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Kiwi_man
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 115
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 07:53 am: | 
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I thought I'd start a thread on O.T.K. because of its iconic status amongst us spankos.
For me it will always be the spanking position and I have a few loose theories as to why, but I suspect others here might have something more concise to say than my unfocussed ramblings.
So what is it about O.T.K.....? |
Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 273
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 08:39 am: |
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I think the otk position, is the best for me. reason is, that the man has total control over me. And usually has my hands pinned and legs also. What do you have after that, but to give up the struggle and except what is going to happen to you.  |
Vulcano
New member
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 25
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 09:16 am: |
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OTK is not THAT special with me, though I must say I like it very, very much. I love feeling his body with mine, the way I can start touching his legs when the spanking starts to be harder as if embracing him... a token of love in the midst of pain, as if giving me the feeling of being embraced by him too. Generally, it feels to me much more partership-like... don't want to say more erotic as any harder spanking can make me go crazy, OTK or not. It's in a way more playful, I can try to struggle away and he'll hold me down as a response... other positions are more about pain for me than playing. For me it's not that much about feeling his complete control over me, he has that when he bounds me up, that is THE feeling of him having complete control and me not being able to run away from any single swat delivered... |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 408
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 12:06 pm: |
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Otk is very special to me, especially if its done while on a couch or bed so my body is comfortably supported. I love everything about it!
I love being close to his body, cradled on his lap and able to feel him as he moves against me. I adore the vulnerability of the position...his arm keeping me still and holding my hand if I try and block him, knowing he can make it worse if he clamps my legs still, my bottom totally exposed to his eyes and hand....
I am a traditionalist, as I'm sure many women are. It took me a very long time to come out of the spanko closet, and it was my dreams and fantasies of spanking that kept me going all those years. So its all the traditional things that I gew up reading and hearing about (wasnt spanked as a child) that turn me on today. Just as no other word for the act...such as whalloping, smacking, slapping, whacking does it for me as the word spanking does, no position other than otk can get me more turned on or make me feel more submissive. It's the ultimate in my opinion. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Kimbers
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 123
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 02:03 pm: |
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It is very hard for me to pinpoint exactly WHY the OTK is the best, but it is always what I fantasize about! Sure, there are other positions that are mighty fine, but for me it is always OTK! I love the ability to struggle yet feel secure and the vulnerability of it. I am not a submissive at all in my everday life, but I do love the OTK because it does force you to let go and become submissive.
Great question Kiwi! 
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1341
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 02:11 pm: |
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OTK? Two words.....love it!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Beachley
Advanced Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 127
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 03:24 pm: |
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I prefer OTK also, as long as it is a comfortable OTK and not just draped over a straight backed chair with me hanging out on both sides. That is not too comfortable.
I prefer to be held around the waist when OTK, but not my hand held and I do my best not to put it back there.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Pagan
Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 94
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 07:27 pm: |
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I looooooooooooooooooooooooooove OTK. Well, really Over The Lap (in bed).
Love it, love it, love it.
And if I'm hauled over a lap and pinned....Even better....gush... |
Kittycat
New member
Username: Kittycat
Post Number: 11
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 07:33 pm: |
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OTK is fantastic. I am over his knees, but he has his arm around my waist. I want to feel his hand on my ass, but I want to feel protected by him at the same time. I haven't tried anything else so I have nothing to compare it to. |
Kiwi_man
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 117
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 24, 2005 - 06:15 am: |
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As a top lemme tell ya;the view is fantastic.
I am really enjoying these posts; keep 'em coming! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1348
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 24, 2005 - 09:53 am: |
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Want a quick flash K.M.? Fanny flips up the back of her skirt then dashes out of the room. 
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kittycat
New member
Username: Kittycat
Post Number: 18
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 25, 2005 - 08:58 am: |
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KiwiMan, got you message, but couldn't respond. Try my personal email address. |
Spankin4me
New member
Username: Spankin4me
Post Number: 6
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 25, 2005 - 09:21 am: |
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I agree with Beachley and Pagan. OTK is best but I like having a little support for the rest of my body as well. Maybe we should start calling it OTL for over the lap like Pagan said!
