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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 189
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 28, 2005 - 05:47 pm: | 
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Just wondered if any of you hetero ladies have had any experience with either spanking or being spanked by another woman...
Pagan, waiting eagerly to see who, if anyone, gets shaken out of the woodwork.  |
Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 90
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 28, 2005 - 07:16 pm: |
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Hi, Pagan. Every single man that I chat with asks this question too....EVERY one of them! (I always ask them if they play with men...and they get angry for some reason.  )
I tend to joke that I like women...but ONLY as friends. As a heterosexual spanko, I can't seem to enjoy spanking a woman, and just don't do it for the most part. It's a VERY intimate thing for me, and while I'll whip a woman, I have a "no-hands" rule when spanking them. I don't take a woman OTK, but have no issue with paddling or whipping a friend in need. My preference is to enjoy men.
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 190
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 28, 2005 - 07:29 pm: |
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Interesting.
I never thought I would play with a woman, because I'm hetero, not bi.
I was at a spanking meet over the weekend, and actually chose to play with the women, rather than the other male Tops present.
I should say that it was spontaneous, done in fun, using implements (except for one female Top who actually jarred me by using her hand), and that it wasn't otk.
I would not go OTK (or take another woman OTK), and I couldn't imagine myself touching another woman's butt with my hand. But really? We were just messing around and it was fun. No one got toppy with each other.
My hubby had gone to bed, and was sad to hear that he had missed it! |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 645
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 28, 2005 - 10:24 pm: |
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And every man who either was there and saw it, or heard about it afterwards was salivating! Sheeesh! 
I said I would never do it, not in this lifetime. But because we were friends, nobody tried to get Toppy (except Pagan, and we ignored her) it almost became a kind of experiment. How do I use this toy? Am I holding it right? Is this too hard...or not hard enough? That kind of thing. It was a lot of fun, and quite educational.
So never say never. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
I'm back!!!
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 194
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, October 29, 2005 - 08:17 am: |
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I did NOT try to get Toppy, you lying brat. I was just having fun.
I agree though - it was more of a "oh, let me try" thing than anything else. I don't know about the rest of you, but Squire absolutely will not allow me to spank him. No way, no how.
It can be fun to the on the other side of the implements. 
I'm not sure that those men viewing it found it to be stimulating - there were certainly no erotic overtones, and it was much more a partnership than a Top/bottom thing.
Maybe Wolfie felt that she was being Topped because she recognized how DESERVING she was of that kind of attention, after giving Squire a VBB? 
And yes...never say never. I find myself stretching boundaries that I thought were set in stone all the time. |
Kimbers
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 261
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, October 29, 2005 - 11:56 am: |
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I think it really is a "never say never" type of thing. Taken out of context, I can never imagine myself being spanked by another woman. Especially since my spanking interests are of the erotic/playful nature. But I think within the context of a spanking conference or get together it changes. It is kind of like the fun verbal bantering among brats on the board, just another aspect of the fun in exploring what many of us repressed for a good part of our life (I did anyway). Everyone at a conference knows the purpose is play and nothing more among friends.
I must say I am jealous of those conferences. I can't imagine meeting like-minded people in a safe environment. I thought I was really expanding my horizons by just beginning to post on these boards.
"I wish the real world would just stop hassling me!"
-Matchbox 20
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 197
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, October 29, 2005 - 12:12 pm: |
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Two years ago, joining another spanking board was a HUGE step for me.
At that time, Squire had been spanking me erotically for about six months. Only with his hand, mind you. And certainly never hard enough to leave an impression. I don't think he had even gotten past pink.
A short time later, he said he'd like to try a paddle...I kept posting...and the rest is history.
If you had told me that I would MEET anyone from a spanking board, much less spend a weekend with them, where my vanilla hubby spanked every woman there (and so did I, short one, simply because I got tired!), I would have called you crazy.
A couple of days before the conference, I posted that I would NEVER let another woman spank me.
Again...never say never. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1508
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, October 29, 2005 - 12:27 pm: |
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I am not into switching let alone another woman, but there are some brats that I would love to throttle! 
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 647
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, October 29, 2005 - 12:36 pm: |
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Kimbers, that was the point...it was fun. I enjoyed experimenting and learning the correct way to use the toys. And it wasn't so long ago when I made my first post on a spanking board and began a whole new chapter of my life. Now I've been to 3 "conferences", a bdsm club and have a Dom of my own. No one is more shocked at where my life has gone in 2 1/2 years than I am! 
I know that one of the guys who was in the room that first night gave me a glassy eyed, very enthusiastic affirmation the next morning, when I asked him if he enjoyed the F/F action. And both Sinny and mine's Doms has expressed keen regret at missing something they rarely get to see.
Deserving of so much attention? Do you still think so after the lovely spanking you received with it the other night? I am being seriously maligned here!
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
I'm back!!!
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Hunnybunny
Prime Spanko
Username: Hunnybunny
Post Number: 1489
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, October 29, 2005 - 04:12 pm: |
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Only once for me! It was actually last week! I had no clue that my close friend was into spanking! I got mad at my boyfriend and took it out on her. Well I crossed the line so she hauled me over her lap and spanked me with her hand. I must admit that it was wierd, but it opened a new chapter in our friendship. We now talk about spanking because she noticed that my bottom was already red. Her husband spanks too and who knows where it will go from here, but I kinda knew about her husband before. He kinda slapped my ass hard and warned me after I gave him attitude at a party. (she has been my friend for about 10 yearsand is like my older sister)
I would never spank another woman in r/l! It just isn't me! I would be scared to!
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 204
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, October 30, 2005 - 10:12 am: |
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Hunnybunny, that's a bit different.
I'm too alpha to let a woman spank me for real. Even if she was "right", I'd take her down.
This experience is hard to describe. It wasn't really different than braiding a friend's hair, strange as that sounds.
I wouldn't do it with just anyone, but I was among friends. |
Shadowrose45
New member
Username: Shadowrose45
Post Number: 17
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 09:25 pm: |
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I'm definitely not bi- but the sub I used to have was a woman, and I busted her ass more than once. It wasn't at all a sexual relatiohship.
Hard to explain. |
Robinredtail
New member
Username: Robinredtail
Post Number: 5
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 12:20 pm: |
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For the record, I've been in a committed lesbian relationship for the past 6 years. We've been doing erotic spanking (switching) for quite a while now. I'm about to approach her about moving more toward DD, though.
Robin 
"Gimme that strange relationship
Never knew pleasure and pain like this..."
-Darren Hayes
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