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Sweetescravo
New member
Username: Sweetescravo
Post Number: 1
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 24, 2005 - 08:26 pm: | 
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My Dom and I both still live with our families because of our age. Because of this, it can be increadibly hard for us to do what we need to. Our biggest concern is noise- not that I cry or scream, but the sound of his hand/belt ect hitting me has made more noise than expected on more than one occasion. My question is this, are there any spanking toys or techniques that really minimise noise so he and I won't have to worry about people hearing us? |
Babyj4
Prime Spanko
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 1622
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 24, 2005 - 08:49 pm: |
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I suggest turning the shower on or the radio load. there really isn't any way to minamize sound, you could cover it though. how old are you?
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 58
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 24, 2005 - 09:36 pm: |
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I've been told that the cane is very quiet. However...I don't like the cane...actually I'm scared to death of it. I have a teen-age daughter so I know all about the noise thing. We have to wait until she is asleep. She has asked a couple of times about the noise, and I was as honest as I could be..she now used head phones to listen to music or the tv before she goes to sleep. |
Babyj4
Prime Spanko
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 1644
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 24, 2005 - 09:38 pm: |
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I am not sure I'll be able to explain things to my kids if they ever heard
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 173
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 24, 2005 - 09:51 pm: |
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Noise is a problem here, too.
Music won't be enough to muffle it. Actually, when my former partner and I were still young enough to live at home, we had the best privacy ever - working parents.
We were both still in school, so got home earlier. A risk, but one we took often. We also rented local motel rooms. No one ever asked any questions, although I'm sure we were overheard.
We've just gotten a flogger. It makes less noise than a hand or paddle, but it's also gentler (at least the one we have). A riding crop also doesn't make as much noise.
Neither are as cheap as a palm or paddle, alas.
Good luck! |
Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 60
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 24, 2005 - 09:51 pm: |
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well my daughter is 16..and when she came to live with me...I had to explain that my new husband and I lived a different kind of life style then her dad and I did. She understood..but we still try to keep her from hearing to much. She works week-ends and is out late that helps...and like I said she has been told. It was a hard conversation for me to have with her, I also gave her some stuff to read. So she knows about our life style but I still want to shield her from it as much as I can. I mean...it does embarass me that she has heard. |
Babyj4
Prime Spanko
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 1645
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 24, 2005 - 09:57 pm: |
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I would be to embarrassed to tell them, but luckly my kids are yound, and sleep very well.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 61
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 24, 2005 - 10:04 pm: |
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My daughter is a sound sleeper too. It did embarass me to tell her. But I'm glad I did. Thankfully my little one is to young to know or understand and she sleeps VERY soundly. |
Babyj4
Prime Spanko
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 1649
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 24, 2005 - 10:18 pm: |
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what did she say when you told her?
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 64
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 11:35 am: |
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She said "Okay mom if thats what you want in your life" Then she said something about it being kinda strange..and I said something about her finding her own way when she grows up. I also told her that this life style is between just us...not something for her to tell other people. She laughed and said..."like I would tell anyone that my stepdad spanks my mom. jeezee mom do you think I dumb or something?"
You know I was scared for her to know at first...but then she commented on how nice it was that my husband and I don't fight or argue hardly at all, her dad and I fought all the time.
I explained that this life style had a lot to do with it. He doesn't get mad and hold a grudge...he spanks me when I've messed up. There are NO bad feelings after.
My daughter seems to understand that this works for us. |
Babyj4
Prime Spanko
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 1658
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 12:01 pm: |
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I am glad she is so understanding about it, I am such a selfconcious individual that I don't think I'd beable to tell my kids.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 66
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 12:28 pm: |
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I'm pretty selfconsious too....but I had to let her know what she would be living with it was only fair....I just jumped right into the conversation and kept going before I could think about it. It was the only way I could get through it. |
Babyj4
Prime Spanko
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 1674
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 12:33 pm: |
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well you are right about that if you hadn't told her she might think you were being abused.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Kennysspankee
New member
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 48
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 12:58 pm: |
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Sweets, the ruler strap from the London Tanners is fairly quiet as is the famous Vermont Bath Brush. |
Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 67
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 01:28 pm: |
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ewwww I hate bath brushes...they sting!!! |
Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 175
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 02:03 pm: |
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The VBB? Quiet?
