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Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 504
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 07, 2006 - 02:16 pm: | 
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What was the first implement that you felt, or used on someone, for spanking? (Please remember to remain in the context of adult spanking only.)
I'm thinking the number one "first" would be the "hand"  , but when it comes to using an implement, what was the first one you tried out? Was it anything like you thought it would be? Was it a good feel, or a bad feel/fit? Do you continue to use/feel it to this day?
If you've never spanked, or been spanked, what implement are you fantasizing about now?
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Pinkcheeks
Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 156
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 07, 2006 - 04:13 pm: |
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The first "implement" was his hand - and yes, it was EVERYTHING I imagined it to be!! **especially since I was the first one to admit that I was interested in DD. Since then, we have experimented with a variety of "toys" - some we like, others we dont. The first toy was a ping-pong paddle!  , not used much at all now - we have "graduated" to custom-made paddles -  what a difference~~~~
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 308
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 07, 2006 - 05:59 pm: |
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The frist thing other than his hand was the CB paddle. man oh man it sure did sting followed closely by the hairbrush and belt. Both of which I hate for bad girl spankings but have learned to love for the GG spankings
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Bottombandit
New member
Username: Bottombandit
Post Number: 43
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 07, 2006 - 08:08 pm: |
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First implement? Would have to be the back of the hair brush after watching Exit to Eden! |
Ma_vie_en_rose
Spanko
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 150
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 07, 2006 - 11:53 pm: |
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ooh~ hot Bottombandit, but... James Dean?  pah.
Mine would be--hand excluded--a riding crop  I got it for my ex for Christmas. ^-^ O.- Had to take it to school and I couldn't find a big enough box for it. |
Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 349
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 08, 2006 - 12:05 am: |
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After hand? Ping pong paddle. Hey, we were poor students.
At least we knew enough to pull the pads off. |
Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 507
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 08, 2006 - 07:27 am: |
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Rose, James Dean was in "EAST of Eden"..."Exit To Eden" was the slightly kinky comedy with Rosie O'Donnel and Dan Ackroyd, that including a man being tied up and smacked with a hairbrush.
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Ma_vie_en_rose
Spanko
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 151
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 08, 2006 - 08:47 am: |
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Ah. ^_^; well then that's all the better. |
Tammynx
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 324
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 08, 2006 - 11:16 am: |
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After the hand was the belt!! WOW what a difference that was.  |
Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 697
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 08, 2006 - 03:43 pm: |
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After the hand...a belt. He snuck up on me with it too!!
Sneaky old git.
I remember Tammy getting the belt for the first time...sorry sis but you deserved it.
My favorite is still his hand. And for 68 years old, he packs a HARD wallop!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Beachley
Advanced Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 314
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 08, 2006 - 05:14 pm: |
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After the hand it was a ping pong paddle that broke and then the CB paddle and then for WHATEVER strange reason he started to just collect them. I think we had 18 at one time. Silly Mr. B.
Now we have a yummy flogger
A bad bad cane.
A bad bad plastic cake spatula thing made by Wolfie's Steve.
A yummy leather paddle Thanks to Wolfie.
A mini flogger
and assorted other items.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 351
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, March 09, 2006 - 03:47 pm: |
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Yeah, funny how they do that, isn't it? 
My 'vanilla' has:
Our first cheap 'leather' paddle (killed it)
A round leather paddle
A delrin-lined leather hairbrush paddle
A mini CB
A regular CB
A Vermont Bath Brush (courtesy of Wolfie)
A personalized large wooden spatula (also courtesy of Wolfie)
Several wooden spoons (never used them on me yet, silent prayer of thanks to Patron Saint of Sitting)
An evil oar (courtesy of Bethie)
2 ping pong paddles
A light leather strap
A rubber strap (you don't even want to KNOW)
A mini riding crop (also courtesy of Wolfie...grrr)
A riding crop with a large folded slapper (or is that a hog slapper?)
A leather flyswatter (courtesy of NaughtybyNature)
A child's braided leather belt (as yet untested)
A suede flogger
A plastic flyswatter
2 flexible rubbery rulers
A heavy plastic ruler (ow ow ow)
A 2" x 10" by 3/4" strip of SOLID MAPLE, stained and varnished. (A cabinet stain sample, clearly not intended for staining his beloved's bottom, but he doesn't listen).
