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Otter
Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 98
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 04:04 pm: | 
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Anyone ever do any wax play? Just curious as to any thoughts or ideas or experiences anyone might have had.
o*
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 575
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 04:05 pm: |
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No wax play here...sorry.. |
Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 135
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 04:25 pm: |
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The only wax play I did is when I decided it would be fun to let my bf of the time to wax and remove all my pubic hair ===:0 YIKES.. was NOT fun. The end result was cool but the ends did NOT justify the means.. hurt like heck.
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1031
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 05:38 pm: |
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ermmmmmmmmmm.........no
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Mistydawn
Spanko
Username: Mistydawn
Post Number: 64
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 05:54 pm: |
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ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.  I need a few more erms than Shyla as the answer is- a bit, a long while ago and very lightly so I can't remember much !!!!!!. It sort of hurt a bit but like spanking the instant it hit, it stings but then you get the warm glow and then it's gone . Also like spanking be careful where it's dropped cos one wrong splash and that's
a killer. Also on a practical note remember wax is messy !!
ladygator: eeek I imagine it was a lot less painful than what you describe. That whole area hot waxed ouch.
(Message edited by mistydawn on May 29, 2006)
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Learning to love and loving to learn
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Robinredtail
New member
Username: Robinredtail
Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 05:59 pm: |
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I've wanted to try wax play for some time now but gf is leery of it.
FYI, I've read that you should only use plain paraffin because candle wax that contains glitter, etc., stays too hot on the skin for too long. So I went to the hardware store and bought some plain candles but haven't been able to use them yet.... Someday....
Robin 
"Gimme that strange relationship
Never knew pleasure and pain like this..."
-Darren Hayes
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 126
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 06:07 pm: |
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OK wax play hints here
..ONLY use SOFT wax candles ..the wax melts FAST but DOES NOT KEEP HEAT ....
its SMARTER if skin is damp ...less burn prospects ...
.and yes USE A BATH CURTIAN to protect sheets ...
....let candles burn for a while to get a pool of wax ..or the wax will be TOO hot
....have ice handy too (extra sensation) and a DULL knife(as in barely cuts butter) OR popisical stick to help remove the wax from skin ...gential scraping is a tease too
but most of all be CAREFUL
A HOT RED butt is the sign of LOVE and trust
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 127
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 06:10 pm: |
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oh heck ..here is a link ...better to be informed then burned http://www.kufs.org/waxplayinfo.htm
A HOT RED butt is the sign of LOVE and trust
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Otter
Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 99
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 06:20 pm: |
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yeah, I was looking at soy wax. It has a very low melting point (120*F) and so I think it would be good. Also, it cleans up with soap and water and it's not a petroleum product like paraffin is.
I just love wax and I love kink so I thought, why *not* combine the two?
Plus I've been pouring candles in the past two weeks and, naturally, poured some on myself, LOL. That got my little brain going, of course...
I have proposed this to my hubby but hasn't happened yet. I think I might just have to pour the candles and put them in the toy box and see what goes down, ya know?
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Otter
Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 100
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 06:25 pm: |
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ah, Blistering Blonde, thanks for the tips...
Though, I have to admit, I thought it would be Bethie that would pipe up with the voice of experience...
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 130
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 06:28 pm: |
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SHHHH don't let out my secret LOL ...
you all would be suprized at what I know ...or choose to share ..I have always been known as the *DEAR ABBEY * of sex to my friends.
A HOT RED butt is the sign of LOVE and trust
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Poptart
New member
Username: Poptart
Post Number: 1
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 06:55 pm: |
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I love wax! Too bad it is too messy to play with as much we'd like.
My husband found a great idea online... he bought us a paraffin bath (like that used for for manicures/pedicures) which allows us to have a nice quantity of melted wax and also provides a measure of control over the wax temperature.
