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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 311
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 04:23 pm: | 
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I am fond of a few very well written spanking blogs, and on one of them I read about how this woman took 500 swats (from various implements) from her husband. She did discribe it as painful, but something she wanted, needed, and craved.
When I turned 51, "R" spanked me 51 times (with a few extra thrown in for "good luck", and the next day I had a few bruises! - he alternated between his hand, a leather paddle, and a wooden paddle)
My question..........How is it possible for someone to take 100, 200, 500 spanks? *just curious 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Fireman_chris
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Username: Fireman_chris
Post Number: 79
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 04:42 pm: |
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It depends on how hard the top smacks, I guess. I've given spankings numbering in the several hundred swats before.
When I first met my wife, it was right around her birthday, so I gave her a birthday spanking. Actually, what I did was catch her up on all the birthday spankings she'd hadn't gotten up until that point.  I believe it was her 23rd birthday, so I gave her 1 for her 1st birthday, 2 for her 2nd and so on. That works out to 276 swats right there.
As you slide down the banisters of life
may the splinters never point the wrong way.
Old Irish Proverb
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Gypsygirl
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Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 194
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 04:50 pm: |
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I don't think I've ever actually counted the number of spanks I've received and we've never done the 'you're going to receive six of the best' thing. If someone tells me that they have given or received such a high number of spanks then I have no alternative to believe them but I can't help but be sceptical about it. Perhaps because I am thinking of each spank being very hard but as Fireman Chris says, if they were moderated knowing that such a high number were coming.
One last comment about the birthday spanking. And people wonder why women are prone to lie about their age!
I forsee spankings........LOTS of spankings
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Otter
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Username: Otter
Post Number: 43
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 05:10 pm: |
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Well, I know that I have taken about 50 with the flogger after about 80 with the wooden spatula, but those are just guesstimates. I don't count unless I am in big trouble and then they are very hard so the most I have taken then was 50 with the spatula. But I can take a lot more with the flogger (well, take is a loose term, I am usually crying and squirming, lol).
I know that when I started 20 with the spatula bruised me for over a week but now, those 50 with the same spatula barely gave me fingertip bruises and the same for the 80 warmup.
Are you talking about A Creative Spanked Wife? She takes a lot of "spanking" with a lot of really harsh implements. But they just celebrated their almost 30th anniversary (I can't remember if it was 28 or 29 now) and she has been getting spanked that whole time. So I imagine her tolerance is pretty high. Plus she is not just a spanko she is a (as she likes to say) pain whore, so what might seem unbearable to some people who just like the control of spanking or the closeness or the thrill or whatever, she also *gets off* on the pain.
I am finding myself getting to the same place (being a pain whore that is) and I think I took something like 100 with the rubber flogger the last time. My problem is I have to get bratty to get that many because my husband gets so turned on he gets impatient with the spanking and wants to get on with the festivities! 
"It was something magic out of something frightening. That's how I live my life, I take it as it comes. In my mind I see the rocking horse inside the tree." -Sara Evans
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Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 22
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 05:47 pm: |
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Well, M twice gave me 500-600 cane strokes in one session and that was in addition to other implements, so it can be done. I even posted pictures of my bottom afterwards on another site. When she spanks me, it is usually for 45 minutes, so I'm sure that I usually take 100s of strokes. I play a lot and so I've developed an ability to take a lot. It's definitely possible.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Fireman_chris
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Username: Fireman_chris
Post Number: 80
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 06:17 pm: |
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"Are you talking about A Creative Spanked Wife? She takes a lot of "spanking" with a lot of really harsh implements. But they just celebrated their almost 30th anniversary (I can't remember if it was 28 or 29 now) and she has been getting spanked that whole time. So I imagine her tolerance is pretty high. Plus she is not just a spanko she is a (as she likes to say) pain whore, so what might seem unbearable to some people who just like the control of spanking or the closeness or the thrill or whatever, she also *gets off* on the pain."
Ummm, hate to be the bearer of bad news, but she's recently announced that the entire blog was a sham. She's single, not in any sort of BDSM relationship and never had a son who was killed in a drunk driving accident. In fact, she blames much of what happened on her own drinking.
