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Jorge
New member
Username: Jorge
Post Number: 4
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 02, 2006 - 12:35 pm: | 
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SPANKING!HELL NO, NOT MY THING; OR SO I THOUGHT.
I DIDN'T GROW UP THINKING OF HAVING A WOMAN OVER MY KNEES AND NOW I THINK ABOUT IT ALOT.I'VE YET TO EXPERIENCE THIS EXCITEMENT, AND ITS NOT A SUBJECT YOU JUST BRING UP; SURLY SOMEONE ELES HAS BEEN IN MY POSITION? |
Ladygator2904
New member
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 12
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 02, 2006 - 02:42 pm: |
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when I first realized that it excited me, I had real a HOT spanking story in Playboy. I had a difficult time telling my husband how fun it sounded but once I told me, he was glad to oblige.. Yes, it was REALLY FUN. It was a good girl spanking so to say, nice warm buns followed by passionate lovemaking.
A woman`s heart is filled with an ocean of secrets!
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 227
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 02, 2006 - 03:44 pm: |
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I was more into spanking then hubby....what I did was find all kinds of articles and info on the net for him to read (from RELIABLE sites). Once he read them, we sat down and had LOTS of discussions about it...that is the most important thing about the spanking lifestyle - the ability to trust, open up, and be honest
Happy Spanking! 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Sassyaawaa
Spanko
Username: Sassyaawaa
Post Number: 59
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 02, 2006 - 06:03 pm: |
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Hi Jorge, I think a lot of people have been in your position. A lot of us hid what we wanted/needed for a long time. A long time ago when I wanted to "test the waters" I had a guy I was dating watch the movie <don't> "Blue Hawaii" and when that spanking scene took place I asked "Would you have done that to her?" He thought for a minute and said "In a heartbeat" My response was "So, maybe I should watch my P's & Q's around you?" He responded "Yep, or I will have to spank you!" I smiled. I have to admit the first time that he did, I was thinking "Gee, is that all there is?" But we sat down, after cuddling for a bit, and discussed it and I said "If you really want to keep me in line, you are going to have to let go of your hesitation and spank me harder than that." The next time I was turned over his knee, I no longer had to express THAT feeling ever again. I wish you well in your new discovery and I agree with Pinkcheeks, it takes trust, being open and open minded, honesty and, I will add, a lot of trial and error sometimes.  |
Pillow_girl
New member
Username: Pillow_girl
Post Number: 12
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 02, 2006 - 06:43 pm: |
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Not always a easy thing to do, it took me 9 years of looking to find the right guy, one thing you need to know a person for awhile, and get to know each other. we did some play wrestle and I would smack his butt and he would smack mine, I would ask him if that was the best he could do and then he would smack my harder. you have to feel out a person and let things develope and be ready to take the oppertunity as it arises.
I am a sub so when we talked I began feeling him out on what his thoughts were about the Hubby being the head of the house and keeping me in line.
Don't know if this will help you but I wish you well, one thing don't try and rush it too fast
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Sassyaawaa
Spanko
Username: Sassyaawaa
Post Number: 77
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 05, 2006 - 11:36 pm: |
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Jorge? Care to tell us how you are doing?
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