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Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 195
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 05:02 pm: | 
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I can't remember where I read it but someone mentioned in another thread about receiving a spanking when out in public or in a crowd. So I wanted to ask those of you who do live D/D relationships (which I don't) if that has ever happened to you or how do you cope if you have done something to upset your partner when not in the privacy of your own home? I know the general opinion is that you cede control in your relationship to your S/O but I find it hard to believe that anyone would allow it to go that far. You read a lot of references to it being done there and then so that the lesson is driven home while the 'crime' is still fresh in the memory, but while I will allow that could apply to telling off children who have short term memories, I can't see that it is necessary with fully grown adults.
I forsee spankings........LOTS of spankings
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Otter
New member
Username: Otter
Post Number: 45
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 05:37 pm: |
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I can't imagine my husband would ever spank me in public. He does tell me I can do this or that, but I can't imagine him ever lecturing me outright in public. I don't think he would ever want to humiliate me that way, especially in front of our families or people I have to interact with.
If we are in public and he feels that I am getting out of line, he will step up to me, put one hand on my face and lean right up in my ear. We are *very* physically affectionate, like horny teenagers all the time, so no one thinks anything of this. They just think he is nibbling or licking my ear or something.
He is actually saying something along the lines of "Maybe you should watch your mouth, huh? Is that the way you talk to me?" or "How blistered do you think your ass is going to get if you keep going this way?" Of course, all the time he is smiling and/or laughing and I am giggling and wriggling so no one is any the wiser. It works every time, btw, except my behavior is then orderly but my thoughts are completely randy! So I might be a good girl then but later...
He has spanked me in front of another couple that we were swinging with but that was just an erotic spanking and he also spanked the other woman. I kind of got the feeling that the person who mentioned it was talking about a party or a club or a munch or something. But maybe not.
I have definitely heard of people getting punished in public but I sort of assumed that was sort of "Dear Penthouse Forum, I never thought it would happen to me..." kind of stuff reserved for internet porn.
"It was something magic out of something frightening. That's how I live my life, I take it as it comes. In my mind I see the rocking horse inside the tree." -Sara Evans
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Victoria_wood
New member
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 26
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 06:00 pm: |
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M would never spank me in public but she threatens to and that always turns me on!
Cheers,
Victoria
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Fireman_chris
Spanko
Username: Fireman_chris
Post Number: 81
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 06:23 pm: |
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I've never spanked my wife in public, though she has gotten plenty of smacks in public.
I did once spank someone in my truck in the parking lot at Disneyland, but that was somewhat secluded.
As you slide down the banisters of life
may the splinters never point the wrong way.
Old Irish Proverb
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Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 780
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 06:37 pm: |
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If my hubby ever tried to smack me in public, he best be prepared to spend some time in traction! Spanking is private for me. And my hubby is actually a bit of a reserved brit so he wouldn't do it anyway. Heck, he won't even spank me if he thinks there is anyone at all in hearing distance!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Me_home_here
Advanced Spanko
Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 256
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 07:11 pm: |
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When I was about nineteen, we were out with friends singing christmas carols in the neighbourhood, my (then) girlfriend was doing silly things and so I sat on a low wall flipped her over my lap and spanked her a few slaps on her jeans covered bottom.all of the others though it was amusing and made remarks about it giving them thoughts on the same treatment for their parteners. My gf was a bit ashamed at first, but it was a very playfull spanking and about five minutes later she asked me if we could go home because she had other needs and that her panties were not too dry. Now that was a long night. I had my christmas present two weeks early
All depends on how you feel and if your right or left handed
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 313
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 07:53 pm: |
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"R" would not spank in public, although he did spank me when we finished a long hike in the woods last summer - He just had me drop my jeans and panties and bend over the hood of his car! It was very exciting, but I was nervous as hell that someone would see!!
He has no problem giving me a "swat" now and then in pubic though 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1586
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 08:09 pm: |
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I dont mind being spanked in public...as long as its done for fun or "mock" discipline only. I wouldnt like being humiliated by real punishment in front of strangers.
Steve has bent me over railings and a bike rack, and I know he wants to play outside in the woods sometime. Its a big turn on for me as well. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Gypsygirl
Advanced Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 209
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 08:14 pm: |
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A play spanking outdoors (but in seclusion) would be something different. I think that would be exhilarating just for the pure danger of getting caught. I've made love outdoors and it certainly puts a bit of spice into things just for the sheer naughtiness of it. On one occasion we were seen, I don't know who was more shocked, us or them. 
I forsee spankings........LOTS of spankings
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Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 401
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 08:49 pm: |
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I've been spanked outdoors more than a few times...but never with an audience.
I was still a (legal) teenager at the time, so we both lived at home, and had little privacy.