I'm sure that the reason otL appeals is for the inimacy aspect. In a way it's like getting a hug and a spanking all in one...what could be better than that? |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 419
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 25, 2005 - 12:18 pm: |
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Nuthin' I can think of Spankin4me. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Smartnnaughty
Advanced Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 263
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 25, 2005 - 08:52 pm: |
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I think you guys are on to something! Yes over the lap is the way for me. It can be a couch or bed or whatever. I need to have my body resting on something.
I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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Kiwi_man
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 164
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 06:51 am: |
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I think using the good ol' straight-backed chair is great for a certain mood.
What's teriffic about the bed
or sofa o.t.l. is the opportunity for eye cotact during the happy event. |
Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 311
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 07:24 am: |
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the last time I got spanked, he just grab a dining room hair, he was really fast on is feet. I used to be worst than I am, and I got it alot in this relationship. He was from south, he even called me yank. but he never let use bed or sofa.  |
Smartnnaughty
Advanced Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 268
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 07:47 am: |
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KW? Eye contact?
Do you like to see the terror in her eyes as you bring out the paddle with holes in it?
I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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Kiwi_man
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 167
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 09:29 am: |
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Among other things,SnN,among other things. |
Smartnnaughty
Advanced Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 269
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 09:40 am: |
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What other things, Mr. Man? Whatever do you mean?
I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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Kimbers
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 165
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 09:43 am: |
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Yeah, WHAT OTHER THINGS? You are SO full of suspense Kiwi!
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 423
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 11:08 am: |
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I think he means the look of desire as he pulls the panties down...right Kiwi-man?
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Kiwi_man
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 172
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 11:13 am: |
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There are more things to alter the look in a lady's eyes than terror,n'est pas?
Joy for instance,delight at suddenly speaking in tongues and seeing paradise in an upraised hand. |
Kimbers
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 174
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 11:42 am: |
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Spoken like a true spanking gentlemen! Ahhhhhh, to delight in seeing paradise indeed! Yeeeeeeeehaww!!
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Kittycat
New member
Username: Kittycat
Post Number: 19
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 26, 2005 - 06:28 pm: |
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Kiwi, you certainly have a way with words. You can spank me anytime. Ouch! |
Kiwi_man
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 195
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 27, 2005 - 07:52 am: |
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Merci beaucoup. |
Kittycat
New member
Username: Kittycat
Post Number: 20
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 27, 2005 - 09:10 am: |
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KM, I hope that means... come, lay across my knees and get ready for the time of your life. Ouch, that feels so good. |
Kiwi_man
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 198
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 27, 2005 - 09:51 am: |
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see me in my study sometime or invite me to your thread... |
Kittycat
New member
Username: Kittycat
Post Number: 21
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 27, 2005 - 10:00 am: |
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hey KM, know how to reach me. and i'd love to see your study, or anything else you want to show me. |
Nybrat
New member
Username: Nybrat
Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 27, 2005 - 07:09 pm: |
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I think OTK/OTL is the most comforting position of all.....like everyone has stated it just makes you feel so close and so secure. I also like to be over the lap on a couch or bed but it is also nice to be otk with your head to the floor....it does make you feel a little more open and vulnerable. Sinny
Sinny
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1377
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 27, 2005 - 08:49 pm: |
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Kittycat, I thought you were a top!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kittycat
New member
Username: Kittycat
Post Number: 22
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 27, 2005 - 11:41 pm: |
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Fanny, I'm not sure about the language, but I guess I'm the "spankee" not the "spanker". I'm the one who wants to have a red hot bottom. I told you I was new at this. |
Spankin4me
New member
Username: Spankin4me
Post Number: 9
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 08:54 am: |
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Nybrat, you do have a point about having your head to the floor. I can see where that would appeal. I think I would go for that if I could reach the floor with my forearms since I have some wrist issues and it wouldn't be good for me to have to support myself on them. All this talk has sure got me interested in giving it another try though!
