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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 856
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 09:02 am: | 
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Do you have a favorite way of playing with bondage? A favorite method of restraining someone or being restrained? What position do you enjoy the most? If you've never done bondage but have fantasized about it, what would you really like to try?
Inquiring minds want to know.....
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Sdhrts
Spanko
Username: Sdhrts
Post Number: 94
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 10:02 am: |
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Great subject Wolfie, nothing like securing someone's hands before spanking them. A lot of bottoms like that helpless feeling they get while otk. This seems to enhance that feeling. I do suggest something soft though, the sting shouldn't be in the wrist, if you follow me. Also, bound just above the knees with an ace bandage. This sure cuts down on kicking and is a great equalizer for the bottom that is much stronger than the top, which happens to us switches all the time. Of course I think a greater degree of trust must exist between anyone that is to become this helpless. That's my two cents.
Is IT Better To Give Than To Recieve?
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 858
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 01:28 pm: |
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I agree with you Sdhrts, it does take a greater degree of trust to be spanked while bound....but for some of us it simply ratchets up the intensity and vulnerability your feeling. Simply delicious! 
I love bondage just about anyway I can do it. As long as it doesnt hurt, cause problems with my health and is comfortable, Im a happy camper. We've done spreadeagle on the bed, restrained in a bent over position and some japanese rope bondage....all very enjoyable. I especially liked the hair bondage Steve performed on me, put me almost instantly into a very relaxed sub mode.
I would like to try being tied face down for a spanking sometime. I am very squirmy and love to kick a bit, and I think it would heighten things immensely if I couldnt. 
I prefer cuffs on wrists and ankles, their the most comfortable for me. Another favorite is the waist belt....the kind that has lots of strong D-rings around it. Putting my arms behind my back can be quite painful for me, but cuffed to my sides keeps them out of the way and there's no pain or cramping. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Tmichellebrat
Spanko
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 66
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 03:15 pm: |
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I have been handcuffed in the spread eagle postion ...handcuffed while bent over a chair ect...and I agree with wolfie it does heighten things up a few notches. At the start of D/s when I had a hard time submitting for a discipline spanking my Dom at the time restrained me for safety reasons and that was the only time I hated to be restrained...not sure why though but it made me feel way to vulnerable. |
Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 256
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 04:18 pm: |
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I enjoy the Shabari Rope style, after a friend sent me a link quite a few years ago. I read up, as much as I could then, and of course viewed all the photos I could, and then learned on my own. I surprised him with tons of rope, when we met up, at a party, and we both enjoyed it. I tend to use the rope more artistically, than to fully restrain. It's fun to restrict certain special areas, to one another, with thinner rope, and then do harnesses, or dress combined. It's quite intricate and sometimes emotionally taxing to figure out, because I never use the same style twice. It's a long process, but can be a huge sensual turn on.
I don't enjoy utilizing any type of bondage, during a spanking scene. I'd much prefer to use mental bondage, over physical. Making someone hold position, by pure force of thought is much more powerful than using formal restraints.
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Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 85
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 04:38 pm: |
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I'm with Wolfie and the spreadeagled on the bed. We bought fur lined leather wrist and ankle cuffs at a sex store. I went to second hand stores and bought leather purse straps, my husband put heavy duty clips on them. And the waist restrainer so you're totally immobile and at his mercy, I love it. I got a wide leather strap from some sort of a backpack for my waist then attached straps to the sides and secure that to straps attached under the bed. It's so neat to be in that position knowing he can put one where-ever he wants and as often on the same spot and you're helpless to avoid it! |
Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 92
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 07:59 pm: |
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I'm actually thinking of buying a spanking bench. Was wondering what everyones' thoughts were and if anyone had any suggestions as to where to order one. Thanks!
Please sir, I don't need a spanking. I'll be good, I promise!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 860
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 11:06 pm: |
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I think their great, but be sure your happy with the one you choose. Most are cumbersome and heavy and can take up lots of room. Occasionally you can find some that fold or "break down" for storage. If your on a budget, even an old piano bench will work with straps attached and some pillows for added height and comfort.