Wolfie was kind enough to buy Squire one, and give it to him in Vermont this weekend. I didn't notice whether or not the implement was quiet, but I sure wasn't when I was getting paddled with it! |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 625
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 03:09 pm: |
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Hehehehehehehehe 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
I'm back!!!
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 176
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 03:29 pm: |
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That's ok...I got her back.  |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 626
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 07:30 pm: |
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But then I got her again! 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
I'm back!!!
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 179
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 08:12 pm: |
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Careful, chickie. I've got an oar just itching to be personalized and mailed.  |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 630
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 09:23 pm: |
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Yeah? Well I'm going crop shopping! 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
I'm back!!!
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 183
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 10:22 pm: |
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You do and I'll go rubber strap shopping! 
Oh wait...I liked the crop. Never mind. Go right ahead. I'll sit by the mail box. 
Kinda takes the fun out of it, doesn't it? |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 631
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 25, 2005 - 11:15 pm: |
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Yes it does, you evil brat!
Going shopping anyway....
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
I'm back!!!
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Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 81
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 - 07:26 am: |
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In reading the thread, I'm surprised, because I think all the toys mentioned are quite loud. But perhaps it's how I'M using them. 
The quietest toy I've heard (or NOT heard, as the case may be) is the Loopy Johnny. (I make my own version, called the KLoopy and it's my favorite gift to friends, and my best seller)
You can get the Loopy Johnny on Adam and Gillians online. It's a smaller toy that is made up of three loops of a rubberlike material. Think of a rubber like in an o-ring.
The toy itself is VERY quiet. The spankee...is NOT!
K |
Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 82
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 - 10:13 am: |
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I was thinking about making a purchase online, and some don't like to do that, for privacy reasons, and then I thought about the OPs age, and the fact that you may not have the availability to charge it.
Anyway...here's an idea, to make a toy yourself.
Purchase some leather/suede lace. It comes on a spool (or wrapped on a card), and is available at craft stores. You can use electrical tape for the handle, or wrap the lace 'round and 'round to make a handle.
When I say lace, I mean it to be more like a shoe lace....a long string of leather.
Cut it to twice the length you'd like it to be. I'd recommend at least 12 inches for swinging, and 4-6 inches for a grip.
So...if you make it 12 plus a 4 inch grip, you'll want each strand will be cut to measure 32 inches (that's 2 x 16). Cut as many as you like. You will feel only one strand, but I'd recommend at least three (which will give you a half dozen falls).
Combine the strands, and with having them even, fold them in half.
Wrap the electrical tape at the folded end, to form a handle. If you use the lace itself, wrap it tightly, row by row, around the lace strands. (I would recommend a little white glue to the strands, to secure the handle, as you wrap it. Also, to make things easier, you can put tiny rubber bands to secure it, before wrapping to keep from having to pull the strands together.)
Is you use glue on the handle, wait for it to dry completely before using it. (Oh, and on the end of the handle, you can just tuck the last strand tip, under the wrapped part. It's not easy, but it'll fit.)
Let me know if you make one, and how it works out.
K |
Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 72
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 - 01:32 pm: |
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Does that Loopy Johnny sting like hell?? |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 635
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 - 04:07 pm: |
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Yes, it is an evil toy and NOT for beginners.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
I'm back!!!
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 75
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 - 04:57 pm: |
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Well I've been in this life style for years ...but I don't want an evil toy...
Thanks for the info!!! |
Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 83
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 - 07:26 pm: |
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The Loopy Johnny is as evil as you want it to be. Yes, it can sting, but it can also kiss. It's all in technique. I don't know if you'll find a quieter implement, with the impact options that it offers.
I don't see ANY implement being good for a "beginner." The hand works best. If the noise is too loud with the hand, try using a leather glove on the hand, and spank to the rhythm of music. It'll be easily blended then.
K
PS As a suggestion...don't play "Wipe Out" |
Tammynx
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 109
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 - 07:54 pm: |
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what a good idea!! I never thought of spanking to the rhythm of music....
Thanks!! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1493
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 - 11:40 pm: |
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I am going to be totally off the wall here, but.....you are 18 years old and living in your parents home. I would suggest taking your private activities elsewhere.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kennysspankee
New member
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 49
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, October 27, 2005 - 12:09 am: |
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Yeah, you never asked about how noisy the implement would make the spankee. That's a whole other thread. |
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