Wow....Kiwiman must be quite the spanker if he's got people switching sides...lol |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1378
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 10:23 am: |
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Kittycat, then you should change your profile. You have yourself listed as a top, when in fact you are a bottom.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kittycat
New member
Username: Kittycat
Post Number: 23
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 10:53 am: |
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Fanny, what do I have to put on it? I am the one that wants to be spanked? Appreciate your help. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1383
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 11:37 am: |
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check your email for instructions.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Chuck
New member
Username: Chuck
Post Number: 9
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 01:59 pm: |
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My thoughts on OTK.
When you say spanking to me it means over the knee or over the lap. Other positions can be interesting and efficient for administering chastisement but a spanking means OTK/OTL.
A lady once told me OTK was humilliating and if she had to take a "licking" she would have it over the bed or bending over something. I would never want to truely humiliate a woman I care about but embarrass, humble, remove false pride I have no problen with. Nothing says submission, trust, the giving up of control, respect and love as when a grown woman bares her bottom and lowers herself over the lap of a man presenting her most sensitive and private area for spanking. I have absolute total control and she knows it.
I love the feeling of her weight and warmth pressing on me. The view of the small of her back, the swell of those lovely, magnificent cheeks separated by the deep cleft with the mysteries deeper down and the stretched out legs are a thrilling sight. I enjoy adjusting the position, moving her more forward or back until the target is in perfect position.
I like the feel of her cheeks and the way they bounce and move as I begin to spank with the palm of my hand.. The first blush of pink and the heat begins to radiate, her legs begin to move and she begins to squirm as the spanking becomes more difficult to take. You can feel her movement, the muscle contractions and subtle attempt to shift position as the spanking progresses. Her emotions are transmitted directly to you, the distress, the pain, the release all can be felt as they unfold as she lies over your lap. It will only be over when you let her up and she knows it. She can’t roll over like she could if face down on a bed or run from the room if she were standing or bending over a chair.
Let's not forget the sound of the slap ..the resounding smack, smack...Smack.
A woman can be made to participate in her punishment by releasing your grip or hold and requiring her to place both palms on the floor, head up and toes on the floor (if she can't reach the floor just trying is good enough). She is made responsible for staying in position (perched on you knees). This is not very comfortable so don't ake her stay in this position too long.
The clasic spanking position is by far the best of all allowing access, control, submission, view, flexibility and history are all on the side of OTK/OTL.
Chuck |
Kimbers
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 194
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 02:23 pm: |
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Wow Chuck, you certainly have a way with words! There are so many subtle things we all like that it can be difficult to verbalize it. You did so beautifully. Have you thought of playing the Cyber-play area?
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Bluepencil
New member
Username: Bluepencil
Post Number: 15
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 02:57 pm: |
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Chuck, you have such a way with words. That was very eloquently put. We generally take "the chair" and turn it 90 degrees to the bed. That lets the top of the body be comfortably supported while the lower part of the body is over the lap in the traditional, extremely satisfying, position. |
Kittycat
New member
Username: Kittycat
Post Number: 25
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 04:31 pm: |
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Chuck you are amazing. The only thing i knew was OTK, with his arm around my waist, holding me in place. But the way you said it, wow. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1386
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 04:54 pm: |
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Chuck..........Damn, phew!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Bigfoot1408
Spanko
Username: Bigfoot1408
Post Number: 69
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 09:49 pm: |
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i prefer her over my lap..
that way i can hug her and sneak a feel of whatever is in the vicinity of my left hand while i use the right one on her bare butt to change it's color and temperature.
there is no intimacy in having her bend over a piece of furniture to get spanked. there is no hugging no caressing and as the man said ,,,, the view is priceless.