He uses a turkey baster as the "wax delivery system." Heh. Such a geek. |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 138
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 07:28 pm: |
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those parrifin baths are WONDERFUL ....BUT ...never EVER let th wax get less then 80% full ...not sure if they now include it in books ..BUT when I went to school .if the wax got too low the back blistered ..ohhh yeah you could also get a lil wax warmer ..one that you use for *hot wax* like the kind you wax your hair off with but use the parrifin wax in it ..keep rather full ..and its smaller and does not take 45 mins to 2 hours to melt the wax clump... and that wax just ...peels off like a glove if you stick hand in and wait ten minutes.
THOUGH its not as intense as the other wax dripping from candle ..as thats hotter coming from the fire source.
STILL use a cheap cloth shower curtian ..then WHO CARES how messy it gets...(good for food play too)
A HOT RED butt is the sign of LOVE and trust
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 885
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 10:41 pm: |
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I'm the voice of experience? My years must be showing.
I've played with wax before but it's been quite *ahem* some time. I remember it was exciting and made for serious sensation play, but the details escape me. I guess that means we did it right because I have only good impressions about it. But then I was in my early twenties and pretty darn crazy to be honest with y'all. 
I'd like to try it again with Dan but I haven't had a chance to bring it up. I'm sure he'd be interested since he's even kinkier than me (believe it or not).
Thanks for the tips Blistering_blonde! I may put them to good use sometime soon. |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 144
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 01:55 pm: |
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Hey Bethie ...
LOL just BUY the candles ...and curtian ..and then ..DO IT TO HIM ..this may lead up to you getting it back ...and a tender rump too
Hey I am ALWAYS willing to help another spanko find there ways
A HOT RED butt is the sign of LOVE and trust
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Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 161
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 05:19 pm: |
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I know I posted to this thread already, but my post is not there.
I love wax play and find that it doesn't hurt very much, nothing like spanking. And it's fun to have the dry wax removed with a knife ... I once let this guy do it with a giant hunting knife.
At the parties I go to, they have a crock pot and a waxing table. I once waxed someone while my Top watched.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 621
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 05:53 pm: |
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A hunting knife??? that sounds a little dangerous?? The wax doesn't get to hot in a crock pot?? |
Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 164
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 08:56 pm: |
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No, I think they put the crock pot on a low setting and of course they use wax that has a low melting point.
Yes, the large hunting knife was very scarey. I was laying on a table under the stars. He also threw a ladle on wax at me and it got me in the face, which I'm sure was a mistake. Afterwards the three of us got in the hot tub. It was a nice session over all.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 889
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 08:57 pm: |
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Forgive me, please, I'm about to go off topic for a moment. Victoria (and anyone else who's had this problem), I'm not sure what happened to your post but you're not the only who's had that problem recently. Please remember that after you've posted to a thread, the thread will be the next page you see so scroll down and make sure you've successfully posted. When I'm doing site maintenance I often regenerate the board and if you post during that time, that might cause your post to get sucked up into oblivion. Thanks!
Okay, back to the subject...
Blistering_blonde, there's no way in this world Dan would let me do that to him! I know how it feels and it wouldn't be a sensation he'd appreciate. Now me, I like a little (?) pain in my play and I'm a greedy receiver so it just sounds like fun to me!
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 155
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 10:47 pm: |
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Bethie
I never found wax painful ..warm but not painful. not with the proper wax ..heck parriffin is the wax esetithicians use in facials its a warm soothing CALMING.
so you WOULD enjoy ... just think a lil butt mask of wax (and cheese cloth for easy removing after a good spanking
A HOT RED butt is the sign of LOVE and trust
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 893
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 11:47 pm: |
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The times I played with wax, it was a sudden concentrated heat that was fairly intense that was followed by a nice warm glow. But I *like* that kind of thing. A little pain mixed with pleasure is just the way I like it! Dan...not so much!
