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Babyj4
New member
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 33
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 14, 2005 - 01:38 pm: | 
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my husband is a vanilla, though he enjoys spanking durring sex. I have taken the advice of some of the other members and left him alone about it. It has been about 1 1/2 weeks since I last tried to talk to him about spanking me, and this morning I couldn't help myself, and I asked if he'd been thinking about what I had asked him. He said yes, shot me a very mischivous look  and then smiled as I became a bit unsettled. Well? I asked,and all he said was well see. I am so utterly confused, I get the feeling he is wanting to, but doesn't know how to start. what do you think, is their anything I could try to help him become better informed? He is not easy to talk to sometimes.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 491
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 14, 2005 - 09:02 pm: |
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It sure seems to me as if he is thinking it over Baby...and in a positive manner. I would back off again for a bit and see what he's up to.
I know you want to push and push until he does what you want, but that usually is a bad idea and only makes things worse. Practise patience for a little longer and hopefully you will be rewarded.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *pout*
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Babyj4
New member
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 41
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 14, 2005 - 11:34 pm: |
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Wolfie, I hope you are right, but the suspence is killing me. You give great advice. thanks
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Anya78
New member
Username: Anya78
Post Number: 2
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 05:42 am: |
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well if he already likes during sex you might try going for some swats as a foreplay.
since the display of a nicely covered behind is very animating too it might work |
Babyj4
New member
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 44
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 02:14 pm: |
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Anya78, oh he dishes it out durring foreplay all the time, it's our thing I guess, but it totally isn't the same. I am in a completely diferent state of mind in both scinarios. I need the punishment spanking to release anger tension and a whole stream of other emotions I am other wise for some reason unable to deal with on my own. Forplay spankings just turn me on, it doesn't help with these other problems.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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