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Pinkcheeks
Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 164
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 10:36 am: | 
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How does one deal with waiting for a spanking? Its going on 2 days!! I know its coming - and "R" told me that He will spank me when He says so (Friday night was the last I heard!)...It's going to be a "stress-relief-I need it bad-make sure sex follows" type of spanking...Do you think He has an ulterior motive  to making his woman squirm and wait and anticipate?!? 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2007
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 12:44 pm: |
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I find the waiting game to be the worst part, especially when it is a stress relief one.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 313
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 01:47 pm: |
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Several months ago Bill took out all the power tools and got some of the most beautiful cherry and maghogony wood and was making something for almost two days. The time before this when he took out the tools he made two maple paddles so I was abit concerned so for the two days I keep asking what he was making and for two days nothing can from his lips at night he would just rub my ass as if to prime the canvasses I was sitting on pins and needles finally he gave me a very beutiful inlaid box to put the ashes of my beloved dashound Schintizel. I cried but after I calmed down I asked him why did he make me suffer. I really thought he is making another paddle and thank you but I think the two he made before are very effectived especially with the finish he put on them. do you know what his answer was "It's be a long time since you feared a spanking and I just had to play along". So to answer your question sometimes I think they enjoy seeing us squrim a little. As a side note he did make two more paddles that are just as mean as the first ones he made. Now I know why the wood is called cherry because each time he uses that paddle my butt is cherry red.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Beachley
Advanced Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 316
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 02:34 pm: |
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My spankings always seem to revolve around control issues. Therefore, I almost always have to wait if it is for something more than play and fun. If I get pushy in some manner to get a spanking then the spanking is definitely delivered on Mr. B's schedule otherwise WHO is in control?
Pink I'd say R is in control mode and he is making sure you know you that you are NOT the one in control.
LOL Red that was a cute story. I think Bill was pushing all the right buttons.
(Message edited by beachley on March 10, 2006)
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Carly
New member
Username: Carly
Post Number: 17
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 02:42 pm: |
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I to hate the waiting game, but sometimes, it is not because of him, but because we have children, and it's a matter of if they get to bed early or not, blah blah blah... My husband always likes to make sure I am in the middle of a good game on pogo, or in the middle of a good book before he mentions it's time for a spanking... I think I hate that more then waiting...lol
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Pinkcheeks
Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 166
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 02:59 pm: |
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Hey Red - what an adorable story! *sorry to hear about the loss of your pooch though  But how very cool to have a husband who can work with wood like that!  mmmmm or maybe not~~~
Beachley - I think you are soooo right! I can sometimes be a bit "pushy" and it seems the more I push, the more He refrains from what I want (well duh! You think I would get it by now  )
Fanny - yes, waiting IS the worst part - When I called him at work today, I kinda mentioned our little "date" with the paddle - to which he replied..."oh, is that tonight?" grrrrrrrr
Carly - thank GOODNESS our children are now grown and moved across the country! So erotic or DD spankings are done anytime anyplace! But I understand being in the middle of something and its time for OTK~~~
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Apatheticdream
New member
Username: Apatheticdream
Post Number: 8
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 03:18 pm: |
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I'm jealous. I'll have to bring this up to my gf to ramp things up a bit. 
N.
...I catch a brief reflection of what (I) could and might have been...
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2011
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 03:19 pm: |
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That's what the group is all about Dream, sharing and spreading the fun.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Rex138
Spanko
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 51
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 11:25 am: |
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Having a child in the house often forces the waiting game.
Yes, an emotional rollercoaster. Anticipation is killer.
What's also tough is that sometimes you're 'ready' for a spanking like RIGHT THEN and when that THEN passes you're not as ready which makes it hurt worse!
Rex
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2021
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 12:18 pm: |
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I know the feeling Rex, as we have kids in the house too. Sometimes we just have to be a bit creative and find a way to make it happen before the mood changes. We have gone out to the garage after getting the kids involved with something else. We have also turned the TV on loud, gone into the bathroom, run the shower and do a quickie to hold us over. Geez, hiding the lifestyle is exhausting sometimes.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Rex138
Spanko
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 53
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 12:23 pm: |
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Hi Fanny,
We are a creative bunch of people aren't we?
Yes, when it really needs to happen, we'll go into our closet and I get it with something quiet. Unfortunately quiet things are sometimes the stingy-est!
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Carly
New member
Username: Carly
Post Number: 22
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 01:05 pm: |
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Omg the garage! we live way to close to our neighbors for the garage, and my mouth is to big, they would all know in a heart beat! Not sure if they would cheer him on, or just think we were a couple of weirdo's!!
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2022
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 06:21 pm: |
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Turn some music on LOUD, and blame it on that, Carly.
You are so right, Rex, I have found a plastic flyswatter to be one of the quietest and stingiest things around.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 514
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, March 12, 2006 - 08:21 am: |
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I think anticipation can add to the excitement, but sometimes can be too much of a build up, to a not so good session. Anticipation can sometimes fuel the imagination to unrealistic expectations. Knowing what works and doesn't work, with a partner, is good.
Regarding the noise....I met a friend in NYC for a spanking party, back a few years ago. We spent Saturday afternoon, shopping in the Village, and since it was a very rare 80+ degree day in late October, we decided to walk, versus taking a cab all the way back to the hotel.
While walking past a quaint, rather small apartment building, we heard the VERY distinct rhythm that all of us would associate with a good spanking. Smack, smack, smack, went the rhythm, when both of us turned to one another and stopped in our tracks.  "Ya think?" we wondered.
There was no doubt in our minds, someone was enjoying a spanking, along with the warm weather.  The windows were flung wide open, on the street side, and they were probably only one flight up.
It was a pleasant addition to our day, and I'm sure it was as pleasant to the couple enjoying the fun.
I found it wonderful that they had no cares, but to enjoy themselves, and the hot weather that day. Me thinks it only got hotter...for them too! 
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Jasmine_1958
Spanko
Username: Jasmine_1958
Post Number: 56
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 14, 2006 - 08:52 pm: |
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My husband almost ALWAYS makes my anticipate. He loves to see my squirm. It really makes your whole mind in a different world. For example, we went to a nude beach in Maui last week. I was to tell NO ONE! (OK screwed that up again). Anyway, I told my closest friend. She somehow made some comment to my husband. I got an e-mail about 10:00 in the morning telling me of my impending spanking. I wasn't really sure how mad he was so all day I'm wondering...waiting...anticipating... The waiting game really sucks! |
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