The "coming clean" post can be found on the April 4, 2006 entry at http://creativespankedwife.blogspot.com/2006/04/nope-no-april-fool-im-so-sorry-for.html. This has become a major controversy amongst the spanko blog community (including a joint blog my wife participates in) and there's a number of discussions going on in various places about the entire situation. Unfortunately, a lot of the comments on CSW itself have been, shall we say, purged and sanitized, so its hard to get the whole story there.
As you slide down the banisters of life
may the splinters never point the wrong way.
Old Irish Proverb
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Me_home_here
Advanced Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 258
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 07:28 pm: |
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I have no idea if its possible, but can I ask? Is it necessary.
All depends on how you feel and if your right or left handed
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 312
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 07:46 pm: |
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Chris....I was just about to tell Otter about Patty and her site....
Otter...no, I was not talking about "Creative Spanked Wife" Her website was one that I did visit- enjoyed her stories (that is what I always thought they were anyway), and her art work was very talented.
Me has a good point...What makes it necessary to have that many? 500-600 CANE strokes??!! Damn, that almost seems like torture! But you are all right, I guess it can be done, and it depends on what a person wants and can handle.
Thanks for the insight 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1588
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 08:34 pm: |
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Trust me folks, 500 mild swats to someone who is spanked regularly, is nothing. Its the strength behind the spanks that makes it possible. That and your levels.
Levels can change from "3 hard smacks and I beg him to stop" to "50 with this toy, 50 with that toy, etc." The first time Steve spanked me he had to be very gentle...lots of simple slaps and a few smacks with a wooden spatula. Now, even though we're seperated for months at a time, he can use many different toys and spank me hard enough to leave bruises and marks. And we play almost daily the whole time Im over there.
Of course, none of this is possible without a really good warm-up. The first 10 minutes of any spanking usually hurts like the dickens....then you hit that point where the pain recedes and you feel as though you could be spanked forever. I think its the endorphins kicking in that gets you there.
Chris, thank you for telling everyone about Patty...this has been very painful for those of us who believed her lies and Im glad the truth is finally out in the open. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 400
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 08:43 pm: |
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I've taken hundreds of swats many times. I tried to count on my birthday, and lost count somewhere over 400.
And no...I'm not THAT old. Forty was enough of a shock. 
We only do erotic spanking, and a few hundred doesn't leave me with a mark except very rarely. Nor are my spankings harsh.
The number doesn't really matter - it's the force behind them, whether you get warmed up, and whether you get rub breaks in between sets. |
Wolfie
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Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1591
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 09:05 pm: |
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Mmmmmmm, rub breaks are nice.....
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Beachley
Advanced Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 357
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 10:01 pm: |
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Mr. B gave me quite a spanking not long ago. He was counting to 75 but for each 1, 2, 3, etc he swatted about 5 times before he said 1. Then went on to 2 and swatted another 5 or more times. He needed he said to make sure each swat was just perfect. Most were not all that hard, but the one that did count WAS hard. But then he did rub in between every so often and that was very nice. By the time he was finished however, I was pretty close to what I was able to take and handle.
(Message edited by wolfie on April 26, 2006)
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Louiseoc
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Username: Louiseoc
Post Number: 8
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 02:11 am: |
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Creative spanked Wife and her 500 whacks! She's got a lot to answer for! I read that thing about her having been given 500 spanks with a paddle, and in a reckless moment I mentioned it to my husband. On a subsequent occasion, when I had done something that had seriously pissed him off, he decided he was going to give me 500. Which he did.
And then I discover that her site is all bloody fantasy, and she didn't get any of that at all. So I got the reality of her fantasy. I'm not sure whether to be pleased or annoyed.