Most alarmingly, the lovely large red silicone spoon I purchased for our new kitchen has gone missing. I'm a bit concerned by this turn of events, and not just because I paid $15 for it.  |
Pinkcheeks
Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 165
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 10:40 am: |
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Pagan...can you imagine if ALL men were "vanilla" by the standards of your man?! Damn girl, you 2 have an ARSENAL of implements! ooowwwiee! Isn't it great to have a collection of sorts? 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 316
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 01:55 pm: |
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Pagan,
One thing I learned is never show them any new kitchen thingy some how it ends up by the bed, in the bedroom, in the den or just in the "travel" bag of toys. I swear I buy more and more spoons and spatulas than anyone I know. My last large soft plastic silicone spatula is AWL from the kitchen and has yet to turn up anywhere that I know but my butt will be sure to find it when I lest expect it.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Kryssi
New member
Username: Kryssi
Post Number: 22
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 02:33 pm: |
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The first impliment I experienced was a ruler. It was one of those rubber ones you can buy at wal-mart. I absolutely love it now.. so he doesn't use it for discipline anymore.. (although I haven't had a spanking for like, 2 months  bg or gg)
"I'm so tired of being here... supressed by all my childish fears"
Evanescence ~ My Immortal
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Apatheticdream
New member
Username: Apatheticdream
Post Number: 7
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 03:16 pm: |
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I think the first implement my gf used on me was a thin strap from one of her purses. Imagine if you will, just for a moment, that flexible bit of leather in the hands of someone who has never done this before. Wraparound occured, whacked me square in the jewels, and that evenings sexual activities were replaced by a strategically placed icebag.
That was the first and last time she attempted to use something with a wraparound issue. I've steered her towards much less traumatizing implements via my handiwork in the woodshed...although making your own paddles is kinda like cutting your own switch lol.
N.
...I catch a brief reflection of what (I) could and might have been...
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2012
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 03:22 pm: |
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 Sorry, Dream but that is too funny. Okay, I will give you a "poor baby"
Personally I think making your own impliments to be rather exciting. Anticipation IS part of the fun, afterall.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Carly
New member
Username: Carly
Post Number: 19
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 03:45 pm: |
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OMG!! Did that give me a good laugh! Not that your pain is my amusement, but in this case I think it was...lol.. I have to feel sorry for you tho, I can just imagine what that felt like, well no I can't I don't have family jewels, but hey I try and be sympathetic every now and then...
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Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 703
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 03:58 pm: |
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Now that makes a whole new meaning to sending you to the woodshed!
Sorry hon, that was just too tempting to pass up.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Apatheticdream
New member
Username: Apatheticdream
Post Number: 10
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 04:11 pm: |
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Pun was intended Shylah. Besides I dont mind being the butt of the jokes.
Seriously though, I laugh about it now. Just wasnt so funny when it happened.
N.
...I catch a brief reflection of what (I) could and might have been...
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Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 708
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 04:23 pm: |
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I can just imagine that it was NOT funny at all at the time.
One time when my guy took me across his knee,in the process, I banged my forehead on the arm of the chair. I was seeing stars so much I didn't notice the spanking at all. He didn't know it till he was letting me up and saw something was not quite right. I did get pampered the rest of that night. He even went out and got my favorite ice cream.
(pssssst...don't tell anyone but he's really got a heart of mush)
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2016
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 06:10 pm: |
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Now Shylah, don't they all really have a heart of mush?
It just goes to show that what is not at all funny at the moment, can be very amusing as time goes on. You do have a good attitude Dream.}
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Spankynyc
New member
Username: Spankynyc
Post Number: 30
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 03:35 am: |
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The hand is the most sensual thing you can use to spank a naughty young lady bottom. And this is followed by a hairbrush,woodenspoon or a cracker barrel paddle. LOL -spankynyc |
Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 509
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 06:05 am: |
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The first two toys that I got were from online purchases, as I couldn't imagine the horrors of shopping in person. (Wow, have times changed! )
I bought an acrylic clear, totally see through paddle, frat style in shape, and a beautiful leather type slapper (although more like a paddle slapper), from Adam and Gillians. The two implements seemed to be on opposite ends of the spectrum (in quality and price, as well as the sting factor), but I found the floppy leather to have many more possibilities.
Both toys were taken to my first party.
Both toys, being unique, where fawned over, and some people borrowed them, at my first party.
Both toys were damaged at my first party.
Lesson to learn from this....
Don't lend out your toys!
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Rex138
New member
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 48
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 11, 2006 - 10:42 am: |
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Dream,
That was freakin' halarious! 
Yeah vanillas and belts, or other longer straps or as you referred to them 'wraparounds' do not mix.
