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Changeling
New member
Username: Changeling
Post Number: 37
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 30, 2006 - 10:26 pm: | 
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after a week on alt.com the only responses I'm getting are perverted...more places than I would care to go even with the most trusted of spanking aficiandos.
Is there nowhere else?
My time on this earth is finite and I've wasted too much of it on repressed vanilla relationships.
Not that I couldn't go a little bit farther (and than some..she smiles) just that I don't know WHERE to find it safely.
Any recommendations greatly appreciated..otherwise I will be relegated to the
(sigh) sidelines of this site.
Changeling
Life may not be the party we hoped for
but while we are here we might as well dance
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 772
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 01, 2006 - 01:06 am: |
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Changeling, have you looked around at the ads for available men? Sometimes if you wait for a response you may not get what you want. It seems that some of the men there just wait for new women to join and then go after them like...well...fresh meat. It can go both ways on sites with more women that men so you just never know. Sometimes you need to be proactive and look for someone who interests you instead of waiting for them to find you.
I've known of people who have had great success there but they had to really look hard and sort through the ads there. Have you tried Adult Friend Finder?
Also, go to Google and enter your hometown or state plus the terms "bdsm clubs" or something along those lines. You might find a group in your area. Don't be afraid of the term bdsm either, if you look over the groups you'll see that many of them do include spankos.
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Victoria_wood
Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 52
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, May 01, 2006 - 08:28 am: |
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Changeling,
I think you need to give Black Rose a chance. You'll meet a lot of folks there -- no doubt someone to spank you and maybe even someone to be with long term.
BTW, I found my partner on a vanilla website through an ad that said what I am into. But I know it's harder to straight women to find decent men.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1623
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 01, 2006 - 11:33 am: |
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I'm sorry your frustrated Changeling, but these things take time. I dont have much faith in ads...too hard to get to know someone, and too many weirdos out there. I think you need to start attending munches and other events with Black Rose, there's usually more men than women attending. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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