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Badwife
New member
Username: Badwife
Post Number: 42
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 12:50 pm: | 
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Need advice. We are looking for a position that will result in the most pain for my bare bottom & result in me crying from it. He wants just to use his hands right now. He does have quite a bit of strength but also doesn't want to have to use it all for the fact he doesn't want his arms to get tired that quickly or make his hands hurt. I don't know if that makes sense or not. Please help ASAP |
Hexo
New member
Username: Hexo
Post Number: 10
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 01:42 pm: |
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OMG I suggest forward lunge or a position where you have to maintain your own balance.
I chose the road less traveled. Now where the hell am I?
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Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 110
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 03:49 pm: |
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The diaper position tightens everything up and exposes the tenderest parts nicely. |
Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 440
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 04:02 pm: |
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I agree with Kennysspankee, that the diaper position is good to increase intensity. Also bent over (hand to knees or toes), to tighten the skin, and expose the bottom more.
Use caution though, as if your intent is for it to "really" hurt more, realize that because it does hurt more, that you have more potential to be really hurt too.
Those tenderparts that Kennysspankee mentioned, don't need a lot of force to feel the pain, and you won't need a lot of smacks to really feel it either.
You're such a good person to not want your Top to hurt his hand! 
K |
Redhinney
Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 161
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 06:39 pm: |
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Call me silly but I am looking for it to hurt less
Love can't always be seen or hear but will always be felt with your heart
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Babyj
Advanced Spanko
Username: Babyj
Post Number: 550
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 07:02 pm: |
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well for a position that hurts less I would recomend laying flat on your tummy legs stretched out. It hurts a lot less leaveS the sit sPOT ouT of range and that helps. My husband spanks me otk all the time, I do not get the option. But I am constantly tensing up the muscels and stretching my leGs out, well I try to anyways, but he just pushes his knee up forseing me into a bent position. Good luck.
I do behaive....
not my fault we don't agree how.....
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Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 111
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 07:03 pm: |
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You're silly. Well...you said to... |
Redhinney
Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 162
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 08:32 pm: |
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Really I was only joking. Bill read this post and his answer was get spanked less and it will hurt less. So silly me asked how do I get less spanking to which he answered Behave- Of course why did I think of that  . Silly man what fun will it be to behave all the time
Love can't always be seen or hear but will always be felt with your heart
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1225
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 11:05 pm: |
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Really, I dont know where men get these goofy ideas.... 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Babyj
Advanced Spanko
Username: Babyj
Post Number: 551
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 02, 2006 - 06:18 pm: |
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lol
that is to funny
I do behaive....
not my fault we don't agree how.....
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 347
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Monday, February 06, 2006 - 06:47 pm: |
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I really think the diaper position is the most painful, agreeing both with Kennyspankee and K, that when spanked in this position, everything is stretched taught so the spanking hurts a lot more.
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Badwife
New member
Username: Badwife
Post Number: 43
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2006 - 01:53 pm: |
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Diaper position? Not sure what that means. If I am thinking correctly, it is me laying on my back, legs is the air & bent back towards my head? |
Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 133
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2006 - 02:39 pm: |
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That's pretty well describes it. |
Redhinney
Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 196
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2006 - 04:20 pm: |
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Never try that and ever will not because of the pain but the way I would feel and look. Like being OT looks great butt up in the air as it turns from white to pink to red hot, my legs kicking up and down- Yeah I'm sure that is a great look for me.
Love can't always be seen or hear but will always be felt with your heart
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Spankingcouple
Spanko
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 82
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2006 - 06:31 pm: |
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i've never been spanked that way either. sounds like it would really hurt a great deal. OTK is my favorite postion.
trish |
Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 134
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2006 - 06:34 pm: |
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You gotta see it from his point of view. I think he'd think you look just fine! Better not let him see this thread, then. |
Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 135
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2006 - 06:39 pm: |
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I just remembered a couple of times I managed to sqwirm onto my back (he had nylon pants on that are slippery), and he pulled my legs up and continued that way and I couldn't get out of it. I think it's near impossible to escape from that position when he's holding your legs back. Learned me not to sqwirm that way! |
Spankingcouple
Spanko
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 84
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 09, 2006 - 06:44 pm: |
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it does sound very interesting. i may have to bring it up to andy.
trish |
Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 395
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 12, 2006 - 07:02 am: |
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Diapar position is where you lie postrate on your back and you pull your legs back as far as oy can (as if you were going to have a diaper put on you,) and then your dom or whatever you address him by can spank you thoroughly and hit your sit spot quite well. But word to the wise, the pain is much worse becase your skin is pulled taught. Proceed with caution, LOL!
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 676
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 12, 2006 - 01:58 pm: |
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Badwife, I'm late to this thread but I wanted to say something anyway. Are you sure that what you're looking for is more pain? Pain can make you cry, but is that what you're really after?
If you want to cry from a spanking as a result of feeling completely punished, it's not about the pain. You have to look deep inside yourself for that result. The spanking alone isn't going to do it until you can get inside the mindset that's necesary for punishment spankings to work. It's not easy to get there and you'll need your partner to take their part in it as well. If you're looking for a stress relief spanking, it's pretty much the same deal.
You've got to get over the hurdle that's causing you to hold back your emotions and let go. It takes time but it's worth the effort you put into it. Pain alone won't get you there. I know a lot of people who participate in domestic discipline and they'll admit that it's not the spanking that makes them cry, but the act of facing up to their disobedience and knowing they've let their partner down. The idea of that alone makes them cry, not just the spanking.
Whatever your situation, I hope you've found what you're looking for. I'd be interested in knowing how it's going. |
Pinkcheeks
Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 90
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Monday, February 13, 2006 - 10:00 am: |
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well said Bethie....
My favorite color? pink of course 
"But honey...wait...I didn't mean it!!"
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 413
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 15, 2006 - 12:53 am: |
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I have to agree with Pinkcheeks - that was VERY well said and couldn't have been more informative, nor more truthful. Brava!
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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