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Tender_and_sore
New member
Username: Tender_and_sore
Post Number: 10
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 08:11 am: | 
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Hi, I am very unsure what this site is really for after receiving some very 'to the point' personal mails. Is this just a fun site for people who enjoy fantasising about spanking or even putting their fantasy into practice or is it, as I thought, somewhere for people to share honest thoughts and experiences or genuine situations not just of a sexual nature.
Alyeska x |
Tigerman
Spanko
Username: Tigerman
Post Number: 65
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 10:24 am: |
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It has been my experience that this site is a place that you can get your questions answered and discuss the many sides and issues of this lifestyle.I would hope that it is not seen as a pick up or matchmaking site and if you have recieved unwanted or graphic PMs then you should get in touch with the admin. about it |
Sassyaawaa
Spanko
Username: Sassyaawaa
Post Number: 113
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 10:55 am: |
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Hi Alyeska 
I agree with Tigerman. No one should be mailing you things you do not want and the admin of this board is very good about not allowing the rules to be broken. You were right in your first thought, it is a place for people to share honest thoughts, experiences, situations and suggestions and to inquire about different aspects of the OTK world and even ask for advice. All in all this is a great group of people so please don't let a few bad apples spoil it for you. Hugs, Sassy  |
Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 757
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 02:31 pm: |
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This is a good site. The forum gives all that are into the spanko scene a place to share experiences, get different thoughts and views, and even share a good joke.
And I agree that you should direct unwanted messages to the admin. I know she is busy and maybe can't respond right away but she DOES keep it safe and sane!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2139
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 02:35 pm: |
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No-one should have to deal with improper PMs. Every once in awhile, someone shows upand sends out mass emails to members of the group. As soon as admin. finds out, it is swiftly taken care of. Usually the offending person moves on or gets the point, if not they can be restricted or blocked.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tender_and_sore
New member
Username: Tender_and_sore
Post Number: 11
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 03:17 pm: |
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Hi, Thank you all. I may have been a tad too sensitive. I wish I was less easily embarrassed, so many of you seem to be able to discuss things so openly. I did get my very first spanking two weeks ago and am trying to write about it so that I can share as other people seem so generously to do. |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 723
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 03:25 pm: |
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Hi Tender, I'm sorry you've been receiving unsolicited PM's and I've already taken steps to see that it stops. Please let me know if you have any more problems, okay?
I guess it's time to make my regularly scheduled plea to new members about PM's? If you receive an unwelcome PM or any message that makes you uncomfortable, please let me know immediately and I'll take care of it. We are a discussion board, not a hookup site! If you develop a relationship with someone over time here because of your compatability and like ideas during discussions, that's great and I wish you all the best. But sending out PM's to strangers isn't the way to accomplish that. Thank you all for your cooperation!
Now back to our regularly scheduled programming...
(Message edited by bethie on April 16, 2006) |
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