Also, someone spanked the wax right off my butt, or at least I thought he did. I didn't know I needed cheese cloth, too. Thanks for the tip! |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 157
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 02, 2006 - 10:37 pm: |
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ONLY use the cheese cloth if your using the wax for ... well a mask on your back or rear ..or even chest ..it helps in the larger wax removal ..would kinda ruin the fun of spanking it off if you could just peel it off
A HOT RED butt is the sign of LOVE and trust
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 518
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 01:43 am: |
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no wax play for Jake and I. I have never tried and I don't know if he has. I don't think so but I'm not sure and I don't want to ask because then he might want to try that to add to discipline after a spanking, like when he first learned by reading about "wet spanking" and how it hurt more; then suddenly I was getting wet spankings when extra naughty, so I'll just keep this thread in the memory bank, LOL.
The Princess of Spanking
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Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 183
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 09:09 am: |
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Katie,
Wax is more sensual than sadistic. You might really like it.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Otter
Advanced Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 104
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 10:56 am: |
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Okay, you guys have convinced me. Next time I am at the candle supply shop, I'm getting the wax and pouring some body candles.
If I put them in the toy box, eventually he will use them. He won't be able to resist. He is too much of a sadist not to explore any avenue of pain infliction on me. Especially if it is right there staring him in the face, LOL.
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 185
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 11:46 am: |
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Just make sure to get the kind that don't burn at a super hot temperature or have added elements that might cause irritation. And do let us know how it all turns out. :>)
Cheers,
Victoria
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Otter
Advanced Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 105
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 11:02 pm: |
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Yeah, I am going to get soy wax (melts at about 120-125 F) and I will definitely let you know!
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Kennysspankee
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 212
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 01:32 am: |
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I read somewhere to use Bees wax cause it's not as hot. Never tried either to compare. |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 928
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 02:18 am: |
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I think you might have gotten that backwards, Kennysspankee. From what I've learned, beeswax has a much higher melting point (about 145 degrees) as opposed to softer waxes like paraffin based candles. And remember to avoid candles with additives like scent or color as they may irritate the skin. I admit I just started checking this out but I think you want to keep the temperature of the wax around 120 degrees.
It has to do with how the wax sticks to the skin. A temperature that could scald you if you're using something like water that rolls off your skin, might result in a serious burn if you use wax because it sits there and retains the heat.
I think I'll research this more over the weekend and get back to y'all. Unless there's someone out there who knows for sure? |
Kennysspankee
Advanced Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 213
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 03:45 am: |
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Nope, not me, that's what I read, someone else got it backwards then. |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 216
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 10:03 am: |
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PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE read this link
http://www.kufs.org/waxplayinfo.htm
it is FOR YOUR SAFTY
.. if you do not know what wax to use keep in mind ...the wax that you can bend the edges of in the store when its NOT lit is the right wax as long as its NOT scented ..or contain metalics (shiny)
Parrifin is soft that lady KNOWS her wax she is into sensual play ..READ THAT SITE
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Otter
Advanced Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 109
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 04:36 pm: |
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Yeah, NOT beeswax. I pour beeswax candles, etc. and it will burn the delicate parts. It doesn't begin to melt until at least 145* and the wax pool may be much higher than that (210* +! )It doesn't burn my hands but they are calloused redneck mom hands. It definitely burned when I splashed it on my belly and that was with air time to cool it! 
o*
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
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Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 209
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 05:15 pm: |
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I have always been told never to use Beeswax.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 18
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 02:57 am: |
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Bethie: said The times I played with wax, it was a sudden concentrated heat that was fairly intense that was followed by a nice warm glow. I concur (and that sounds like a missile launch scenario sorry). As Bethie loves her nipples played with and hurt I bet she would love to have candle wax dripped over her nipples……
And I bet her bottom and thighs…
Does anyone know where you can get low melting or high melting point wax from?
And Victoria what is wrong with Beeswax? |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 228
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 03:07 am: |
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BeesWax has a high melting point .. in order to melt it has to b ALOT HOTTER ...
you can get soft candles at dollar stores ..
PLEASE look at the link i previously posted ..she sells candles too ..just to be safe
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 29
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 03:42 am: |
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Timid I bet you are not....
Ok thanks.
Do you like candle wax?
And if so where on you body? |
Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 231
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 03:50 am: |
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yep i do .... I work with pariffin so I have had it everywhere ..love it on chest .. of after a spanking .. holding in the heat
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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