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Gentleguy
New member
Username: Gentleguy
Post Number: 1
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 02, 2006 - 06:12 pm: | 
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Hi everyone, my name is Eric. I guess I am here because I share the same interest as you do and have been looking for a place to talk with other people who share the same. I have read a lot of the posts and I would like to compliment everyone, most people here seem to be very nice and well balanced. I have visited many sites only to be turned off by their members, I am tired of people who take themselves and their interests far to seriously. I remember that once I posed a question, to which I was expecting a fairly simple answer, and what I got instead was a page long lecture (not an answer) from someone who was so full of himself that it made me want to vomit. Apparently I had commited some crime in asking whether they considered spanking part of bdsm. Heaven forbid !!!
Anyway I look forward to asking some questions, discussing our mutual interests, and making some new friends.
Eric |
Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 343
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 02, 2006 - 07:06 pm: |
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Hello Eric...welcome to the Den - I am sure you are going to like it here - join in on the conversations anytime! 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2231
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 02, 2006 - 07:53 pm: |
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Welcome Eric, we are in general a very accepting group here. Ask any questions you like, and several of our chattier friends will respond.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ladygator2904
Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 80
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 02, 2006 - 08:30 pm: |
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Hi Eric~~~~~~~~~~ YOU will enjoy this group. Awesome people with a great sense or caring and humor. IMHO spanking is not bdsm but could be considered an anticedent for it.
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2234
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 03, 2006 - 08:09 am: |
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Categorizing an activity is all up to the individual. I would say that to me in is a matter of intency and intent. I don't consider spanking to be bdsm, but that is likely due to the level I play at. Oh, and my tendency to justify every thing I do.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Uh_oh
New member
Username: Uh_oh
Post Number: 19
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 03, 2006 - 09:44 am: |
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HIIIII ERICCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCC....WELCOMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE TO THE SPANKING DENNNNN  |
Tammynx
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 388
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 03, 2006 - 11:02 am: |
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Hi Eric nice to meet you!! |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 783
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 03, 2006 - 05:13 pm: |
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Hi Eric and welcome to the Den!
Looks like you've gotten off to a running start! Since I've been in this lifestyle since the 80's I've seen the term BDSM take a bad rap. Which is sad because BDSM is an acronym of several phrases: bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. I play with all of these elements and spanking is part of that so for me spanking is a part of that. That's the short version of my answer to that but if you want a longer one Google these terms "BDSM defined" or wait until I get the new BDSM discussion area up later this week, then you'll get some answers.  |
Gentleguy
New member
Username: Gentleguy
Post Number: 3
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, May 04, 2006 - 11:52 am: |
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Thank you all for the warm welcome ! I hope to get to know all of you a little better and can in some way contribute to this site. By the way, thank you for your answers; I was just wondering what other people thought. Sometimes I tend to get a little too technical though, guess that comes from being a software engineer many years.
Also, if I can ever be of any help just let me know. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2248
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, May 04, 2006 - 12:15 pm: |
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Guy, you won't believe how many engineer spankers/spankees there are. I am going to make a hypothesis based on data I will collect and compile to come to an equation to prove undenibly why this is such the case. I will publish my} results in "Kinky Engineering Times" magazine, so look for it. Oh, I just happened to be married to such a man.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Gentleguy
New member
Username: Gentleguy
Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, May 04, 2006 - 01:31 pm: |
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I look forward to reading that article! |
Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 844
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, May 04, 2006 - 05:01 pm: |
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Hiya Eric!! Nice to meet ya!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Gentleguy
New member
Username: Gentleguy
Post Number: 5
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, May 04, 2006 - 05:27 pm: |
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Very nice to meet you too ! |
Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 453
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, May 04, 2006 - 11:00 pm: |
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welcome and its great to meet you. Enjoy your time here. It's a lot of fun!
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Daddy_nicks_slutty_babygirl
New member
Username: Daddy_nicks_slutty_babygirl
Post Number: 3
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 09, 2006 - 10:53 pm: |
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Hi Eric, Nice to meet you. I would say that discipline is indisputably part of the BDSM scene, which doesn't mean that every household using discipline is into BDSM, but if you participate in much BDSM more than likely discipline is involved...a common discipline used is one form of spanking or another. But being into BDSM doesn't make someone definately into spanking either. . . For me though they are pretty linked. . . I want my Dom to use spanking as a form of play and of discipline.  I guess it's an individual thing whether or not spanking is considered part of Bdsm. But let's not confuse the issue of a square being a rectangle, making a rectangle square.  Spanking isn't equal to BDSM but BDSM often involves spankings. (Depending on the people participating). |
Tigerman
Spanko
Username: Tigerman
Post Number: 72
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 10, 2006 - 10:20 am: |
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Hello and welcome Eric...enjoy yourself here |
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