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Spankedcrewe
New member
Username: Spankedcrewe
Post Number: 1
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 11, 2005 - 06:56 pm: | 
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Hi
I am a 46 year old guy who is indeed fortunate that his wife is as eager as he is (well almost0 to participate in spanking.
I enjoy sharing with people and will explain how we play and would invite suggestions and comments. favourable or otherwise.
We ahve been married for 16 years and my wife has spanked me for most of that. We eveolved things and now this is how we play.
I accepted that i wanted everything i get and that my wife deserved to get as much, if not more from it. So..we worked out the following.
I want regular thrashings and in returnoffer to do chores and in general run around after my wife. In return for doing as she tells me, and a list of agreed chores daily, she provides the spankings I want. I always ask for the thrashing and am sent upstairs to strip and wait for her.....I now pay for this, a token £5. She will come up and take the money before deciding if I have earned the thrashing. She has refused it and this is so hard to accept but encourages me to work harder to earn another soon. We have all sorts of things we do that i pay for and she has now achieved that she gains financially while at the same time has an attentive, and if she wants, obedient husband.
It certainly works for us. She is not a naturally dominant person and since we accepted that there was no real role-play and I was not being punished but rather getting what i wanted (such honesty)things are great.
So what do you think on that and what other ideas have you to share?
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 771
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 01:43 am: |
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Hi Spankedcrewe, and welcome to the Den. It sounds to me as if you have worked things out to both of your advantages, and I think the way you've done so is very clever. Join in on our discussions, maybe you'll get some more ideas from there. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Ziggy
Supreme Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 1018
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 08:57 am: |
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a nice warm welcome to you and your wife, wow we have so many people from the UK !! great love you all
when caught run faster then him !!
I am a TA junkie !!
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Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 154
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 09:42 am: |
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Welcome, Spankedcrewe. I think if I took money from my partners, I'd be rich AND retired! 
Your method for spankn's sounds like you both have fun with it. It's good to hear that it's "great" for you, and works for her too. Can't ask for more...or can you?  A man can never be spanked enough, in my book!
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Spankedcrewe
New member
Username: Spankedcrewe
Post Number: 3
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 09:51 am: |
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Hi
In response to Ftopinmichigan can I say that your last phrase "A man can never be spanked enough" really rings true for me. We read all the things about peoples fantasies etc and I am the first to say that they are different to real, many times I have fantasised about things which my wife has then made real and I have been forced to discover the painful realisation of fantasised and real. i digress. I genuinely feel a need for discipline and everything that goes with it, I crave the touch of the cane or paddle from my wife and feel better for it afterwards, and.....as my dear wife so cunningly knows she can be assured that I will agree to anything when my backside is either about to be attacked or has just been dealt with. |
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