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Blulizrdboots
Spanko
Username: Blulizrdboots
Post Number: 52
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 12:52 am: | 
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I know I haven't been around much for neone that remembers me that is. But I was wondering if anyone could give me some... pointers I guess.
Okay there's a guy that I work with that he and i have been, well flirting with since before Christmas. Anyways while working with him and of course bugging him relentlessly, I was threatening to throw a pack of butter at him when he threatens to give me a "whoopin". My question is this: How do I let him know I like that? Or should I even let him know? Should I just say. "Please do."? Or just ease into it? |
Otter
New member
Username: Otter
Post Number: 1
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 01:11 am: |
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This is my first post but it really spoke to me. I have an online friend who has talked about her old relationships and how she got into spanking with them. I believe some of the lines she would use might be something like, "why don't you try?" or "I wish you would" or "yeah, right, try it..." I think then, if he is not into it or not ready for it, he can easily play it off as a joke, ya know? Just my thoughts. I'll introduce myself soon.
otter*
"It was something magic out of something frightening. That's how I live my life, I take it as it comes. In my mind I see the rocking horse inside the tree." -Sara Evans
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Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 180
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 02:47 am: |
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Throw the pack of butter.... |
Reader_girl
Spanko
Username: Reader_girl
Post Number: 103
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 10:01 am: |
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I'm with Kennysspankee. 
Although Otter's suggestions sound good, too.
Reader Girl
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 210
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 10:43 am: |
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If you are a brat, then you could always say; "promises, promises"
I am not big into bratting, but I think I would use any of the suggested phrases and see where that takes you 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2071
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 11:32 am: |
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Ok, my vote? DON'T throw the butter, I would use one of the lines suggested. It makes you look more mature, exciting and if he can read between the lines, I think he will respect you more for your suggestiveness.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 181
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 04:23 pm: |
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Yeah, but throwing the butter keeps the playfulness going and is an easier way to 'break the ice', to get a conversation going on how you're 'into it'. Coming right out and saying it is hard and embarressing (for most of us). |
Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 380
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 04:31 pm: |
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I wouldn't throw the butter.
But I would smile suggestively and say, "I invite you to try."  |
Beachley
Advanced Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 335
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 04:41 pm: |
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I agree don't throw the butter, but do try out one of the lines mentioned in the other posts. That way the ball is back in his court and he can do as he wishes with it.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1471
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 04:49 pm: |
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Dont take this wrong guys....but men can be dense! And I know how hard it is to just come out and ask, so....
You could give him a wink and say "Hmmmm, throw it and get a spanking...dont throw it and dont get a spanking?"
Then grin and throw it at him. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Reader_girl
Spanko
Username: Reader_girl
Post Number: 104
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 05:56 pm: |
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 ...Wolfie!
Reader Girl
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Kryssi
New member
Username: Kryssi
Post Number: 29
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 09:44 pm: |
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I agree with Wolfie
"I'm so tired of being here... supressed by all my childish fears"
Evanescence ~ My Immortal
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1478
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 09:58 pm: |
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What? *innocent look*
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Rex138
Spanko
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 63
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 11:31 pm: |
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Wolfie's right.
We're pretty dense when it comes to that sort of thing. Pretty much have to be hit over the head with it. Or in this case, with the butter.
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Sassyaawaa
New member
Username: Sassyaawaa
Post Number: 35
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 11:37 pm: |
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I agree with Wolfie too!
Kudos to you Rex for admitting that you guys can be dense sometimes about certain things.
Contributing a pound of butter and crossing my fingers.
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Kennysspankee
Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 182
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 12:37 am: |
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I agree with me AND Wolfie. |
Blulizrdboots
Spanko
Username: Blulizrdboots
Post Number: 53
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 01:11 am: |
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lmao Wolfie i love ur answer. i agree with u and w/ kennysspankee. I gotta remember all of these. |
Spanko69
New member
Username: Spanko69
Post Number: 1
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 03:16 am: |
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hey all im new at this, i just moved to a new area and i want to know how to go about finding local spankos |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2075
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 10:01 am: |
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Hello spanko, we are not a connection site, but please feel welcome to read and post, you never know. I would guess the easiest way would be to find some clubs in your area.
BTW: Why don't you post to the meet and greet area, so everyone can know we have a new member.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1487
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 11:31 am: |
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Let folks know what state your in, that way they can contact you about groups/clubs in your area.
And dont forget to duck those thrown butter packets! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Bluepencil
New member
Username: Bluepencil
Post Number: 33
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 01, 2006 - 04:54 pm: |
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Cmon' "Boots" let's get back to the thread! Did you throw the butter or not? They do call them "pats" of butter, don't they?? |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2089
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 01, 2006 - 05:32 pm: |
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Wait minute. Are we talking about a pat of butter or a pound of butter, there is a HUGE difference!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Smartnnaughty
Advanced Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 341
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 04, 2006 - 02:17 pm: |
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Blulizrdboots,
I remember you! ARe you going to post any stories soon?
SNN
(maybe I should check the reading area FIRST)
I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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Blulizrdboots
Spanko
Username: Blulizrdboots
Post Number: 54
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 05, 2006 - 01:07 am: |
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lol I've thrown the butter but that's all i'm saying. hehehehe
and SNN I plan on it.. I've been trying figure out what other things I can use for my Cory Stories. Hey, if anyways had any requests I may use them.
later.
~blu~ |
Padwangirl
New member
Username: Padwangirl
Post Number: 3
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 05, 2006 - 07:29 am: |
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Try these "Don't threaten me with a good time!",
"I can take it!", "I dare you!", "I bet you can't me me say mercy!", say any of these with a devilish grin and you are as good as spanked! It is both an invitation and a challenge. Been there and done that trust me. |
Sassyaawaa
Spanko
Username: Sassyaawaa
Post Number: 79
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 05, 2006 - 11:42 pm: |
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(pout) Hey Blulizrdboots..........that aint' fair....you THREW the butter BUT you won't tell us what happened? Hmmmmmppppffff ...Yep! Just NOT fair!! 
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