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Carly
New member Username: Carly
Post Number: 18 Registered: 12-2005
| Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 02:51 pm: |
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My husband now has decieded that he is no longer taking the layback approach to DD. The last two days I have gotten the spankings of my life. The first one he actually spanked me to tears, something that he hasn't ever done before. It was freeing and the sametime it was shocking. I didn't think he had it in him. He spanked me long and hard,my behind was bright red and throbbing. Then Last night he felt that since I didn't get one load of laundry done, that I must of needed another spanking to get his point across. I never thought in a million years that a spanking for ONE load of laundry would be so hard, and on top of being sore already. By the 5th smack on my already sore bottom, I was begging to stay up all night and do every bit of laundry in the house!! Well he wouldn't go for that, and he finished the what felt like a life time spanking, made me go to bed, to do the laundry today.. which i happily did, with every load remembering last nights spanking. I love him so much for this new not going to put up with any of my crap attitude, now I have to hurry up and adjust to it, before I never can sit down again. Carly |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2010 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 02:55 pm: |
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Carly, are you bragging, dear? Do you not sound very miserable for a well spanked wife. Queen of Innocence "Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Carly
New member Username: Carly
Post Number: 20 Registered: 12-2005
| Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 06:02 pm: |
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Hi Fanny! No not bragging at all! I do love the fact that he is being that take charge man!! But I wouldn't say braggin!!I need this in my life, I know it and own it!! Just happy it's starting to go well!! Now my butt has to get use to the adjustment Carly
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2015 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 06:04 pm: |
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Good for you Carly, a woman who knows her needs and is having them fulfilled. You are soooo lucky! (You know I was just teasing about the bragging, don't you?) Queen of Innocence "Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Carly
New member Username: Carly
Post Number: 21 Registered: 12-2005
| Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 01:01 pm: |
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Yes I know you were just teasing!! Ya, I do feel pretty lucky right now, Now lets just have our fingers crossed that it stays consistant... that has always been an issue for us!! Carly |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2024 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 06:35 pm: |
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I think maybe my husband has been secretly reading this site, or maybe knows your husband! I agree I have been out of sorts lately and our spanking life has been way down, but yesterday, R decided to "take things into hand". I have been complaining about the endless list of things that need to be done and having no motivation to do anything. BTW, he has been good about picking up the slack. Anyway, he has apparently gotten tired of my moaning and before work yesterday he told me to pick three things a day that I NEED to get accomplished. He promised five swats with the paddle for each thing not accomplished by 6:00 pm and a 2 minute spanking at 10:00 for each thing not completed by then. Well.....I guess I didn't take it seriously enough and by 6:00 yesterday I had only done one thing on my list. Ten swats later, I immediately got the other two completed. It was amazing on how quickly I finished them!! Today I was better, but waited too long to get started, so I didn't accomplish my third thing by 6:00, but you can bet money that I will get it done by 10:00. Tomorrow being Sunday, I swear I will do the three things first thing in the morning. Funny thing is, I do feel better that I am getting these things accomplished. I wish I was better self motivated. Queen of Innocence "Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Shylah
Advanced Spanko Username: Shylah
Post Number: 715 Registered: 10-2005
| Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 06:49 pm: |
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Fanny, I think that kind of motivation would benefit me! I do tend to procrastinate. Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Carly
New member Username: Carly
Post Number: 25 Registered: 12-2005
| Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 07:49 pm: |
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Fanny and Shylah, I 100% in there with you guys in the lack of motivation department!! I have none!! I am a stay at home mom, The kids are in school all day, so there is no excuse for me!! Just can't seem to find the energy, drive, or motivation, whatever you want to call it. Since the Hubby has been on top of me with getting things done, I have been much better! My motivation now, is that being spanked on an already very sorry behind, is not what I call fun!! Less of the bad girl spankings, more of the good ones!! The only way that is going to happen, is if I can manaage to keep my behind from getting those no nonsense spankings everyday!! I think as long as my DH keeps his consistancy, I will have no problem keeping my new founded motivation!! Carly |
Smartnnaughty
Advanced Spanko Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 340 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 10:36 pm: |
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Fanny, I think R has found a good way to help you. Glad to hear he's on top of things. I miss you! SNN I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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Blistering_blonde
New member Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 26 Registered: 10-2005
| Posted on Sunday, March 12, 2006 - 12:31 am: |
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WOW think i need it too did you all know that DUST is NOT a furniture protector ...darn it all i got ALOT of nick nacks ..last time i dusted proper ...my house gained space....like inch here inch there |
Kennysspankee
Spanko Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 169 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Sunday, March 12, 2006 - 03:31 am: |
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I think I should receive the award for procrastination in dusting. We have a 4-tiered maple corner nic nac shelf covered in Goebel and assorted other ornaments. The last time I dusted it was in June 2004. I almost got it done last Christmas but didn't feel like it and keep thinking about it but....anyways I figured I've got till we insure our motorcycles cause it's hard to do crap like that when I could be riding instead, or maybe I should go for a 2 year record? Motivation would definitely be the answer! |
Carly
New member Username: Carly
Post Number: 26 Registered: 12-2005
| Posted on Sunday, March 12, 2006 - 09:44 am: |
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Blonde- - "WOW think i need it too did you all know that DUST is NOT a furniture protector " It isn't??..lol Well where you found out that dust isn't a furniture protector, I found out no matter how long the dirty clothes sit there, they are not going to get up and wash themselves...lol Kenny- Just think you don't have to ever move, just dust every now and then, and you get yourself a bigger house!! lol. I think with all of us who just can't seem to find the motivation, maybe someone will write a new step by step book. How to motivate your signifcant other with motivational spankings...lmfao Better yet maybe someone should tell all those doctors out there that we don't need Prozac, Just a good OTk every now and then!! Do you think they give perscriptions for those??...lol Carly |