Mind you, I like her better now I know it's all fantasy. She once sent me a really snotty email after I posted a comment on her site, and I thought she was a real cow. Now I know her life really sucks, I can understand why she was upset by my flippancy and I don't bear her a grudge any more. |
Ma_vie_en_rose
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Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 179
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 03:19 am: |
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Sorry to jump off topic, but  That's what Patty's confession was about? You know, I read that coming clean post... actually I was really confused by it. I'm glad that it someone finally explained to me what happened with that. but... in a way, I'm shocked and... ;-; a little upset. *sigh* I liked her blog. |
Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 29
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 08:23 am: |
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The 500-600 cane strokes I got were for exceeding the budget at the grocery store. M told me I'd get 5 cane strokes for every dollar over. We were having a dinner party. What could I do?
But of course, I like long hard spankings ...
Cheers,
Victoria
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 320
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 08:57 am: |
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Victoria...I am still in a state of shock about the number of cane strokes you received! I have seen pics of bottoms that got 5 or 6 strokes and the welts made me shiver!! I totally understand ppl who like long hard spanks, but were you totally welted? bruised? bleeding? Were there rest periods in between the strokes? Or were they light strokes?
*sorry for all the questions - "curious" in my middle name
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 31
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 09:32 am: |
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Hey Pinkcheeks,
Well this is my favorite topic, so I don't mind the questions.
M and I have been together for 3 years. The first year we engaged in heavy 45 minute spanking sessions twice a week. Then we cut back to once a week. Recently, only once every 2-3 weeks, unfortunately.
Because of the frequent heavy "play," I don't really mark up very much any more. I don't get those nice cane marks that many people do. I never get black and blue, and I don't stay sore for very long either. I do get some dark red spots that stay for a while though.
However, I have unfortunately developed a bleeding problem. After the first year, my bottom started to bleed easily, usually from paddling. We have it under control, but there are a few spots that bleed every time now. And it doesn't take much.
As far as the sessions went, M did not hit me full force on every stroke, but they were not light either. Everyone hurt. It took a lot to make it through the session. I did not get any breaks. In fact, breaks let my bottom cool down and then it hurts more, so no breaks is fine with me. M likes to apply the cane quickly, but I prefer about 5 seconds in between strokes. The 500+ strokes were applied quickly. But she would do sets of 10 fast strokes and then a few seconds break. She also mixed in some other implements during the session for variety.
What helped me get through it was counting them in my head.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2190
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 10:14 am: |
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You are a much stronger person than me, Victoria. Bleeding? No thank you, to quote ME, is this necessary?
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 321
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 10:35 am: |
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Victoria....thanks for satisfying my curiosity. But I gotta agree with Fanny on a few points - the first one is you being a much stronger person (I know there is no way I could take that many strokes without having some serious physcial effects occur), and secondly....the actual necessity of so many strokes - would 10,20, or 50 serve the same purpose? Or does it have anything to do with craving pain (something Otter referred to)?
Ummmm...and the bleeding part...that would sure scare me - but you have been very open and honest and I thank you for that 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 32
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 11:04 am: |
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Hey Pink,
Well, my ability to take it has grown over time. You wouldn't want to start out with that level of severity.
Most importantly, I like heavy pain. The goal is my pleasure, not behavior modification. Going over budget is just a pretext for a heavy session.
The bleeding is a pain in the ass -- LOL -- an unfortunate side effect of heavy play. Wish it didn't happen, but I'm grateful that M isn't scared off by it. I can't imagine it's a serious health risk.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Gypsygirl
Advanced Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 217
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 01:37 pm: |
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I don't think there is any way that I could take that many and certainly not with a cane. If I could cheat and use that suede flogger that I'm thinking of getting and each strand counts as one stroke, then maybe. I'm sure our tolerance levels increase with time, but at my age I don't think I have enough time left to get up to that.
I forsee spankings........LOTS of spankings
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2197
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 01:54 pm: |
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I have been spanked for decades, therefore have received literally thousands of spankings. I have a pretty good tolerance and as a cancer patient have learned to deal with pain well.
That being said, I think the important statement made by Victoria is that "most importantly, I like heavy pain". I'm glad you acknowledge that Victoria. I like to go for the stinging, throbbing sensation, but I do not enjoy heavy pain. To me a spanking is more emotionally satisfying than physically.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 323
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 02:10 pm: |
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Well put,Fanny...maybe that is why I can't fathom being stroked with a cane that many times. I love the sting, the throb, the heat, and the reddness.....but I would draw the line on bleeding (strictly speaking for me now).
