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Fanny
New member
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, May 01, 2005 - 12:02 pm: | 
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Sorry, my first attempt and I posted incorrectly. I'll try again.
Hi, I am a married (27 years) female and our relationship has included spanking since before our marriage. I can't remember exactly how the first time came about.....so many spanks ago! Over the years we have have been in and out of the habit, but always seem to eventually come back to it. I personally hate being spanked, but have to admit that besides it's erotic side, it can really work well as a tension release for both of us. My husband and I have an agreement that I can complain and yell whenever I need to vent and he can spank when he feels the need. It works for us, what more can I say? |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 75
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, May 01, 2005 - 12:44 pm: |
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Hi Fanny and welcome to the board! It sounds like you and your husband have come to a mutually satisfying agreement. That's great!
And don't worry, I see what you did and you didn't mess up, but I'll fix it for you so you'll feel more comfortable.
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Fanny
New member
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, May 01, 2005 - 02:15 pm: |
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I have been thinking about my first post and the claim that I "hate" being spanked. I don't want that to be mis-read that I am noncensual. I do "hate" the actual spanking, but do enjoy the before part and the after part. My husband is actually very good in the discipline area (but only with me) AND IT HURTS!!!! |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 36
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 02, 2005 - 09:03 am: |
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Understood Fanny. I think you will find that most of us arent fond of the actual discipline, especially when we're REALLY in trouble!  |
Naughtybynature
New member
Username: Naughtybynature
Post Number: 18
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 02, 2005 - 11:06 pm: |
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Welcome Fanny  I hope you have lots of fun here. 
Yep discipline spankings hurt egads don't I know. So of course my goals are always GG's which I do pretty well in achieving.
I personally think Wolfie gets in trouble way more than I do.
Did is a word of achievement, Won't is a word of retreat, Might is a word of bereavement, Can't is a word of defeat, Ought is a word of duty, Try is a word of each hour, Will is a word of beauty, Can is a word of power.
*(Unknown Author)
Don't take life so seriously.....it isn't permanent
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 48
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 03, 2005 - 09:59 am: |
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Ahem! I dont think so NbN...you just dont get caught as often as I do! 
I'm sure you need many more bad girl spankings than you really get... |
Fanny
New member
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 13
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 03, 2005 - 12:23 pm: |
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Okay, it sounds like a challange. As a newbie I don't know if it is polite to ask....but how often do you get spanked (on average)? Anyone?
On a personal note: I had been very sick for several months, now I am am finished with chemo and now my husband has been making up for lost time. I have found myself face down four times in the last week. But then emotions has been running very high here since before Christmas...but that is a whole different thread. |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 81
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 04, 2005 - 12:57 am: |
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Fanny, I'm so glad you're feeling better. I get a few mini-spankings every day but longer spankings take place as time and circumstances permit.
Maybe we should ask this question in the discussion threads to get more responses. I'll start it tonight, in fact. |
Kennysspankee
New member
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 3
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 04, 2005 - 03:54 pm: |
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I already responded in Bethie's discussion thread but thought "What the heck" anyways I get spanked every other day and sometimes in between there, too. |
Fanny
New member
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 19
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 04, 2005 - 04:04 pm: |
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OUCH!!!! Do you ever get a chance to cool off? LOL! When my husband and I were on vacation alone for a week, I think I got spanked about ten times. But then I had brought plenty of cute outfits (costumes). I believe that would be our record for any given week. |
Kennysspankee
New member
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 04, 2005 - 07:05 pm: |
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I don't want cooling off time, although now that you mention it the last two times were so stingy I couldn't take it. I think the riding whip caused that, because that's never happened before. He uses the whip like a switch (at the end of the spanking) only really fast, erratically and not reeaallly hard. It feels neat. We tried it with the cane, a 7mm one but it was too intense. The whip is more like a switch. Anyways I guess its still a bit touchy from doing that. We didn't do it last time so I'll find out tonight. |
Fanny
New member
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 24
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 04, 2005 - 08:05 pm: |
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keep us posted |
Kennysspankee
New member
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 9
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, May 05, 2005 - 02:25 pm: |
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Last nights' spanking felt about as usual, so I'm going to assume the switching technique was the cause. We had done that 2 spankings in a row, I didn't notice a change after the first time we did it. Maybe 2 in a row is too much. That would make for a wicked punishment spanking, kinda like pre-preparation LOL! |
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