I've been spanked:
1) In the lobby of an apartment building on New Year's Eve while we waited for a cab (yes, ok...diminished capacity on both of our parts, but not so much that either of us drove)
2) In a clearing where we were discovered by Boy Scouts (I swear this is true - I even wrote a story about it. He's lucky he's still alive, and I can't WAIT to have grandchildren old enough to shock with this story when I'm an old lady and don't care anymore)
3) In a lake, over a floaty dolphin
4) In parked cars, many many times
My husband pats/lightly swats me all the time. In public or otherwise. Sixteen years of training - down the tubes.  |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1592
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 09:08 pm: |
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I think he's very well trained myself! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Beachley
Advanced Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 356
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 09:57 pm: |
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I've been spanked outside in the woods and around a lake and over the railing of our deck in the back yard - all in play. No one the wiser I HOPE.
But never publicly or for humiliation. Mr. B would never do that. But threaten - he most certainly does.
I just flew in today from visiting with the children up north. He met me at the airport with my collar in hand (which publicly is a beautiful tri-gold necklace, but we know what it means). No public display, but we both know that I'm back under his control again and after being on my own for 5 days, it's nice not to have to worry about anything or be the one in control.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1596
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 12:20 am: |
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Welcome home Ann....yes, I always breathe a sigh of relief when I can hand over control. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Louiseoc
New member
Username: Louiseoc
Post Number: 7
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 02:03 am: |
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My husband has frequently threatened to spank me in public, he says things like "Do you want me to spank you right here in front of everybody?" etc, and I always find this a massive turn-on. However, if he was to actually do it I think I'd just be too embarrassed to enjoy it. Also, even if he didn't care about embarrassing me, I don't think he'd want to embarrass the spectators.
He has spanked me when we've been out sailing in his boat in the harbour, but only when there's no other boats in the vicinity and we're too far from the shore for anyone to see. I suppose someone might have seen us through one of the telescopes up at the castle, but that's too far away, I really can't get worried about that. |
Ma_vie_en_rose
Spanko
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 180
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 03:21 am: |
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I've been switched before in the woods, and... spanked in a parking lot another time. |
Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 317
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 06:35 am: |
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"R" will use the same line that Louiseoc's hubby uses!...."Do you want me to spank you right here in front of everyone?" and yes, its a wonderful turn-on. I have been playfully spanked in our yard, on the deck, in a car, in parking lots...but never a discipline spanking. That is something we keep private. 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2192
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 10:22 am: |
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I'm with Pink here. We have done playful spanking in our back yard, parking lots, in cars, outside a hotel we were staying at on a picnic table at night, while rock climbing et cetera. I don't think we were ever seen, at least no-one said anything to us.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tansy
New member
Username: Tansy
Post Number: 8
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 02:03 pm: |
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i absolutely LOVE those playful swats in public! they make me so horny and subby, and i'm sure anyone who sees my face and notices the fake, flirtacious pouting and the way i beam up lovingly at him when he kisses me on the nose afterwards would very easily realise i'm a spanko! ^_^
as for a proper spanking in public...the closest i've got is when all my housemates were a leeetle tipsy, they tend to start whacking each other with spatulas...it is like a frat house and i don't join in...they do reeeeally hard whacks to be macho (they're all closet spankos, i bet...) anyway, my boyfriend did start wrestling me over the table and threatening to spank me but i wriggled away and he let me go with just a couple, hard, standing up...it was all good fun....but i would like a hard playful one bent over in front of people...as long as i had had a few drinks so that i could blame it all on the alcohol the next day and deny that i wanted it...^_^ |
Sexymom2
New member
Username: Sexymom2
Post Number: 3
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 09:30 pm: |
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jay has never spanked me in public but jokes about it }}}} |
Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, April 29, 2006 - 02:36 am: |
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I have been spanked in several different parked cars, and been observed a couple of times. I don't think my Dominant would purposely seek out a vanilla audience, though.
I have a play partner who has absolutely no issues with turning his girlfriend over his knee in public. He has done this while we were out to lunch, as well as at tea in a hotel. Thus far I have managed to avoid that treatment myself, though I can't say I'd really mind.
That same play partner has also spanked me at a public tourist location, though we basically the only people there at the time.
Bailey
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 411
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 29, 2006 - 08:13 pm: |
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Never in public expect if you count those little slaps that are happening so often I just stopped complianing abou them. Bill has spanked me in our pool in our yard on our boat but never in front of anyone He never would embrass me like that. However if I do soemthing which brothers him(what me I'm an angel) he woukd say "I'll get to the bottom of this when we get home" I know that means his hand my bottom that will stop me dead in my tracks
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 464
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, May 05, 2006 - 04:31 pm: |
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I get told I'm getting a spanking the minute we get home but it's not done in public... Dera God no!