Victoria - I admire your honesty - and as long as you are happy with your partner, and the both of you are on the "same page" in terms of the lifestyle you lead, then more power to you
The only time I would be concerned about the bleeding would be if the implements were/are used on anyone else (alway best to play it safe).
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Fireman_chris
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Username: Fireman_chris
Post Number: 83
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 07:44 pm: |
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Sorry to jump off topic, but That's what Patty's confession was about? You know, I read that coming clean post... actually I was really confused by it. I'm glad that it someone finally explained to me what happened with that. but... in a way, I'm shocked and... ;-; a little upset. *sigh* I liked her blog.
I only recently became aware of the whole situation through my wife (never read CSW myself) and apparently, all of the comments relating to the confession were deleted, so its now somewhat difficult to "piece together" what all happened. I suppose its possible the confession post itself may have even been modified from the original...again, I only read it a couple of days ago.}
As you slide down the banisters of life
may the splinters never point the wrong way.
Old Irish Proverb
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Sexymom2
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Username: Sexymom2
Post Number: 2
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 09:26 pm: |
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ouch ouch ouch is what i have to say } |
Wolfie
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Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1602
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 10:24 pm: |
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The only thing I would worry about for Victoria is the amount of damage being done to her body. Im not a doctor, but I imagine that regular heavy sessions that cause bleeding would damage her skin and the underlying fat/muscle structure. Ive seen people with dimples or depressions in parts of their bodies where they'd been struck during an attack. Constant repetative striking of a body part leads to callusing or scarring...and where there's regular bruising/bleeding tissue is being damaged.
I know your happy with your sessions Victoria, I just want you to be careful for your long term health.
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 33
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 10:50 pm: |
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Thanks for the concern guys. My bottom looks the same as ever. It's just a couple of places that always blister and break. I'm definitely not going to give up spanking, so I just have to make the best of it.
Luckily I am HIV- and negative for hepatitis, so now risk there. And we would never share toys.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2205
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, April 28, 2006 - 08:44 am: |
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Can you clear this up for me, Victoria. Are you saying you are HIV and hepatitis negetive? Or are you saying you are hepatisis negative, but have HIV?
And are you saying there is now a risk or no risk?
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 40
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 28, 2006 - 08:58 am: |
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I am HIV negative (HIV-) and negative for hepatitis. In other words, I do not have a major blood disease. Obviously, if I were HIV+ I would not be exposing my partner to my blood -- not that she touches it or anything.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2207
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, April 28, 2006 - 10:03 am: |
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Thanks for the explanation, Victoria. I am glad you are well. Sometimes it is hard to tell typos from words. So you were saying "no risk there". Got it!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 412
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 29, 2006 - 08:36 pm: |
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Ok I have been spanked for my whole married life and the subject of CSW has come up an another blog I sometimes post to. sorry to break anyones spanking dreams but no and I mean no can take 500 of a cane, whipping or anything else that PAtty had claimed to have gotten. I am sad that someone wanted this life so bad she made it up. Why would anyone feel the need to take that many and has hard as she claims that they were.
Ok on to her coming out to the truth. It appears that several years ago she was a moderator at one of the spanking forums that is mostly for people who practice DD. Fred is fake, there is no children and no ranch and no anything she wrote about. WHen fred posted on the other site it was Patty signed in as fred. Ok how she was found out was several years ago she posted on one of the forums that she had breast cancer and than several months later her son died in a DWI. The other driver was drinking not her son. Memebers of the other site sent her money or something like that Please forgive me if I have some facts confussed becasue I learned of this thru post on another site and the posters may have thier fact mixed up and you all know what happens when you play the game telephone. Any way someone from one of the MADD organization try to find her because she said that the driver was convicted of manslaughter they were insterested in doing a story on how this happened. When they went and look in all the court records in Texas they found nothing that even came close to what she had posted. The MADD rep some how got in touch with the adminstrtor of the the forum and what happened from there is that PAtty confussed that the whole thing was made up. It appears that the DA is now looking into pressing charges for mail fraud etc because she took money from people based on her post on the internet.