When I was at a get together in Toronto, we went to a leather shop downtown one day. In there they had the neatest toy....it looked like a miniature picnic table with straps and D-rings in lots of strategic places. What I liked about it was the many different positions you could be restrained in while using it.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Badbb
New member
Username: Badbb
Post Number: 16
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 11:19 pm: |
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well I don't know if is a boundage position but I like to be spanked on the couch of the sofa!!! |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 863
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 20, 2005 - 11:05 am: |
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It's only a bondage position bb, if you cant get away. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 529
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 20, 2005 - 11:20 am: |
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No bondage for me...EVER...I want my hands free, I will not allow anyone to bind me, pull my hair or anything in that matters. I'm a spanko...not a slave.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 553
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 20, 2005 - 12:06 pm: |
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I'm a spanko but I also have other kinks, including bondage. You don't have to be a slave to like being tied up. And I know some slaves that love their spankings...so it's to each their own. Bondage really goes well with spanking in my opinion. It's power play just like spanking. I know I don't control my spankings and bondage play is along those same lines. It's total trust and I love it!
As for what I like, there's quite a few things actually. I like our spreader bar because Dan can keep my ankles secured but still move me around. If I'm on my back, he can lift the bar up and spank me in the diaper position or flip me over and spank me that way. Either way, I can't put my legs together and that keeps me feeling very vulnerable and excited. (Just a hint here, don't buy the cheap bars that are basically a broom stick with flimsy eyebolts stuck in the ends, spend the extra cash and get a good one that's adjustable and has good restraints.)
Dan found a long bench, padded it, and then added eyebolts in strategic places. We've had some fun with that one! 
We've also done some rope bondage that I really enjoyed. I liked the intricate patterns and it was really enjoyable having him so carefully bind me up. There was a lot of soft caressing and praises as he lovingly wound the rope around me. Mmmm very yummy! It was a very intimate experience and I'd like to do more of it. I'm really interested in hair binding now that my hair is growing out - finally! 
I have some pretty pink cuffs Dan bought for me that I really like. Their fur-lined and that makes them nice and comfy for long sessions. It's just adds a nice touch to a long spanking when I know I can't put my hands back. I don't usually, but sometimes things get crazy and I let a hand slip back. I love that subbie feeling I get as soon as he puts them on me.
So much of this is state of mind for me. I love being spanked so adding the extra zing that bondage does for me, is just icing on the cake! |
Ziggy
Supreme Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 1713
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 20, 2005 - 12:20 pm: |
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Yes I also love the spreader bar, Bethie. also for the same reasons too. I love to have my hands cuffed. (comfy cuffs) behind my back or my husbands fav, to the head board of the bed., I find it very very vulnerable and safe at the same time.
when caught run faster then him !!
I am a TA junkie !!
ONE MORE WEEK BEFORE MY HUBBIE COMES HOME AGAIN
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Redhinney
Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 121
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 20, 2005 - 05:23 pm: |
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Before I went into business for myself I was a bedside RN (still keep that RN current because you never know). At that time I got a pair of padded restints that were the kind used on patients. We actually have two sets. Hands and feet realy love them because as some said the feeling of being totally helpless when getting spanking really makes it great. W will also use them if he feels I need to be punished for a long time. For example about two or three weekends ago, he decided that I wasn't being submissive enough ( hafta say the men was right I had a bad cases of you can't tell me what to do) so he made one saturday a punishment day. That means for the whole day he determines what I can and can't do, what I can and can't wear etc. I have to say that being totally nude with my hands restinted at my sides makes for a very insteresting day. I got spanked and spanked and could move at all. it is amazing how just tying someone hands limts thier movement and how fast the attuide changes. By the end of the day I had a sore behind and a whole different outlook on life.
SO I say restraints are great but only if you can really trust the person using them |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 868
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 20, 2005 - 11:40 pm: |
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OMG Red, that sounds *gulp* fantastic! I know it was an attitude adjustment, but I just love the idea of him being that in control all day. 
A certain Naughtynature gave me the loveliest pair of velcro cuffs that can be clipped together. Their very soft, bright red and they say "Spank Me" on them. I got to try them out the last time I was in England, while bent over the kitchen table. Very affective! 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Badtom
New member
Username: Badtom
Post Number: 33
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 21, 2005 - 06:27 am: |
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This is all very exciting to read, when you are a spank & bondage fan like me. I like having my arms tied behind my back - as a bloke it makes me feel my strength really reduced - I mean when the arms are secured above the elbows as well as at the wrists. They can be tied up in various ways to keep them out of the way of spanking action!
