he was even more vocally commanding. To induce more punishment, I would try to untie myself when he wasn't looking. I got caught several times, then he turned me around and said "This is for trying to untie yourself" and paddled me so hard, my bottom was still warm to the touch when we were finished. Then he cuffed my hands behind my back, held onto the chain between, and took me from behind -- alternating between pulling my hair to arch my back and paddling/hand spanking.
It has definitely brought us closer together outside of the bedroom as well...
Anyway, he just came home from his softball game. I helped myself to the clit teaser while he was gone. I'm going to confess to him and see what happens.  |
Greatguy
Spanko
Username: Greatguy
Post Number: 31
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, July 10, 2008 - 07:49 am: |
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So..........what happened?
Greatguy
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Rex138
Spanko
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 77
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 10, 2008 - 05:25 pm: |
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Hey Clarity, welcome to the "board". 
Great to see you've found someone open to this awesome experience. Keep up the communication and it only gets better and more fulfilling for both!
I am very fortunate to have my Mistress who WAS open minded about it, NOW she enjoys it and I don't think I could stop her if I wanted to. (But I don't) 
Have fun!
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Clarity
New member
Username: Clarity
Post Number: 3
Registered: 06-2008
| | Posted on Monday, July 14, 2008 - 08:39 pm: |
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It's been 2 weeks now and I have to say the sex has only gotten better. My hubby has really stepped up his game, I think it turned him on to see that I have a "kinky" side. Now that he is "in control" and he knows that I like it, I've gotten insight for what he wants as well. We've even tried several new positions that I thought I could never do but they work out great.
At the rate he's going, I think he might have been wanting this too... if not more, as much as me! |
Greatguy
Spanko
Username: Greatguy
Post Number: 32
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 19, 2008 - 11:21 am: |
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Good for you!
Greatguy
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