I am not sure if I got the whole thing correct but one thing I have to say is many times when I read her blog I thought to myself who the hell can take that much. ANd than there were times that I read her blog and wished that Bill would be more like "Fred" But I realized that while Bill may not be prefect he is a wonderful amn who sometimes spanks to hard and sometimes stops before I feel I had enough but I know he is real thing. WHen she came out many people on various sites were very upset and very sad. It made many question thier life style
I feel exteremly sorry for her I know my life is real I know my husband does spank me and I feel sorry that she wanted this so much but couldn't get it but I don't forgive her becasue she hurt so many people
Sorry this is long.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Kennysspankee
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Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 192
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 29, 2006 - 10:56 pm: |
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I don't know about you, but I get hundreds with assorted leather straps in one session every other night. |
Louiseoc
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Username: Louiseoc
Post Number: 13
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 01:30 am: |
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Well, it is evidently possible to get 500 if they'r delivered with relative mercy. The night my husband gave me 500 he did the first 250 with the leather paddle, which stings a lot but is a relatively mild implement, then the next 250 with the wooden paddle, which was a lot more painful.
I must say I never cared much for 'Fred' I thought he sounded like a pain in the neck. Just like those men in spanking stories who are too perfect to be true (and in fact as it turned he was a man in a spanking story). The kind of man who might be amusing to read about, but extremely trying to have about the house in real life, such a strain to live up to: "Pictures of perfection make me sick and wicked" as Jane Austen said. |
Otter
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Username: Otter
Post Number: 56
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 03:51 am: |
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I don't see why a person couldn't take 500 with a flogger/whip/crop, or even with a paddle or cane if they were given with some discretion. I took about 200 full force with that spline flogger and I lived quite admirably. I rather enjoyed it. We've only been spanking at all for about 1 1/2 years, so I am sure that someone who likes long spankings and has been doing this for years and years could pretty easily take 500.
"It was something magic out of something frightening. That's how I live my life, I take it as it comes. In my mind I see the rocking horse inside the tree." -Sara Evans
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Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 43
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 09:17 am: |
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Well, as I said above, I have taken 500-600 cane strokes, in addition to other spanking, in one session. So I know it is possible. The strokes were not full force -- are they ever? -- but certainly were not done with mercy either. The cane hurt tremendously even when applied lightly.
Redhinney, I don't understand why you insist that it is impossible? Multiple people on this thread have said they have taken hundreds of strokes.
(Message edited by victoria_wood on April 30, 2006)
Cheers,
Victoria
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Wolfie
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Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1618
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 10:59 am: |
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I made a bet with Steve...and lost! Now I am due 900 swats on my next visit, and this is not counting clearing my book, fun spankings and the birthday spanking for the contest.
Ok, he wont give them all at once. But I get plenty at one time, and Im sure if I counted them that they would number in the hundreds. It is possible if your partner loves to spank you and your well warmed up.
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 413
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 02:25 pm: |
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If you ever read CSW blog you would understadn why I say that Patty's spanking were all very hard without mercy. Sorry I know i have taken many spankings at one time and I now of one session that I got almost 300 but that was one session and there was mercy in them. Patty's blog was not based on mercy at all. That being said I will stand corrected in sayng that none of the spanking's described by Patty is possible on my butt ever adn I have been spanked for 25 years to man who is strict but not mean better way to describe it is strict but loving.
And Louise I agree "fred" was to prefect" but that can be when you make it all up.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Kennysspankee
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Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 193
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 03:11 pm: |
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I have to agree with you on that one Redhinney. I started having doubts about her legitimacy when she wrote about having to give herself 300 really hard swats, with the Vermont Bath Brush(in front of a camera, because Fred wasn't home). I thought at the time that's crap because no one could do that to themselves, swat after swat on top of the bruising that would be building up. I pretty well wrote her off as being a 'story fabricater' when she wrote about another incident about taking 300 punishment swats with the Vermont Bath Brush, THEN two days later she took another 200. Her ass would have been one great big horrible bruise after the first '300', there is no way in hell she (or anyone)could tolerate another 200 hard swats on top of that. We have that bath brush and can attest to the sting, burn and bruising it can cause. And I'm sure I couldn't take 300 with the London Tanners' Reformatory Strap if my husband wasn't holding back. He lays on a few that he really puts some muscle into so I know what that feels like and a few is enough! |
Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 47
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 04:29 pm: |
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I believe that patty fabricated her stories. I remember her craziness from WSF. Of course it's still good fiction ...