LOOK OUT LADY,,,,,,, HERE I COME.......... |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 428
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 10:07 pm: |
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Oh Bigfoot! 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Bigfoot1408
Spanko
Username: Bigfoot1408
Post Number: 72
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 10:15 pm: |
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Oh Bigfoot!
maam?????? you called???? |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1388
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 10:26 pm: |
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LOL! Bigfoot, it's about time we saw some action from you!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Bigfoot1408
Spanko
Username: Bigfoot1408
Post Number: 73
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 10:37 pm: |
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i've been keeping up with the messages by e mail but short on time to post...
i will do better from now on. hopefully. i am starting two new businesses and they have taken most of my "free" time, but they are set up now so i can unlax and relax and x ,,,, and rejoin the fun.  |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 430
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 11:14 pm: |
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Good, we're always glad to have you join us. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1389
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 28, 2005 - 11:17 pm: |
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So jump right in, Bigfoot. There are plenty of willing brats just aching to play. 
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kiwi_man
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 199
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 29, 2005 - 03:59 am: |
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Chuck,you're a star. |
Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 322
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 29, 2005 - 07:05 am: |
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please jump in chuck, I think Kiwi man is getting tired, his arm anyway |
Debspanks
New member
Username: Debspanks
Post Number: 1
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 17, 2005 - 03:25 pm: |
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My husband enjoys OTK Spankings and he gets his share! |
Kendra
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 367
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 12:24 am: |
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I have a different take on OTK, not so much in the position itself, 'cause I love it. But in the positioning. He finds it more comfortable if he's sitting on the bed cross legged and I am laying across his knees, my behind on one side and my torso cradled on his crossed legs. I can see taller women having problems with this, but since I am so tiny I fit perfectly. It works for me because I can hang on to his leg during a spanking, (unless of course I squirm too much and put my hand back, then it's pinned to my back). I guess it's just the feeling of security, knowing that I am not going to roll off his lap, and he has total control of the situation.
That's my 2 cents.
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Poofette
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Username: Poofette
Post Number: 22
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 03:01 am: |
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I guess I'm the odd one of the bunch. OTK is not my favorite position. Probably because I have some intimacy issues. Go figure. Also because I hate dangling awkwardly, head down, legs kicking. Like the postings before say, OTK is an extremely vulnerable and intimate position with all the control in the top's most capable hands. My favorite position is on a bed, pillows under my hips, him beside me or under me, with one hand in the small of my back keeping me still and the other hand....doing the deed. (I'm a wriggler not a struggler so one firm hand is all it usually takes to keep me in place) Generally speanking, my hands are pinned beneath me, not attempting to block and my face is buried in more pillows. I hate, hate, hate, having him watch my face if we're in spanking mode. Anyone else have issues with that?
Poofette |
Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 281
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 07:07 am: |
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We actually don't do OTK so much as OTL. I lie across both legs, with my weight more supported. Comfortable for us both.
If we're playing around, and he just grabs me, he always sits and pulls me between his legs, and bends me over one, with my body pinned under one arm.
Believe me...I am going NOWHERE when he does that. I can squirm/struggle all I like. I'm there til he lets me up. |
Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 181
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 07:10 am: |
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I enjoy a man OTK, but am with Poofette, that it's a VERY intimate position. If I'm at a party, I hesitate to take a casual playmate OTK, as I don't care to "feel" his excitement, if ya know what I mean.
In a personal situation, as long as I truly care for my partner, OTK would probably be required.
K |
Spankingcouple
New member
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 5
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 09:13 am: |
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OTK spankings are best for us..this postion allows my wife to feel helpless and her bottom vulerable..She loves her woodned paddle appilied to her bare bottom and I am more than happy to oblig..For us there is not a better postion for spanking..
Andy&Trish |
Redhinney
Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 85
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 01:57 pm: |
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W and I pefer OTK and it is the position I get most of my spankings in. I like it becasue hecan still touch me and hold me tigter. I am atall person so I don't exactly fit as easy as a smaller person would be we do find a way to make it work.
