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Tanjas_brat
New member
Username: Tanjas_brat
Post Number: 6
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 29, 2005 - 03:21 am: | 
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I cannot seem to cry or emotionally let go while getting even the hardest of spankings.what is wrong with me?Can anyone please ofer me some advice.thanks |
Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 123
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 29, 2005 - 12:16 pm: |
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Hmmmm... are you sef conscious about being spanked? I used to be very embarassed about it and was worried about how I looked during the spanking - this inhibited me a lot; perhaps you have the same problem?
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Valleybrats
New member
Username: Valleybrats
Post Number: 14
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 29, 2005 - 02:43 pm: |
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For alot of people the embarrassment goes away as you get comfortable with your partner as a spanker. Are you two a new couple, by chance? |
Tmichellebrat
Spanko
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 80
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 30, 2005 - 01:46 pm: |
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You might just not be able to cry or let go emotionally due to alot of reasons. As the rest said here it could be because your afraid of what it will look like or your embarrassed. I used to be the same way when I was new to the lifestyle...I just couldnt't cry during the spanking and if I did cry it was either during a stern lecture or after the spanking was completley over. Now I can cry and let go emotionally but it's more because of the guilt I feel rather than the pain of the spanking. Give yourself time and it will happen. |
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