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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1824
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 06:53 pm: | 
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It appears that our resident switches need to be a bit more vocal and hopefully join in the cyberplay area. Guys, it seems the ladies are more into it than you are!!
I'd like to hear from swithes of both sexes in this thread and share what it you like best about the best of both worlds.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Zippo
Supreme Spanko
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 1378
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 09, 2005 - 11:32 am: |
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Interesting topic Fanny, perhaps a followup question would be what make you prefer one side over the other?
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1828
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 09, 2005 - 02:47 pm: |
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Well......I am waiting for some responses!!!!!
Come on now, I know there are a lot who read this board, don't be shy.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Fireman_chris
New member
Username: Fireman_chris
Post Number: 16
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 05:53 pm: |
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I really consider myself mostly a top with some switch-ish tendencies.
With my wife, I really am mostly a top and she really is mostly a bottom. She does spank me occasionally, but its rarely what I'd consider a "scene" and usually due to my specifically asking for it (though she does occasionally surprise me). Its really just the physical spanking though, we don't get into anything beyond that like we do when I spank her (I'm talking the mental side of it and the D/s aspects).
I have one good friend who I used to switch with, which was interesting because she's mostly a bottom/sub too, but she did seem to enjoy spanking me. Whenever we used to play, we'd both end up going home sore afterwards. She and her husband (also a spanko) are still good friends and we get together fairly often...we used to all play together, but we don't much anymore for whatever reason.
I also have a good friend on the East Coast who I've probably had the truest "switch" relationship with. We knew each other solely online for the first probably 6-8 years, and for the first half or so, she was definitely a bottom and I was the top. One night, however, she mentioned being curious about switching and I told her I was too. When we finally met in R/L a couple years ago, we were both truly switches...she's vey much a switch in the truest sense of the word, and I'm much more of a switch with her than anyone else (she's the only person who's ever really "punished" me).
As you slide down the banisters of life
may the splinters never point the wrong way.
Old Irish Proverb
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Spankynyc
New member
Username: Spankynyc
Post Number: 13
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 20, 2005 - 10:54 pm: |
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Well I am a switch but I enjoy giving spanking more than receiving one. I think as a switch you get to have more fun because you are more versatile and you get to be on both sides of the lap. You get to play with more people because you can play with a Top or a bottom. And when you are only a Top you do not get that lasting warm backside that may last for two days. Everytime you seat down for the next two days you are reminded of a wonderful time you had.And as a switch you can read a bottoms body language better because you have been there. |
Gandalf302
New member
Username: Gandalf302
Post Number: 4
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 21, 2005 - 11:22 am: |
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Hi again, I think all Spanking is fun and positive and even sexy and erotic. OK, Why, because giving one as a man lets you be in close proximity to the female bottom and who can NOT like that, and even clothed bottoms are sexy, bare ones are yummy. Hmm take a bite too while you are there or RUB a lot to -- touching is great fun even when it is a punishment it might be a turn on for the spanker.Giving or getting a spanking is stress relief and produces endorphins that are posaitive for the mind adn body so it causes relaxation as a by-product wow everyone should do this right!! I likie getting because the woman is usually dressed to thrill or has very little on and who can argue again that it SI NOT a turn-on for us visual m ale persons. I also like th feeling of tingle sting and even some pain that is acceptable and it is not really pain to me since i do not experience it likke that. Arthritis, recovery from surgery or a bad tooth ache or stomach problem -- Those are real pain a SPANKING is fun sexy erotic pain and well don't we all love it or like it at least or why would we be here?? I believe and it has been my experience that spanking is a great stress reliever a great sexual turn-ON, and an erotic experience no matter what so what's not lto like??
Ilove all of it even thinking about it make me feel better.
Gandalf/Dave} |
Gandalf302
New member
Username: Gandalf302
Post Number: 11
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, December 31, 2005 - 02:30 pm: |
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hi again, I see that those who vcommented like to give mor3e than recieve Hmm again traditional i think on the males part. However I feel better that some fellows do get spanked and enjoy it as I do. I also realy like to give and do appreciate the female bottom in any form of dress or undress -- just fabulous. the feelings of being abe to say Ok it is time to go OTK or go take your panties down NOW are great but hearing the same or somilar or just having ocur NOW quick and unannounced is pure fun. ALl of this takes a giving and taking spirit that is hard to find so just keep up the good work and if anyone wants to take this up in the cyber area OK just ask. Gandalf |
Gandalf302
New member
Username: Gandalf302
Post Number: 12
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, December 31, 2005 - 02:34 pm: |
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ohh yes Fanny good stuff we do need to take it up in the cyber area and just WELL do it all kinds of ways and spank all the brats female and male -- so I volunteer for being a male brat for awhile at least to get started Gandalf |
Kbarue
New member
Username: Kbarue
Post Number: 1
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 04, 2006 - 03:56 pm: |
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As I switch I like to get as well as give and I truly enjoy both. I am more a fan of erotic and therapeutic spankings than true punishement spankings. As for why...
There is an emotional aspect of relinquishing control that can be very therapeutic. As Gandalf points out, there is an endorphin release from getting a spanking that can be very relaxing. It isn't the pain, that I look for as a bottom, more the space in between and afterward. There is also something very- I don't know - reassurring or affirming or something like that -about having a woman enjoy spanking me and wanting to do it.
Giving is sort of the reciprocal. I find a woman's bottom very sexy, so there is that added benefit, but I also enjoy helping her find that place where there is the right level of release, whether it is sexual or just emotional. |
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