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Melan
New member
Username: Melan
Post Number: 1
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, May 08, 2005 - 07:58 am: | 
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I actually cried only once after a very hard punishment with a horsewhip and after that experience we didn't want to use this implement any more.
Now we like a lot the cane that produce a very excruciating pain but that I can tolerate and enjoy (somehow).
In the average I can take around 20 strokes quite well (I'm not allowed to move during punishment), even if after the first 15 I find really difficult to hold back the tears, that generally start flowing after the 20th stroke.
I'm just curious to compare my reaction with other spankees.
So: how much can you take (not only with the cane) before shedding tears?
Thanks for your answers,
Melan |
Beachley
New member
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 25
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, May 08, 2005 - 08:04 pm: |
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I've never had the cane used on me and I'm not sure I want to find out.
I generally don't cry but then I'm not punished very often and I doubt compared to many that my spankings are very hard. I've come close a few times to tears but the worst implement he uses is a wooden CB paddle. So as I said I'm not a good one to gauge anything on.
I am not good at holding any position either. The last punishment I had was over a chair and I popped up 4 times and each time he gently pushed me back over after a hug and said we were not finished yet. By the time he was finished I was teary eyed. Not sure if it was from the lecture that went with the spanking or the actual spanking itself.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 89
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 09, 2005 - 10:51 pm: |
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Hi Melan. I have only experienced the cane once, and not for discipline. So I wouldnt know about this. But for me, our real punishment spankings can reduce me to tears almost immediately. Just knowing I am getting a punishment can make me well up, and when he starts to lecture...well, get a mop. I can play for a long time without a tear, even if he's using toys and spanking quite hard. But if Im being punished...5-10 swats with my punishment paddle and Im done. |
Fanny
Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 71
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 07:38 am: |
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Isn't it interesting how we are emotional programed? At times that I know I really messed up and deserve what I have coming, I start to cry almost before things even start to warm up. |
Vulcano
New member
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 6
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 10, 2005 - 12:49 am: |
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Well, I had a cane applied on me  , it's actually my man's favourite toy... well, not mine. When used lightly it's all OK, but if used in a more intense way, gosh, it's hurts like hell and it's that kind of pain I have great difficulties to bear. Yet, as far as I remember it didn't bring me to tears, even though I always feel very close to tears. Sometimes, I start crying afterwards. Maybe it's because I put all the energy into dealing with the pain that I can't simply give up to crying. Or maybe the spanking was never long enough to make me feel really helpless. On the other hand, I'd be most probably severely bruised if it lasted longer. I always hoped for tears, even the first serious spanking I got from my man, was inspired by my desire to cry... he got the green light to spank me till I start crying... but I had to stop him... I couldn't take so much pain. And I had problems to sit down for a week and bruises lasted almost 2 weeks as far as I remember. Yet, it was a very strong experience I often remember  . But I must say that once I cried even during the spanking and I don't really know why. It was after I got my 25 cane strokes that were so painful and I must say that I couldn't hold the position at all from the very beginning and you probably know it's sometimes worse to assume it again knowing what will be going on . At the end, he decided to punish me for actually forcing him to punish me so painfully, just with a belt that is my favourite toy. I was pleading for a punishment for several weeks, instisting I need it - maybe I suddenly felt how much I hurt him by needing such a pain to wake up and behave. Well, he did enjoyed spanking me, he likes hard, severe spankings, but he has guilty feelings because of them, he really hates administering them, hates hurting me so bad. Maybe it was that pain I cause him that made me cry.  |
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