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Alpine
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Username: Alpine
Post Number: 1
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 09:46 am: | 
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Should the spanker or spankee take down the panties or briefs before the seat warming? After the spanking should they be replaced to keep the bonfire in the seat glowing and smarting ? alpine |
Wolfie
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Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1365
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 09:59 am: |
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I believe that decision should be left up to the Top/Dom. I prefer he do it...it ratchets up the excitement for me.
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Ftopinmichigan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 472
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 12:14 pm: |
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I agree with Wolfie, that the decision is up to the Top/spanker. For me it also depends on my partner and the specific situation at hand. (pun intended, of course  ) I like to pull them down, or off, when I want them off...'cause if I left it up to him, they'd be off before he even got near me.
Wolfie, that's quite the hot photo! It gives me ideas for the next time I take along the camera.
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 126
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 01:55 pm: |
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My husband makes that decision - sometimes he will ask/tell me to do it, other times he does...K is right- depends on the situation.
**hot pic Wolfie**
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Littlelotte
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Username: Littlelotte
Post Number: 26
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 02:19 pm: |
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Hmmm...I actually don't HAVE to take my panties off if I don't want to. Which means, if for some strange reason I want to, I take them off myself. But trust me, that almost NEVER happens.
"I've always thought a good lashing with a buggy whip would benefit you immensely."
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Bratattitude
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Username: Bratattitude
Post Number: 3
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 02:33 pm: |
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He has only taken them down himself 4 times. He normally makes me do it. And I don't have the nerve to tell him I remember the 4 spankings he took them down for better than ones where I took them down casue they were not as bad a spankings...it was just more significant that HE was in controla nd HE would be the one deciding how I was spanked when he did it. |
Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 259
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 05:07 pm: |
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For BG spankings Bill tells me if my panties should be done or completely off. If completely off I know I will be facing a long hard spanking.
For GG spanking we both sort of do it just depends on whats happening at the moment
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Shylah
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Username: Shylah
Post Number: 682
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 05:12 pm: |
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Bob always takes mine down. He likes doing it slowly.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Jasmine_1958
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Username: Jasmine_1958
Post Number: 39
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 07:31 pm: |
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I prefer he takes them down, but he does it both ways depending on the situatiion. |
Pagan
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 332
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 07:41 pm: |
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He always pulls them down. Actually...it's normally pajama bottoms, and not panties, because I'm virtually always spanked in bed at night.
I can't even go along with the 'come over here' or 'bend over' gracefully. Always takes a tug. No WAY I'm pulling my own pants down.  |
Katie_spades
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Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 433
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 10:52 pm: |
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Usually Jake makes me take them down in front of him which is really embarassing and I hate it, but occasionally, I get over his lap with just my panties on (after he has told me to take my jeans or pants off) and then he spanks me over the panties and then pulls him down when he is ready and then just continues to my dismay. 
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Rex138
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Username: Rex138
Post Number: 43
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 26, 2006 - 11:18 am: |
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My wife/Mistress EXPECTS me to take them down whenever I get a spanking. And on the couple occassions that I tried to get away with bending over with just my briefs on, she has upgraded spanking implements or added more swats to what I was going to get.
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Hunny
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Username: Hunny
Post Number: 1880
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, February 27, 2006 - 12:34 am: |
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It depends one a lot of thing like what kind of spanking it is.
If it is BG I have to take of my pants and her takes my panties off at the end of the lecture across his lap.
If it is GG I usually am waiting for him in bed so I don't even bother to put them on.
It also depends on where we are.
If we are in public or have a crowd I have to take them off myself and that is really embarassing.
It can also depend on our moods.
Like if I'm bratting around just to get a spanking he will take down my pants and panties.
As for the second question (After the spanking should they be replaced to keep the bonfire in the seat glowing and smarting ?) I usually refuse to put my panties back on, but if I have done something very bad he will pull my panties back up and sometimes make me sit on a hard wooden chair while I type up an apology for him.
Hope that answered your questions Alpine!
I'm just a little angel...sometimes!
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Kryssi
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Username: Kryssi
Post Number: 21
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 28, 2006 - 12:54 pm: |
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Wow... that's a good question. Usually it goes either-way. I guess it just depends on the situation like everyone else has said. If it's a bg I usually have to pull down at least my pants.. and he will pull down my panties. Although some times he will just tell me to take them off.. or he will take them off.
I always put my panties back on right after a spanking. I am not sure why, I just do....
I'm going to have to think about that..
"I'm so tired of being here... supressed by all my childish fears"
Evanescence ~ My Immortal
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Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 279
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 28, 2006 - 05:00 pm: |
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Panties never go back on unless I'm told to. Because I have corner time after a BG spanking, I think he looks at what condition my butt is in . I say this becasue there have been times I standing in the corner and hewill say something like missed a spot and lay a few more where ever.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Wuqi
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Username: Wuqi
Post Number: 13
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 28, 2006 - 07:31 pm: |
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Ooh! Always he must take them down. I love it as the elastic waist-band slides over my bottom.
And afterward they must come off! Right off. And he must do this. |
Tender_and_sore
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Username: Tender_and_sore
Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 17, 2006 - 03:54 pm: |
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I was provided with a present last christmas of four pairs of panties with a 'door' in the back which can be unbuttoned to reveal my bare cheeks whilst still keeping my panties on. However the command to "Bend over while I unbutton you" still sends that dreaded chill through me |
Carly
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Username: Carly
Post Number: 44
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 17, 2006 - 05:26 pm: |
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Hubby always takes the panties down, he use to make me do it, but it would be along drawn out process. I now think he just feels it's easier to do it himself, and move on!!