However, I'm not so sure that what she describes is impossible. I say that b/c my bottom barely marks up anymore and then the marks I do get fade very quickly. Plus I am hardly ever sore afterwards, and when I am it is barely noticeable. I know how much the bathbrush hurts, but I'm sure I could physically take that many strokes if I had no choice. Now a large school paddle would be another matter entirely.
The on camera brushing sounds far-fetched, but I don't think the 300 then 200 sounds impossible.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Bethie
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Post Number: 763
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 05:25 pm: |
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Is there any way we can stay off the Patty subject since Pinkcheeks (who started this thread) has already said that's not who she was talking about? Goodness knows I read enough blogs to know there are many out there who report taking much more. I think enough attention has been given to the Patty subject here in cyberspace and I'd like to keep this corner of it free from that. Also I don't want to turn this into a debate, Patty does have supporters here as well. Please don't make this discussion about someone else, let's talk about our own experiences and limits here.
I'd appreciate it if we could please stay on topic with Pinkcheeks original query: "My question..........How is it possible for someone to take 100, 200, 500 spanks? *just curious."
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Bethie
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Post Number: 764
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 05:28 pm: |
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As for me, I don't have a clue how many spanks I receive during a spanking. Neither of us counts and we sort of get well...distracted so we'd have no idea. But it's alot, I can tell you that much.
I'd promise to count next time, but I'm afraid I'd get distracted again.  |
Tom6789ca
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| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 05:48 pm: |
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Counting probably helps. I once administered more than a hundred hard folded-belt lashes, in a disclipline session, and made her count and thank me for every one. Apart from those words, which became a kind of mantra for her, and probably gave her somthing to focus on, I didn't hear a peep out of her. I did give her corner-time in the middle, and she asked to come back to my knee. My arm gave out before she did.
This is a helpful thread for Doms. It's good to hear there are some women who enjoy very hard punishment. Or is enjoy the wrong word? I don't mean to hijack the thread, but do subs always want the Top to decide when it ends? (apart from obvious safe-word emergencies). |
Bethie
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Post Number: 765
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| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 05:51 pm: |
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Hi Tom! Why don't we start a new thread for your question? I'll get it started and then we can go back to the topic question here. Thanks! |
Victoria_wood
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Post Number: 49
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| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 06:06 pm: |
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For me, counting silently to myself helps me get through a long session. I like it when M breaks the caning up into sets of ten or twelve. That helps. Her arm definitely wears out before my bottom does. :D
Cheers,
Victoria
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Bailey
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| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 09:25 pm: |
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I don't *usually* count in my personal relationship, but I'm sure I've gotten into tripple digit numbers during private play. At the studio they usually only have us count for smaller numbers, but I've had members come back and tell me that they counted. My "Punishment Profile" was a handspanking that was (accordng to a member) over 600 swats. The same member told me that I took over 200 with the vermont bath brush/hairbrush in another scene. I'd qualify most of the studio's spankings as "without mercy", but because I don't really count I honestly can not say how typical the high number spankings are.
I can verify what Victoria is saying about marking, though. I used to mark really seriously from a basic handspanking. Nowadays I hardly mark at all. My legs will mark if they are hit, and *really* severe sessions will leave a little bit to show for it. Also the crease still marks a bit. However I pretty much don't mark anymore from a "standard" spanking.
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Pinkwench
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Post Number: 76
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 02, 2006 - 12:15 am: |
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I have gotten triple digits more than once. But since it is various implements and various intensities, it really is possible to take quite a lot, even for a relative novice.
Now I wouldn't even say that about the CB paddle, that thing is wicked and I'm sorry I ever sent off for one. Jake usually gives me a few nice easy ones with that thing, then 5 or 10 good whacks more on each side.
