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Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 03:20 pm: | 
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I'm a little apprehensive yet very excited....
safe,sane and consensual. Do I need a safe word
before he brandishes my riding crop?
At least I'm well padded.
Glad to find you..just happened to Google the buggy whip quote from GWTW and found you. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2122
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 03:30 pm: |
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Wow, Changeling, just my opinion....but a riding crop for a first spanking!?! I think you better have a safe word. Personally, I would start a bit slower, but I'm happy for you if you are excited, and thrilled for you, if it turns out to be what you are hoping for.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ladygator2904
New member
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 32
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 03:45 pm: |
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hi, welcome to the group. I guess Ihave been here a month now. I agree with Fanny, maybe you should start with a good paddling  As for Gary and I, we went from his hand to thin leather paddles to wooden spoons.Currently I am waiting for a punihment implement to arrive from L.T. The punishment spanking is long overdue and a first for us so I hope it arrives today! May you find the happiness that Gary and I have fond.
A woman`s heart is filled with an ocean of secrets!
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Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 2
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 05:15 pm: |
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I think I can take it...heaven knows I've given it, I have been 'turned'.. in my fantasies from childood a sub, my lover wanted a Dom and I did it for HIM now....
I have met a very strong man, we click on all levels. He is totally dom and I am prepared to give up my 'virginity' to him.
looking forward to talking here again. |
Ma_vie_en_rose
Spanko
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 174
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 05:58 pm: |
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You know, a riding crop's not that bad, I mean, it can be really painful, but only if you're going for solid almost cane-like strokes, I'd say with normals smacks from the flat of the crop, it's not a bad implement to start out on. The paddle just hurts, no arguing that. And even the hand covers a larger area. I don't think a crop's a bad thing to use
I hope you have fun tomorrow. And.. a safe word, perhaps, but just make sure you maintain communication. |
Ladygator2904
New member
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 33
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 08:01 pm: |
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Well said, Ma.. thanks for the info... I guess those of us who havent tried it should not be giving advice 
A woman`s heart is filled with an ocean of secrets!
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Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 3
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 08:03 pm: |
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I just happen to have a riding crop,,,
(with the horse I was always on top!)
I will present it for his consideration..
this is SO new and I'm 59
'Life may not be the party we asked for
but while we are here we might as well dance'
Thanks all,,
look forward to returning to this site..
I've been a deeply hidden sub for 40+ years |
Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 4
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 08:08 pm: |
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ps...
I used a cane on my sub with no ill effects..
and still have it.
My dom is quite experienced and knows that I am a virgin. Will do on the safe word...probably RED |
Ladygator2904
New member
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 35
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 08:36 pm: |
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Seems like there are a lot of us babyboomers out there I am 53! I think my new implement is in my apts office.. lol.. I got a pink slip in my mailbox that said, package in office, I went rushing to the office and it said, closed at 2pm (this was at 3pm) pout. my punishment spanking has to wait one more day.. HOPE they are OPEN tomorrow. I have a lot of guilt and G plans to help rid me of it ;)
A woman`s heart is filled with an ocean of secrets!
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2124
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 08:45 pm: |
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I'm glad to hear that you have experience, Changeling. When you first posted it sounded like this was all new to you. I was only concerned for your safety.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 5
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 08:47 pm: |
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Looking forward to my 'initiation' tomorrow!
Perhaps I've been a spoiled brat all my life and DESERVE what I get...
and more.
will check back tomorrow after the 2PM EDT
lesson in my bedroom! |
Whipu4free
New member
Username: Whipu4free
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 02:51 am: |
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HI welcome to the den,
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Firmhandmike
New member
Username: Firmhandmike
Post Number: 5
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 10:54 am: |
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I am the Dom over my wife who loves to be spanked. I would suggest the you start with a firmhand spanking and have a code word to give if you need more (I am sure he can tell if he should proceed to the crop by how wet you are)
Let us know how it goes. |
Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 748
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 11:11 am: |
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Hi Changeling. It's great to meet you!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 12:08 pm: |
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OK..
only 2 hours
getting my black dress ready, hope he doesn't think it's too Dom but I REALLY like black.
Any last minute suggestions?
Somehow spanking yourself just doesn't work!
Will update after he leaves. |
Ladygator2904
New member
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 37
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 04:31 pm: |
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Doesn`t waiting stink lol.. I am not sure which is worse the waiting or the spanking
A woman`s heart is filled with an ocean of secrets!
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Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 7
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 07:30 pm: |
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I got into the scene quite quickly.
it's the first time I've ever had to take off that dress one button at a time rather than quickly over my head...and there are about 40 buttons down the front.
Totally exhilerating experience, esp the sensory deprivation of the blindfold.
Time to recuperate in a hot bath. I bruise VERY easily and expect my backside looks like a Rand McNally road map. Crop, cane, paddle, cat and hands..oh my!
"life is an experiment without a control group" |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2134
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 08:35 pm: |
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One word, Changeling.........OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Delicate little Fanny, who freaks out at the sight of a bruise more than a spider or snake!!! Or tanantula, or killer bees, or great white sharks or eboli.......... 
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ladygator2904
New member
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 46
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 09:12 pm: |
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Seems it is atonement day for the both of us Changeling <g>.... KUDOS to you.. I am not as brave, will work on it 
A woman`s heart is filled with an ocean of secrets!
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 394
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 12:36 am: |
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Virtually any toy can be used lightly and pleasurably.
We have a child's riding crop (generously provided by one of our 'dear' resident mods), and it's not bad at all. If it's not the first implement we use...I can't really feel it much.
As long as you just use the slapper, and not the stick part, they're nothing to worry about.
We always play with multiple implements. We played last night with a riding crop, a silicone spoon, a leather strap, a rubber strap, and a delrin-lined leather paddle.
Marks? None. Tenderness? Gone in 10 minutes. Sigh. I miss my virgin skin. 
It's normal to mark more in the beginning, Changeling, and it isn't necessarily a sign that the spanking was harsh. But I suspect you know that already.
Welcome, BTW. |
Spanking_good_time
New member
Username: Spanking_good_time
Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 02:04 am: |
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Hello and welcome to the den. Id like to know how your first session went and if youll be back for more. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2136
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 16, 2006 - 02:28 pm: |
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Good point, Pagen. It think it may be that I am kept so well spanked, that the skin has built up a good tolerance. Also, my husband goes for FULL coverage as opposed to staying at one spot. Therefore I can take a sound spanking with nothing left by bright pink.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 8
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 17, 2006 - 04:39 pm: |
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Hi,
I've been an easy bruiser all my life, doubt I'll ever develop thick skin!
As I said it was QUITE exhilerating and I look forward to more. There were a few 'embellishments'
..let's just say enough rope and carabiners to mount a well equipped assault on Mt. Everest! When I mentioned that he said..."well, K2",
"Yes" I chimed in "A much more difficult and technical climb"
Needless to say we had clicked on an intellectual
level before I ever shared any of my unusual desires. |
Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 9
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 20, 2006 - 11:41 pm: |
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He e-mailed, doesn't want a 'relationship'
All I want is another spanking.
will post elsewhere later
thanks
changeling |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 734
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, April 21, 2006 - 01:08 am: |
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Changeling, I'm sorry about this turn of events! |
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