I love the feeling of not being able to stop things happening to me (when I'm with my trusted loved one ofcourse). There's so much more bondage I want to try out - like being tied all over in a way that I can't move an inch - difficult to pull that off. Also I want to find a way of tying myself in a kneeling bottom out position where I can't draw my buttocks inwards - forcing them to stay taut and meet the punishment full on.
Meanwhile, in a much more sensuous way, my partner has discovered that she likes being wrapped up in a pretty looking Japanese rope harness - is it Shabari, I don't know. I add just a hint of domination to this, either holding arms behind or tying plus holding. If it gets you both hot, then I say let it sizzle! |
Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 261
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 21, 2005 - 07:54 am: |
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See...what I like about "not" having my bottom man's hands secured, is that he WILL inevitably grab behind, with his own hand, to try to block the blows.  Then...I grab his hand, and hold him tight...wrap my own leg around both of his, to hold him firmly down...and then he earns MORE spanks. Isn't that more fun than traditional bondage gear?
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 871
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 21, 2005 - 09:24 am: |
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More fun for who K? Perhaps your not into watching the helpless strugglings of your sub as they try desperately to prevent whatever evil thing your doing to them...as much as my Dom is? 
Badtom, on one site I found a lovely bedharness for bondage play. It is made with super strong webbing, with lots of D-rings on all 4 sides. It goes under your mattress, with just the rings sticking out. This makes restraining someone extremely easy...either with cuffs or rope. You can even zig zag the rope back and forth across the top of the "victim" so they can barely move a muscle!
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 560
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 21, 2005 - 10:05 am: |
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K, the bondage gear is part of the mind game I love. Seeing the spreader bar (or other gear) being taken out and attached to my ankles makes me shiver in anticipation. Also, submitting to him by holding out my wrists for him to put the cuffs on puts me straight into sub mode.
Mmmm and don't get me started about what seeing the rope come out does to me! I love it when I'm the center of his attention and playing with rope is a great way to get his undivided attention and affection for long streches of time. Some people prefer massages, but I'd rather be tied up!
He can hold me physically if I start trying to put a hand back, but considering he's over a foot taller than me and is a mountain of a man, it's not much of a contest. In fact, it's almost comical. The gear adds a bit of spice we both like. |
Redhinney
Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 123
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 21, 2005 - 05:48 pm: |
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Bethie,
You are so right seeing W take out anything to do with Bondage actually sets the bar for the big O way high. I think when Bill has me in total control it helps me submitt to him more. I don't understand and don't want to just want to enjoy.
Wolfie great doesn't explain it enough it was the best Saturday I have had in a long time |
Rex138
New member
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 20
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 21, 2005 - 09:14 pm: |
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We used to play alot with handcuffs, behind the back to the bed. But now it pretty much spanking as Ftop mentioned. Mental bondage (good stuff).
Hey Katie, I too like the idea of a good spanking bench. With that, I would like to try it both ways, being strapped down for a spanking and not.
rex
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 264
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2005 - 07:53 am: |
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I'm not much for formal furniture in the home, even though my house is "adults only." I just don't have the room here, or the inclination to spend money for one-use equipment/furniture.
I tend to enjoy using the arms, or back of the couch, but a few years ago, bought a leather ottoman. It might be a little low for some, but pillows on top, handle some of that, and restraints can be fashioned around the legs, at all four points. I like to use rope.
The eye bolts in the ceiling are nice too, but for some reason I keep forgetting to hang the "plants" there.
A good nontraditional spanking bench is a saw horse. There's one that I had here, for a while, that had a wide top edge, and in fact had a tool box enclosed. That wide edge, offered a fabulous option, to add that thick pillow for a spanking bench. The height was better, and then it was also functional when remodeling in the home. This one collapsed and was light weight plastic, but could hold over 300 lbs. I'm told it was quite comfortable too.
For the bed....I've used bungy cords, attached around each leg. The cord is sort of hooked around the leg, or each end to itself, and then a restraint, or rope is affixed to the cord. It's easy to attach, and does no permanent damage to the furniture. This can be used on any bed then too...like when traveling.
I just like regular furniture...and then pervert it.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 873
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2005 - 10:25 am: |
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wolfie heading for Home Depot in search of a sawhorse like that one....
Dog leashes work well too, slip the loop around the bedposts and attach the clips to your cuffs. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Rex138
New member
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 28
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 23, 2005 - 12:34 am: |
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All this talk about tying up and cuff is making me want to open up my box of "tricks" and re-explore some past items.
