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Pinkangel
New member
Username: Pinkangel
Post Number: 6
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 24, 2006 - 11:05 pm: | 
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I wondered if someone could help me...my husband very much wants to satisfy my need for spankings, but he doesn't always go about it the right way. He doesn't always know what to say or do and it often ends up ruining the mood. Any suggestions as to what I can do to make him give me what I want the way I want? |
Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 105
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 12:13 am: |
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Have you tried just telling him? If he's into spanking you shouldn't feel too shy about giving him some tips on ways to do it and things to say that you like to hear. Have him read a couple stories that have a nice dominant man, like Patty over at Spanked Wife. Her stories are perfect! |
Pinkangel
New member
Username: Pinkangel
Post Number: 10
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 12:31 am: |
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Is the Spanked Wife a web site? If there are good stories, maybe I could have him read a few of her stories and hubby will know exactly what I want when he spanks me. Thanks for the advice! |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 647
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 12:55 am: |
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Pink, Patty's web site is A Creative Spanked Wife. She's got a lot of great stories and essays you might find helpful.
Also, here's a link to something Dan wrote about one of her essays that might help as well, It's always good to get the man's point of view, too. 
If I weren't so sleepy right now, I'd give you some of my own tips, but that will have to wait until tomorrow. |
Tammynx
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 249
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 09:43 am: |
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Pinkangel...I have my husband read stuff ALL the time. Patty's site is VERY helpful. My husband and I met in a spanking chat room...so we were NOT new to this...but sometimes...it is hard to talk about and reading stories and essays..has really helped us. |
Pinkcheeks
New member
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 35
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 10:13 am: |
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Pinkangel...I agree with everyone here; Patty's site is great for information. Another place I found helpful was LovingDD - that's a very good site with lots of info. I was into spanking long before Hubby, so I had to introduce it to him slowly. Once they understand the need you have, and the benefits spanking could bring to your relationship,then I am sure you will be spanked to your satisfaction (and his too!) Good luck 
My favorite color? pink of course
"But honey...wait...I didn't mean it!!"
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Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 107
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 04:39 pm: |
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I can't believe I didn't think about the Loving Domestic Disciple site. That's like a whole course on spanking. It's the best informative site I've come across besides the general 'teach you the basic techniques of spanking'. There's a thread someone posted 'How to Spank' here that is the other site I was thinking of. |
Pinkangel
New member
Username: Pinkangel
Post Number: 15
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - 07:47 pm: |
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Thanks to everyone for your ideas and advice. I will look at all the links you have recommended. My hubby likes to spank me, quite often actually, but his idea of what I want and my ideas are sometimes quite different. He's alawys gentle, never abusive, but I like the lectures and the corner time and he sometimes leaves that part out. He just tells me I have been bad and need a good spanking and then gives me the spanking but never does the dialog to tell me why I deserve it and he rarely ever gives me corner time. |
Poofette
New member
Username: Poofette
Post Number: 46
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 26, 2006 - 01:01 am: |
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The creative spanked wife is truly one of the best sites I've run across web crawling. Love her stories and her artwork is terrific!
Poofette |
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