In March, I made the mistake of asking him for a couple swats before I left on a road trip with my girlfriends for a girls-only weekend in Sedona, AZ. He obliged with the CB!! My butt throbbed for the six plus hours I had to drive to Sedona. Mean Man!  |
Otter
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Post Number: 60
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 03, 2006 - 11:27 pm: |
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well, this discussion of number of licks got me wondering so I counted the last time. I forgot till the last third though and there were some I couldn't count because he did them to fast (chalk one up for light, whippy implements).
So for the final third, my educated guesstimate was right around 200 and that is when we were winding down. So two nights ago, I probably took about 600 with that terrible spline seven tail flogger and the rubber ruler.
I was red and welted for the whole night and next day and I have some finger tip bruises but I definitely wouldn't be worried about going again tonight...worried? hell, I'm wondering what 700 would be like, LOL!
However, I think it would be a whole different ball game with a paddle. I took about 60 with the spatula and that left me bruised for a week. I didn't mind the pain but I worry about that kind of damage. The upside is I think my husband likes the lighter implements anyway. The sting hurts me just as much as the thud, but he can really swing and never worry about really damaging me.
"It was something magic out of something frightening. That's how I live my life, I take it as it comes. In my mind I see the rocking horse inside the tree." -Sara Evans
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Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 63
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, May 04, 2006 - 07:59 am: |
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Otter,
That's great! Saying hundreds of whacks sounds extreme but when you really think about it, you can get there really quickly.
There was just recently a similar thread to this on British spanking -- whether 100 cane strokes is possible b/c wouldn't it cause stroke and heart attack? My question is why would it? Has anyone ever died from the pain of a spanking? I know that people can have heart failure during torture, so if the person is being brutally caned against her or his will perhaps. But not for consensual play. Physical trauma is another matter altogether, it seems to me. You could died from internal bleeding. Wood is more dangerous b/c of the physical damage it can do. But a whip or flogger, unless it rips the skin open, seems unlikely to pose a risk. But as you say, that doesn't mean it hurts any less.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Katie_spades
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Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 457
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, May 04, 2006 - 11:06 pm: |
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Victoria I totally agree counting helps me get through a long session because I know how many more I have coming to many and to what # I have to count to but OMG some of your posts sound so excruciating!!!! OMG!!! 500-600 strokes! I'd pass out... more power to you!
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Otter
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Username: Otter
Post Number: 61
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, May 05, 2006 - 01:39 am: |
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"I'd pass out..." Good point, Katie. That's just the thing. When the brain experiences more pain than it can handle, it loses conciousness. Any SSC dom, I would think, would stop if his partner passed out. I mean, if nothing else, what would be the point after that?
Someone asked why this would be necessary. For me, I need to be pushed to the limit. Part of the draw is to see just how much I can take and to get a little overwhelmed. I don't think I release endorphins until my stress hormones are released and that takes being put in a lot of pain and a lot of distress. That's just me, I know a lot of people don't play that way.
Another thing, we do DD as well and that is totally different. These high stroke numbers are not for punishment spankings. I am usually so worked up emotionally over punishment that I can't take very many strokes. The punishment is the lecture and my own guilty conscience. The spanking is just to clear the air in that instance. A long drawn out spanking would just be cruel at that point and I don't think I could take it.
"It was something magic out of something frightening. That's how I live my life, I take it as it comes. In my mind I see the rocking horse inside the tree." -Sara Evans
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Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 67
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, May 05, 2006 - 03:19 pm: |
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I agree that a lot of it is mental. I am able to take a lot more now that I know I have taken a lot in the past. It helps me get around the pain psychologically. After all, pain is just another sensation. It hurts a lot more when you are distraught about it.
For example, even when you accidently hurt yourself ... I find that if I take a moment and relax into the pain, it's not as bad. One night coming out of the bar, I was walking along the sidewalk, not watching where I was going, and I walked right into a park bench. And oh did it hurt. But then I just told myself "pain is just another sensation. Go with it," and it was a lot more bearable.
Cheers,
Victoria
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