I think for a spanking to be goos the spanker should be able to hold and carresses ant area he wants |
Bottomsup
New member
Username: Bottomsup
Post Number: 1
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 19, 2005 - 05:10 pm: |
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My first post! I had to convince my vanilla husband to try occasional erotic spanking and now he enjoys it, too. He couldn't get past the "hitting a girl" thing but the first time he tried it and saw how responsive I was to it, he got into it. Couldn't believe it. I never tried OTK before in other relationships, but my husband decided after seeing a spanking movie that he'd like to try it with me over his lap in the bed. I always felt that OTK was too...I don't know...childish? But it worked well! He really liked the view and the accessibility of my most private parts. Needless to say, I loved it, too, especially being able to feel his "response." Now I am a devotee! |
Neoserenity87
Advanced Spanko
Username: Neoserenity87
Post Number: 277
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, November 21, 2005 - 11:20 am: |
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I think I really enjoy the OTK but I agree with Ftop, I don't want to necessarily "feel" anything that he has going on unless we are anything but in a serious relationship. Anyway, I still really like the feel of it. Being real close and surrendering myself to my honey.
Kuwait here I come!!!
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Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 186
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, November 21, 2005 - 01:54 pm: |
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Speaking of feeling "it".......I once met a guy, at a party (friend of a friend thing), in a scene, and he began to hump my leg, like a dog. I couldn't believe it. I pushed him off my lap...errrr, leg, and onto the floor. I told him if we were to continue, he could place himself over a few pillows, and I'd use the strap on him. He continued this movement with the pillows and I was gratefully we weren't using MY room.
After the scene, we discussed this antic of his, and he said, "it's what women want."  I didn't ask him which women, but I'm thinking it was just more of that same old wishful thinking again. I don't know a single woman that enjoys having her leg humped, like a dog.
Nice enough man...but I'll never spank him again.
I guess we all have different ideas, and different views on what's good. He enjoyed it...I didn't.
K
PS THIS was the incident that changed my view on taking casual playmates OTK. |
Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 290
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, November 21, 2005 - 03:03 pm: |
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When I used to Top my former partner, I would liberally spread baby oil between my legs and over his...member.
When he went OTK he would put it between my legs. The spanking would end when er...he was done.
Now, we were lovers, so that was ok. Being ground into by a strange man would NOT be ok with me though.
My husband has spanked other women with me there, but never OTK. I don't have a problem with him spanking their bare bottoms with his bare hand...but I would have a problem with him taking them OTK.
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Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 450
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 22, 2005 - 07:05 pm: |
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Personally I love the OTK. I love the feeling that I'm a little girl and when my panties get lowered, well, that just puts me in orbit. My hubby prefers OTK as well. And he's just so good at it. Plus, the cuddling and events that follow...you just can't find a better way to enjoy each other. 
Once I thought I was wrong but I was mistaken
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Katie_spades
New member
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 32
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 09, 2005 - 03:15 am: |
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OTK is my favorite position because it's the most intimate. I feel loved when I'm over Jake's lap getting a spanking with his hand, paddle, or brush. I'm spanked and have been spanked in so many positions but with someone special it is so close and intimate.
Please sir, I don't need a spanking. I'll be good, I promise!
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Fireman_chris
New member
Username: Fireman_chris
Post Number: 17
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 05:59 pm: |
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The type of OTK I prefer is probably really best referred to as OTL (true OTK in my mind means sitting in a chair with the bottom bent over your lap).
The way I prefer (and my wife and most of my playmates, past and present, for that matter) is sitting on a couch or bed with her laying across my lap. Its more comfortable for both parties IMO.
My wife and I will also use a similar position in the bedroom. I'll sit on the edge of the bed with my legs apart and have her bend over my left thigh, so that her torso is resting on the bed, but her feet are on the floor (at least until she starts kicking). This is one of my favorite positions, and its very easy to "hook" my right leg across the back of her legs to hold her in position.
As you slide down the banisters of life
may the splinters never point the wrong way.
Old Irish Proverb
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Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 97
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 20, 2005 - 02:20 pm: |
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Chris, I would have to say that Jake and I are pretty much the same; I don't know that he has spanked me too much over his knee persay aas his lap but believe me, it's just as effective. And he does the same thing! When I start squirming, he hooks his thigh over me and it's like a deadlock. I can't move; I hate it!
Please sir, I don't need a spanking. I'll be good, I promise!
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