I'll never forget the day that my then girlfriend (now wife) was showing her parents her new apartment and her mom asked quite innocently, why there where eyebolts in the frame of the bed!
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Pinkwench
New member
Username: Pinkwench
Post Number: 3
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 23, 2005 - 03:07 am: |
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My Jakester (hubby), loves nothing better than dreaming up new ways to torment, torture and play with my body. He has used a spreader bar on me, ropes, and I love my fur lined hand and ankle cuffs. Generally, we use our bed and I am tied to the four posts, knees bent with a bar behind them and then he uses several pillows to elevate my butt. He has strung me up in the garage, in the kitchen, dining room, and of course really fun is out in the wide open spaces. It is great spice for us, and since we don't often have the opportunity for this type of play, it is always memorable. |
Darwins
Spanko
Username: Darwins
Post Number: 96
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 30, 2005 - 03:30 pm: |
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Wolfie, don’t bother looking for the sawhorse – you will never get them on the plane – and besides I have two perfectly good ones here we can use!!!!
I know many pure spanko’s dismiss the idea of being restrained, but, if you are by nature a submissive and do want to move further down that road, progressive degrees of bondage is a great way to help you achieve it.
There is something for both parties in bondage – just to see the partner in wrist and ankle cuffs, even if no actual physical restraint takes place is a big turn on. There is something about this sight that is very thought provoking - the helpless female at your mercy (even if she isn’t really helpless or at your mercy), your eyes provide the sights and your brain takes it where ever you want it to.
On a serious note, I believe restraints and bondage in general, promotes a greater degree of responsibility and care in the Dom/Spanker. When you have someone truly helpless you know you have to be far more careful, far more aware and far more intuitive of your partners needs and feelings. This l believe spills over into the relationship in general and will always strengthen it.
I'm a king bee baby Buzzing round your hive
we can make honey baby if you let me come inside
Come on babe lets buzzzzz a while.
(Rolling Stones)
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 913
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 30, 2005 - 05:21 pm: |
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I bet I could find a way to get one on the plane.
I love wearing my cuffs, it instantly puts me in sub mode and relaxes me. I love knowing that he could restrain me at any time, and in any position he wished. The feeling of being at his mercy is totally arousing and is as satisfying for me as spanking is.
Bondage is about trust for me, believing in my Dom and knowing he would never willingly hurt me (spankings dont count). I dont mind being vulnerable with him and its always exciting to see the fascinating things he comes up with to drive me up a wall.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Badtom
New member
Username: Badtom
Post Number: 34
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 03, 2006 - 07:53 am: |
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Ftopinmichigan your way sounds great fun, for both parties! And I know what you mean about perverting furniture. If we go on holiday then new bedrooms are always viewed with an eye to what can be used for play. I like the challenge of how to subvert a room.
Wolfie that sounds a nice bed harness thingy, I read too late to ask for Christmas! |
Pinkwench
New member
Username: Pinkwench
Post Number: 23
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 04, 2006 - 01:31 am: |
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My hubby, Jake, is thinking of building a collapsible spanking bench  , as most anything of that nature in our house would have to be able to be broken down and put away. We've also thought of building a cage for a naughty, naughty wife, but also more of the fantasy cage than real. 
But I don't know, he's been really handy so far constucting paddles from plywood and leather etc, and he is always working on "new plans" for "equipment" *BIG GRIN*
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Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 300
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 04, 2006 - 07:27 am: |
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A neat "cage" idea that I saw in a rental property was a security door, attached to the small bedroom closet. The home was much older and the closet was maybe five feet wide. There were bolts in the ceiling and floor (which could easily be hidden by things in the closet), and the door could be attached in a temporary manner, and then put away in the closet or somewhere else.
It made a nice, affordable dungeon cage, without taking up any room. Although I imagine one would have to figure where to put all those clothes from the closet.
K |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 941
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 04, 2006 - 10:39 am: |
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What about a metal dog crate? They come in different sizes and are collapsible, so you could slide it under the bed or behind the couch for storage.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 303
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 04, 2006 - 01:10 pm: |
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A VERY large dog crate will work fine, but you have to consider the grating on the bottom, and how hard it is on the body, as well as a human being would have to be all scrunched up too. They usually don't come in TALL dog sizes.
If I have a man behind bars (a cage)...I still like to play (tease) with him, while he's held there! 
K
PS Also...how do you "hide" it....if you don't even have a dog. 
