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Blulizrdboots
Spanko
Username: Blulizrdboots
Post Number: 55
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 11, 2006 - 12:06 am: | 
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Hey everyone. Okay these are two questions that have been running through my mind for like ever. I just hope it's not too...personal I guess. Because my first question is for you female subs/bottoms. I'm just curious, if it's during *that time of month* what..or how... does a spanking happen?
My next question has kind of been answered but not fully. For those of you that have children how do you work with the DD or even a D/s relationship? I've guessing a lot of times you've just gotta send the kids out, or just turn up the tv.
Ok, those are my questions. Later.
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 261
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 11, 2006 - 06:38 am: |
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Speaking only for me, we don't spank during *that time of the month* BUT.....he will wait until its over, and remind of of my little "indiscretions" 
Geez....and for the second question - our kids are grown and moved to another state! Guess that makes it super easy for us! But, when my son was still living at home, we managed - mostly waiting until he went out!  Or, went to another part of the house!!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Sassyaawaa
Spanko
Username: Sassyaawaa
Post Number: 98
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 11, 2006 - 04:15 pm: |
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Hi Blu ~ very interesting questions and I wish I could contribute but that "time" was taken out of my hands when I was 28 and my Son is fully grown and lives 650 miles away. I think Pinkcheeks has the right idea, no OTK during that time but catch up time after Mother Nature takes her leave.  |
Pillow_girl
New member
Username: Pillow_girl
Post Number: 27
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 11, 2006 - 05:07 pm: |
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the paddles take a vacation at that time of the month. we have no kids so far, that may be a problem in the future but not now.
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 388
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 11, 2006 - 05:23 pm: |
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Tampons. You heard it here first. |
Otter
New member
Username: Otter
Post Number: 16
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 11, 2006 - 05:43 pm: |
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Yeah, I use a sponge and so it is all inside, but not JC Penney! Also, I usually earn myself one everyday leading up to it, so I am usually pretty good for the days when I am really heavy. Then I get moody again when we are in the home stretch, but by that point it is just spotting, so no big deal.
As far as kids go (and we have three pretty small ones), we just wait till they are in bed, or lock the door on the office or our bedroom when they are downstairs watching tv. That works for punishment and light playing. We wait till they are gone for serious playing. Luckily, we have two sets of grandparents and their aunt lives close by, so we get lots of overnights!
"It was something magic out of something frightening. That's how I live my life, I take it as it comes. In my mind I see the rocking horse inside the tree." -Sara Evans
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Kryssi
New member
Username: Kryssi
Post Number: 36
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 18, 2006 - 11:44 am: |
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I agree with Pagan, tampons, and no bare bottoms during that time of the month.. as for our daughter, she is still really young and sleeps really heavily, so we usually just wait until she's in bed. We also get alot of weeneds to ourself, so sometimes we'll wait until then.
"I'm so tired of being here... supressed by all my childish fears"
Evanescence ~ My Immortal
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1524
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 19, 2006 - 12:21 am: |
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I take birth control pills for an unrelated problem, so I finagle them so I dont have my period when Im over visiting Steve. If it happened anyway I believe Steve would spank me lightly, since bruising is easier when you have your period.
On the other hand, I've always believed that a spanking during that "time" would help with my moodiness and the blues I get. I'm sure I'll find out someday... 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Sarahsbrat
New member
Username: Sarahsbrat
Post Number: 23
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 06:35 am: |
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Since I'm not stripped naked or dressing ina certain way, I get spanked no matter what time of the month it is. Darn.
No kids.
Not just any naughty brat...Sarahsbrat
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Weasel
New member
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 38
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 01:17 pm: |
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Menopause finally has a bright side!
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 19
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 02:15 pm: |
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I use a menstral cup called the Diva Cup. I can't reccomend it enough! It's honestly changed my life. I shoot videos every week even on my period as well as occasional spankings at home during that time, and I never have any problems with leaking etc. I *am* a little more sensitive during that time but I figure the members probably enjoy the extra reactions. In general you just need to be self aware of your limits and how they may change during that period.
As for kids, my Dominant has twins, and another infant on the way. We handle it by waiting until they are asleep and then playing in a different areas of the house. Alternately the boys get sent out with someone (with myself, or his other submissive) to do something fun (mcdonalds, the park, whatever) and then He will take advantage of the empty house. Usually we don't resort to actually sending them away unless someone is in trouble for something serious that he wants to take care of. In general, we wait until they are gone for whatever activities they are a part of, or until they go to bed.
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Cheekychipmunk
Advanced Spanko
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 126
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 10:42 pm: |
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No spankings during monthly.
We have two teenagers, three of his family members around constantly helping taking care of thier mother. So we usually have to wait til we get his mom settled in her room, and everyone else gone before we can have play time.
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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