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Verywideawake1
New member Username: Verywideawake1
Post Number: 2 Registered: 05-2010
| Posted on Saturday, May 29, 2010 - 05:42 pm: |
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Hi all I've been lurking for a while and finally decided to post. I have a really hard time admitting my interest in spanking, so this all feels a bit awkward still. One of the problems I run into when looking for spanking partners is that, although spanking is sexual for me and does turn me on, I don't want to have sex with my spanking partner. (I suppose the exception would be a long term relationship that included spanking.) It is hard to find someone who will spank you and not expect anything sexual. I did have my first adult spanking the other night. It was a little awkward, but still enjoyable. Ummm...I'm 27, a grad student (psych) and a music lover. |
Yorkie69
Spanko Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 111 Registered: 01-2010
| Posted on Saturday, May 29, 2010 - 09:01 pm: |
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Welcome to the Den! Well done in taking the big step to post. You'll find we're all quite friendly and that you are not alone. Enjoy youself! Yorkie Nothing says "I love you" like a warm bottom
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Oftenred
Spanko Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 86 Registered: 02-2007
| Posted on Sunday, May 30, 2010 - 03:34 pm: |
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I used to have the same problem...seemed every man interested in spanking me also wanted sex. I hope you find someone into spanking that can enjoy just the spanking for its own enjoyment. It took me a while to find...then I married him...ha ha so now of course a spanking and sex too!!! |