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Spankagoodgirl
New member
Username: Spankagoodgirl
Post Number: 5
Registered: 10-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 19, 2011 - 04:00 pm: | 
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I am wondering if anyone is told to say specific things before, during or after a spanking and whether this enhances the experience?
Sir has told me to count and on a different time thank him after each spank. It seems to make the spanking more complete and certainly focuses my attention! Secretly i've fantasised about being told that I have to ask to be spanked harder after each spank but then I may be a glutton for punishment ;-)
Even good girls need to be spanked....
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Aussie_jim
New member
Username: Aussie_jim
Post Number: 5
Registered: 10-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, November 06, 2011 - 07:43 am: |
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Hi Spankagoodgirl,
Your post reads beautifully. Anything to do with spanking can be arousing, but just make sure that your Sir respects your safe words (you may not be such a glutton for punishment). 
I know I am going off subject here but there are MANY other forms of arousal. Nudity in a public place, sex in a public place, bondage, shibari (Japanese rope bondage), bdsm furnature, blindfolds, and much more.
I hope your Sir is a GOOD man?
Cheers. |
Ispanx
Spanko
Username: Ispanx
Post Number: 16
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 26, 2012 - 09:42 pm: |
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My poor lil subbies can't say anything except oooooooooooooooohhhhhhh the whole time I am warming up their bottoms. Longest one syllable word i've ever heard. hehe. When I get down to business they can't talk much either. just ow!!! and ouch! It's pretty hard to give me much sass when they've just had two climaxes-- and are probably still getting more.
If I want to, I finish em off with some extra licks to the back of the thighs. I use a little swatter that has a star cut out. I make em count. they have to do it just right, too, or I will make em start the count over. so, a sub that was supposed to get 10 stars will probably end up with about 30.
After I'm done I will immediately start taking my liberties. It's impossible to make a woman talk while she is losing her mind.
I know that a woman who has just been stripped, spanked, teased and humiliated by me must really have to swallow her pride to ask me to sex em. But they all want me to, and its their idea to ask. I take more liberties first. Then, just to make sure there's no misunderstanding I'll make them do a little begging first. If they really do want sex from me I tell them they are going to have to beg me for a goood f'ing. If they do, I make them admit they need one. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 4026
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 27, 2012 - 11:43 am: |
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I'm still having some difficulties with your use of the the expression of "taking my liberites"; it sounds too much like non-consent.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ispanx
Spanko
Username: Ispanx
Post Number: 18
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Thursday, September 27, 2012 - 07:22 pm: |
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Ms. Fanny --
In some circles, the expression "taking liberties" means teasing of the private parts. When I use that expression on your site, it is because I am trying to watch my language.
In my games, my subs know my rules before they play. That means that I have their tacit permission ahead of time to be in charge, just like the ladies who agree to DD. (but as you know, I am NOT a hard spanker). The ladies also know that they are subject to any touching, tickling or corner time that I might want to give them.
I have some pretty unique methods of warming up the bottom and taking liberties. They are what keeps them coming back to ME for more -- in my case. That's what I mean when I say "keeping them in line".
I am not going to say ALL women, but for the ladies I have spanked, my techniques are 100% effective. And they like it. |
Therder
New member
Username: Therder
Post Number: 10
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Thursday, September 27, 2012 - 07:55 pm: |
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I always ask politely for a spanking. My wife will sometimes act unconvinced that I am serious (she knows I am but sometimes makes me beg for it; depends on her mood). We did not speak to each other when I first started being spanked. Yesterday for the first time I looked around at her while I was being paddled and she told me in a sharp tone of voice to "KEEP YOUR HEAD DOWN!"? I immediately complied. It definitely heightened my arousal. |
Jena
Spanko
Username: Jena
Post Number: 37
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, November 24, 2012 - 01:58 pm: |
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I am usually told "Do not move!" if I am not restrained. Also "Do I need to gag you?" if I am cussing. It all adds to the excitement of the experience.
When I am spanking my male sub I tell him, "I want you to take this. It's going to be very harsh, you can do it. You have been a very bad boy!" He loves it! |
Therder
New member
Username: Therder
Post Number: 12
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Saturday, November 24, 2012 - 03:52 pm: |
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I always say thank you after I receive my paddling. I won't risk asking for more when she has finished. |
Therder
New member
Username: Therder
Post Number: 15
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Friday, February 01, 2013 - 06:12 pm: |
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Received another wonderful paddling today. Recently began receiving a harsh scolding while she wears me out. It is so erotic! |
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