I had a vanilla once who was getting into using the belt but either she would wrap around and catch me on the hip OR I would get unusually high amounts of strokes with the "dreaded edge".
I just glad that I didn't catch one in the jewels like you did.
I got her switched over to paddles, sandals and other easy to control implements. :o)
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Tplayer
New member
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 37
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 04, 2006 - 02:16 pm: |
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My first was a belt I persuade my husband to use when we were engaged. It was not hard, but I felt it. Wish he would use it now!!!!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 490
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 06, 2006 - 08:03 pm: |
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Hand which I would htink would be pretty standard and then hairbrush.
The Princess of Spanking
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Obx_peach
New member
Username: Obx_peach
Post Number: 6
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 02:21 am: |
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I just posted my story if anyone would like to read it 1. hand 2. Plastic kitchen spoon 3. CB Paddle 4. Hair brush ( the worst yet) !! |
Subbie
Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 55
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 05:28 am: |
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first spanking was with a ping pong paddle, and hairbrush, and they are still in his night table, ready when needed
my name says it all
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Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 181
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 09:06 am: |
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The hand (of course) and then a small leather paddle and then a cane -- all in my first session.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Otter
Advanced Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 102
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 10:18 am: |
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The first implement The Man used on me was the scabbard from his short sword. Interestingly, it was a long time before he actually used his hand on me, maybe close to ten spankings.
Dream, I have made almost all the implements we have including a buckskin flogger with six knotted tails, a seven tail spline flogger, a spline "loopy johnny" and I just made this short (about 3 ft. long) braided spline single tail with the three little ends free. We also have a few things that I didn't make like his belt (which is my favorite, I think), various wooden and rubber spatulas, the wooden spoon and a rubber ruler (which I don't like at all!).
I don't mind the wraparound, LOL, but I don't have any family jewels either, just a very sensitive hip bone. =)
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Kryssi
Spanko
Username: Kryssi
Post Number: 64
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 03:44 pm: |
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The first thing I was spanked with other then his hand was the belt. I mean we had exparimented before with a few swats of anything we could find. "Hey honey, try this one" or "honey, lemme know who this feels"
"You make me feel soo beautiful, no where else in the world I wanna be, you make me feel so beautiful"
~Darren Hayes~
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Uh_oh
New member
Username: Uh_oh
Post Number: 28
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 08, 2006 - 12:31 pm: |
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the first for me was a paddle...i hated it...hurt and stung like crazy! still does  |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 672
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 08, 2006 - 04:53 pm: |
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I "hide" our paddle....doesn't sting anymore!!
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Cheekychipmunk
Advanced Spanko
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 116
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 09, 2006 - 06:12 pm: |
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When I first introduced spanking to my hubby, I told him I wanted him to spank me with his hand and then the wooden hairbrush I had bought from Shadow Lane.
We both figured out how hard the spank should be so as not to really hurt me and we had a safety word just to make sure. But dang 5 minutes with a brush isn't a laughing matter.
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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Weasel
New member
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 11
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 04:22 pm: |
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His Hand was first... but when we broadened our horizons we discovered The Shoehorn. I really bought it because my finger gets sore as hell trying to squeeze my big fat feet into my shoes. I keep it on the coffee table since that's where my shoes inevitably come off and go on at. It's about 2" wide, about 20" long, and made of flexible plastic. That shoehorn found it's way into our bedroom one evening though, putting on my shoes has never been the same!
I then convinced him to try out one of my big old wooden spoons - the kind they used to make out of hickory. !!
With Fathers Day coming up, I'm thinking about buying him a new hairbrush... |
Czechmate
New member
Username: Czechmate
Post Number: 5
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 16, 2006 - 06:29 pm: |
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My first implement was a riding crop found by by a dog I had several years ago- she brought it back instead of the stick I threw, I knew it would come in handy even though it was fairly battered- I've used it on every partner I've had until just before I met my wife when it disappeared I think another wicked miss kept it as a souvenir.
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Nexus
New member
Username: Nexus
Post Number: 12
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, June 16, 2006 - 07:07 pm: |
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The first implement I ever used was my hand. I didn't really know what I was doing in those days and think I did more damage to my hand than her butt. Beyond that it was the belt. I'm partial and rather good with the belt ;) |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1178
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 16, 2006 - 07:58 pm: |
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Hey Nexus...didn't you scroll up to see that the paddle don't sting anymore?
Don't you wonder why??????
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2549
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 16, 2006 - 08:02 pm: |
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....rather good with the belt" Cocky one isn't he?
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 532
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 17, 2006 - 12:31 am: |
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The Princess of Spanking
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