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Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 331
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 17, 2006 - 05:27 pm: |
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I have to ask were did you find panties with a door not that Bill would allow me to keep them on I wear thongs and I still have to take them off.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2047
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 17, 2006 - 05:33 pm: |
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Very cute tender and sore!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tansy
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Username: Tansy
Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 17, 2006 - 05:49 pm: |
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i've seen pjs with a door but never panties...they would be cool...
for me, usually he pulls mine down, and generally waits a few seconds before spanking me to let me get to the wriggly with anticipation/dread stage...but if it is just a few swats and he's in a rush he WEDGIES me....oh the indignity...U_U |
Wolfie
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Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1422
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 17, 2006 - 07:46 pm: |
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Mine does that too Tansy, the wait as he pulls them into the center is excrutiating! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Beachley
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Username: Beachley
Post Number: 324
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, March 19, 2006 - 05:03 pm: |
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Mr. B usually takes them down when he is ready, BUT the few occassions when he made me take them down the process is absolutely excrutiating. I usually end up saying no way, I can't - which just get him counting and me in more trouble.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2052
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, March 19, 2006 - 05:33 pm: |
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Ohhhhh......been there Beachley, it is the same in our household. I guess there is just that little bit of me that has to "fight it" down to the last second.
(Which only adds to the excitment, but that is between you and me)
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Sassyaawaa
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Username: Sassyaawaa
Post Number: 5
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, March 19, 2006 - 09:44 pm: |
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I had a disciplinarian that usually always took them down BUT if I was being insolent or brazen during a spanking, he would tell me to take them down. I would sometimes say "NO!" and he would take them down, send rapids to my behind, pull them back up and say "Want to rethink your answer?" Then I would normally do as I was told BUT there were times when I would make him do it twice before I would give in, depended on how much of a spanking I really wanted  or needed. |
Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 347
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 21, 2006 - 12:49 pm: |
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Bill always tells me to take my panties down if I say no his answer is if I have to do it we WILL be here again tomorrow night as well do you really want that. The few times ( i can count them on one hand) I didn't take them down fast enough and he did I did get spanked the next day harder and longer than the frist spanking learned that lesson early on.
A piont of insterest maybe to those of us who wear throng panties. Wearing throngs most if not all of my butt checks are out anyway so why do I have to pull them down. I finally asked Bill his answer was a two part one. First not having any thing on my behind and my front makes me more submissive and part two he likes the way I have to walk with my panties around my ankles
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Me_home_here
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Username: Me_home_here
Post Number: 5
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 19, 2006 - 07:13 am: |
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I was never given the chance to say what i prefer. one of my girlfriends, (before I got married) always made me stand in front of her and slowly pulled my briefs down before taking me over her lap. I think it was so she could appreciate my readiness for the spanking that way |
Batfinch
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Username: Batfinch
Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 11:08 am: |
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Each to his own must be the ruling |
Louiseoc
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Username: Louiseoc
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 12:52 pm: |
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Well, I generally get spanked at bedtime so I'm not usually wearing any. If I do get spanked in the daytime he sometimes tells me to take them down, sometimes does it himself, it depends on the mood he's in. He likes variety. |
Gypsygirl
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Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 190
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 04:05 pm: |
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If it's going to be a proper session then my husband normally takes them right off. If it's a quickie in the kitchen/living room/bathroom then they just get pulled down but still by him although he does sometimes do the 'wedgie' thing (which is a description that I really don't like). If they are keeping my trousers company round my ankles then afterwards he will walk away smiling to himself leaving me to pull everything back up, which is so undignified. If I had to do it myself I think pulling them down rather than off would be worse, it just underlines the nature of the naughtiness. When they come right off I never put them back on, mainly because at first I can't find them as they've been thrown over his shoulder in abandonment so I get another pair out. I end up washing more pairs of knickers than anything else in my house.
I forsee spankings........LOTS of spankings
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Otter
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Username: Otter
Post Number: 41
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 04:47 pm: |
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Well, I never really thought about it he just sort of ordered me to strip the first time and so I did. Hmmm....I never thought about refusing....hmmm...that would be a bratty thing to do, wouldn't it?...
There are times when he just wants to give me a few while I'm in the kitchen, just to let me know what's coming and then he just does those over my jeans with the wooden spatula.
The only other option is when we have done it in the morning before work. Then he just makes me pull my pants down to my knees (usually bike shorts for my morning workout).
"It was something magic out of something frightening. That's how I live my life, I take it as it comes. In my mind I see the rocking horse inside the tree." -Sara Evans
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Victoria_wood
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Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 24
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 05:56 pm: |
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When I get a full fledged spanking, it's usually after a shower and I am told to go upstairs and bend over the bed -- naked of course. If it's a spanking during the week, then she sometimes takes my pants down and sometimes tells me to drop my drawers and bend over. A lot of times, however, she just pulls my pants down and no spanking! That is the worst ... ;)
Cheers,
Victoria
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Ma_vie_en_rose
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Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 182
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 03:28 am: |
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quote:A lot of times, however, she just pulls my pants down and no spanking! That is the worst ... ;)
Oh you poor dear..  well. go on. ;) |
Fanny
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Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2193
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 27, 2006 - 10:23 am: |
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I love to be sensually unlayered, even if it is disciplinary. It is all part of the foreplay and I like to be spanked on each and every layer.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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