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Eastofms
New member
Username: Eastofms
Post Number: 3
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, October 15, 2005 - 11:57 pm: | 
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Ever since I was a kid I was perplexed about spanking? I daydreamed about being spanked by every mother on the street. However, I was a good kid and never got a spanking from my parents. Once in School but it was not my fault. So why did I have all these desires to get a spanking. When I got married I asked my wife about it and she thought I was nuts. Over the years I read magazines etc. I even spanked myself. Finally the internet was born and I discovered I was not alone. Still I am confused if I particapte in spanking outside my marriage is that cheating on my spouse? She would probably think so. Thus I went to various Doms during the past 8 years when I was on a business trip. I love the stories on the internet but real life would be so much better. What are your expierences? |
Smartnnaughty
Advanced Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 299
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, October 16, 2005 - 09:07 am: |
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Welcome Eastofms! Each of us has our own opinions. Mine have changed since I am now in a committed relationship. Before, I went to spanking parties to get my spanking need met. Now I can't imagine anyone spanking me but my HOH.
I had a vanilla spouse for over 20 years and repressed my spanking urges. So I understand. Read different threads here on the den and you will see the variety of opinions. The bottom line is that you will need to determine what is right for you.
I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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