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 943
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 04, 2006 - 02:03 pm: |
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Cage crates come in all sizes, from Chihuahua to Saint Bernard....big enough for most people. They have a metal bottom that slides in and out for easy cleaning, and you can buy floor mats for extra comfort.
The good ones collapse down to completely flat and will slide under the bed easily, so hiding them isnt a problem. If your local pet store doesnt have the XXlarge sizes on hand, they can order one for you. They are a little cheaper online, but shipping usually takes care of that.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
3 wise men? Be serious....
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Pinkwench
New member
Username: Pinkwench
Post Number: 25
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 05, 2006 - 02:03 am: |
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Actually the cost of purchasing a pre-made, is what is the thing with us right now, as we are of rather meager pockets right now. 
K had mentioned a closet, and we have used the hall/coat closet as sort of a cage. But we were trying to aim for more of a realistic prop.
Anyway, just another fun thing that Jake is drawing plans for. I know he's just enjoying the whole construction project aspect of it
 Plus he is one of those Tim Taylor kind of guys  |
Darwins
Spanko
Username: Darwins
Post Number: 99
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 05, 2006 - 04:33 am: |
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Pinkwench - I have a collapsible spanking bench that I designed works very well and will carry up to 260lbs weight, is very stable, will slide under the bed but if seen in public is often mistaken for a workbench or pasting table. I think I have a picture somewhere that I will try to find.
Very cheap to make and very effective if you wish to restrain someone as well!! W.E.G.!!!
On the subject of cages and the like – they do tend to be a little expensive. A fun alternative, which is very cheap, is a slave net which sell for between $20 - $30. Looks a lot like a fisherman’s net but in the shape of a bag with a drawstring neck which can be locked shut if you like. Again, takes anyone up to about 6ft tall and 300lbs, and can be hoisted up if you have a suitable means of doing so!!! Good for converting that garage into a dungeon and can be left hanging filled with things disguised as a carrying net!
I'm a king bee baby Buzzing round your hive
we can make honey baby if you let me come inside
Come on babe lets buzzzzz a while.
(Rolling Stones)
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Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 304
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 05, 2006 - 08:22 am: |
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People that I know built a cage "under" the bed. While it might severely restrict easy access to the subject, it worked well to lock the person there, especially over night. A bed ruffle hid the cage, and the mattress (by construction) then was lifted enough to make it a more comfortable position to get in and out of the bed (for the one sleeping "on" the bed ). It seemed to work well for them, but again, it was for keeping the sub quiet, and in position...alone. For those liking tight and dark places, it would be ideal.
I think the pet cage idea probably has the least cost involved. The netting idea works well too, and some "nets" are even available at Dollar Stores, as well as the Dom Depot. Maybe Chicken Wire, or the other garden types too. Could work...
My cage materials were actually found by my dad, on garbage day (shhh...don't give away the secret ). He found...believe it or not, bright red and shiny black bars, at a home where folks just moved out. Apparently the bars were custom built for either windows or doors and then never installed. The homeowner then threw them out. Not only would they be perfect for a cage, they were the right colors too!
K |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 951
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 05, 2006 - 10:13 am: |
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The dog crate (XXL) would cost under $200. If you can sew, the cage mat would be very cheap.
The slave net, which I had the fun opportunity to try is made of very strong, thick plastic rope. Anything thinner would cut into a subs skin and be painful. For those in the "horsey" set, it resembles a hay net...and a big one could be picked up cheaply at any feed/tack store.
Im not so sure about trying Steve's spanking bench.... 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 307
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 05, 2006 - 03:33 pm: |
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Wolfie, you gave me yet another idea...how about to purchase the rope and make your own design...a macrame (sp?) sort of thing? That would work, and would be oh so personal too.
A local Dom here has a spider web designed out of rope, and it's quite useful, on many accounts.
Dang...I gotta get that rope out a again.
K |
Pinkwench
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Username: Pinkwench
Post Number: 27
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 05, 2006 - 08:50 pm: |
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Thanks a lot guys, I printed out the thread info for Jake when he gets back to read.
Darwins, if you can find the picture of the bench, let me know. Jake found a rudimentary one at http://www.saroftreve.com/workshop/projects.shtml, and I think he was still looking, he's not in the final design stage.
The rope net, humm, think that sounds like an interesting idea for "hanging aroung in the garage" or perhaps outdoor playtime.
Maybe K, it was really cage parts that the old owners forgot, red and black bars sound kind of strange for windows? |
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