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Puppyface
New member Username: Puppyface
Post Number: 1 Registered: 04-2006
| Posted on Sunday, April 02, 2006 - 01:53 pm: |
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Hi, I'm new to this site. I have thought alot about spanking for many years. I finally found a man I trusted enough to let spank me. We do have a few problems though. He won't spank me enough. Months go by in between spankings. I have ordered him about 5 different paddles to spank me with & he is always looking for more things. But we can never find the time to do it & when we start to the kids come home or something else comes up. I know he wants to because he always says things like "You really need a spanking". The other problem we have is teenaged kids still in the house. We can never seem to get all 3 of them out at the same time. I want to get spanked more often, but how to people get arond the kids hearing. Please help me get the red butt I so really need & want. I don't want to wait 3 1/2 years until the last one gets out of high school. |
Sassyaawaa
Spanko Username: Sassyaawaa
Post Number: 66 Registered: 03-2006
| Posted on Monday, April 03, 2006 - 07:43 am: |
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Hi Puppyface, Welcome to the site and to world of spanking. I cannot help but wonder how old the 3 young ones are. Are they old enough to send to the movies/show on their own? Or old enough to be dropped off at the mall for a few hours? Or some other outing that they will enjoy? I am sure someone else can contribute to ways around the children problem but I thought I would share my thoughts on how to get them out of the house for a bit. We don't have children at home but we do have too many people who pop in and out of our home so we have set up date nite and that means NO ONE is allowed to bother us on that specific nite. |
Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 230 Registered: 12-2005
| Posted on Monday, April 03, 2006 - 08:05 am: |
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Hi Puppyface (cute nick!)...You two might have to set up a very specific "playdate" - I am not sure how old your children are, but Sassy had a good idea. Also, how about a sending them to Grandma's for an evening? Or a sitter can come over and the two of you can go somewhere (You be surprised the places one can get spanked!). Luckily (or unluckily depending upon the type of spanking), our 2 children now live 1800 miles away! Ahhhh...the "empty-nest" symdrome never felt sooooo good I am sure it is frustrating for the both of you, but it takes just a little bit of creativity, and I am sure you will get the red butt you are longing for (and I agree - months between spankings IS a long time)~~~Good luck! "Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 231 Registered: 12-2005
| Posted on Monday, April 03, 2006 - 08:06 am: |
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Ohhh....btw....welcome to the den!!! We are glad to have you here~~~ "Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Puppyface
New member Username: Puppyface
Post Number: 2 Registered: 04-2006
| Posted on Monday, April 03, 2006 - 09:15 pm: |
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The kids are 21(he works nights M-f), 19 who goes to his girlfriend's on weekends, 15 who was grounded for bad grades. Guess what I worked it out & got all the kids out of the house. He gave me a great spanking tonight. We made a deal that we would go in to the bathroom & use the riding crop (less noise)at least 2 times a month. But any time all the kids are gone we can play. We had a long talk about it last night. Boy, did he enjoy spanking me. But my butt was not used to it so I am REALLY sore. Thanks for your help. Sometimes I think I am weird for wanting to be spanked. Now I know I am normal |
Sassyaawaa
Spanko Username: Sassyaawaa
Post Number: 68 Registered: 03-2006
| Posted on Monday, April 03, 2006 - 10:23 pm: |
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Yeppers, we are ALL normal (giggle) Those who do not like a good spanking are the strange ones LOL I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo that you two worked it out and that your bottom is reminding you of the long overdue event |
Pillow_girl
New member Username: Pillow_girl
Post Number: 14 Registered: 03-2006
| Posted on Tuesday, April 04, 2006 - 03:31 am: |
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Hi Puppyface, maybe you guys can plan a weekend away sometime and then you can take all your toys and no kids with you, hey there arre lots of us spankos around and a good group of them here. wish you well
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Puppyface
New member Username: Puppyface
Post Number: 4 Registered: 04-2006
| Posted on Tuesday, April 04, 2006 - 03:53 pm: |
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I now know I am normal. Sometimes it's hard to try to discuss spanking with your friends. They just don't understand. Now i found an outlet for my thoughts. Thank you for all yoour help. I was able to discuss spoanking with my husband because of your great words. |