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Subbie
New member
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 14
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 09, 2006 - 05:22 am: |
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no, but i love it when he tells me, just wait till i get you home, makes me get an itchy butt. |
Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 472
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 10, 2006 - 03:16 am: |
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it makes me get butterflies
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Victoria_wood
Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 86
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 10, 2006 - 07:59 pm: |
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OMG. M just gave me a spanking in the kitchen for telling her "no." Since it's warm here, the back door was open. I was on the floor when she spanked me on my bare bottom, and she said "oh no! The neighbor just heard that!" I said "really?" And she said, "well he's looking over here." I was mortified. Didn't want to stand up.
But it turns out she was just joking. I think she deserves a good hard one for that. Don't you?
Cheers,
Victoria
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Subbie
New member
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 23
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, May 11, 2006 - 07:27 am: |
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Victoria, for sure she deserves a spanking for that, maybe 20 real hard ones,!!! hehe
i am so good, so spank me and make me bad
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Uncle_ed
New member
Username: Uncle_ed
Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, May 14, 2006 - 03:46 am: |
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I have never spanked my wife in public-but I did take her into the "Janus" shop in London and made a big show of choosing a new cane.
I had the assistant wrap it in tape and brown paper. The springyness threatened to cause the cane to rip through the bag. I made my wife carry it in the London streets all day.
I've never seen her so careful!
It got home in one piece.
I still made her try it, though!
Your favourite Uncle
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 912
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, May 14, 2006 - 09:46 am: |
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Oh I plan to visit that shop in London one day!
(evil grin)
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Mistydawn
New member
Username: Mistydawn
Post Number: 19
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, May 18, 2006 - 06:03 am: |
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In private I have no limits. Well none that W doesn't share or that we've discovered yet. When we are doing this strictly there are only two area's I can overrule.. The children and that's usually joint anyway and things in public. It's not that I mind and well derr of course I can see how hot it is but it's all about consensuality. Just because we like a good spank and allow our partners to discipline us the public haven't consented to watching it. There was the case where the dom made his sub eat her macdonalds off the floor. yeah fantastic control/turn on for them but where children are present I think not.
Soap box over.
On a lighter note- In public, No thankyou , outdoors, as much as possible yes please .
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Otter
Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 87
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, May 18, 2006 - 03:55 pm: |
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Misty, my husband said the same thing about collars, leashes, obvious extreme control, etc. No one else has consented to participate in your kink and you violate their rights by forcing it upon them.
o*
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Cheekychipmunk
New member
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 19
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, May 18, 2006 - 06:56 pm: |
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Grizz has spanked me at our family business which is outdoors. His brothers were on the other side of the business but it was still exhilirating... if only he hadn'e of been peeved with me. I would have been mortified if the others would have walked over at that time.
I have been spanked outside in our backyard. Playfully.
Down South I figure you can't do alot outside or in public cause of domestic abuse.
Someone sees it and call the law, the law can now take the person away without the say so of the spouse.
That would be our luck.
We now have a minivan that the backside windows and rear window is tinted, I am waiting until Grizz tints the two front windows, and I am dying to try it out. Dirtroad, parking lot, or rest area.
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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Victoria_wood
Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 126
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, May 20, 2006 - 12:06 pm: |
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On the way to the grocery store, I witnessed a young man spank his girlfriend's bottom a few times in the doorway of the car. They seemed really into it. heeheehee
Cheers,
Victoria
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Ladygator2904
Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 105
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, May 20, 2006 - 04:23 pm: |
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I got a swift kick on my bottom right in the exit way of wal mart, I didnt think much of it until a man with his wife commented about what fun <g>... a real spanking in public would be interesting but I agree dangerous, too many might think it was domestic abuse and not consentual and loving 
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Naughtyboy50s
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Username: Naughtyboy50s
Post Number: 13
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, May 21, 2006 - 08:50 pm: |
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Rather than a kick, what would have been his comments if it was a sound smack? |
Ewsbmad
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Username: Ewsbmad
Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 07:02 pm: |
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My wife has never spanked me in public but she has made many comments about it where other people could hear her. We have a nosy neighbour lady that works around the fence and tries to listen to our conversations when we are in the yard. Recently my wife noticed that when we spoke softer she moved closer to where we were. My wife told me to go to our room and wait for her because she was going to spank my bare bottom. Our room on the 2nd floor faces her yard so when my wife came into the room she took a look and confirmed that she was on her side but below our open window. My wife made sure that she spoke loud enough when she told me that she was going to spank my bare bottom with her brush, she then told me to close the window so that we would not disturb the neighbours. |
Sarahsbrat
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Username: Sarahsbrat
Post Number: 14
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 05:59 am: |
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I think the whole spaning in public thing has to do with exactly how you live the DD life. I've not been spanked in public, or at least not a proper one OTK, but Sarah has pulled me over to her and swatted me several times if she thinks she needs too.
I guess it runs to we aren't doing this for pleasure so it's different for us.
Not just any naughty brat...Sarahsbrat
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