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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 105
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 01:39 pm: | 
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Have you enjoyed attending a spanking party, from an organized Real Life spanking group?
I've enjoyed MDSS in Detroit (before they went male Top only), Crimson Moon Chicago, and in Columbus when they were there, SCONY, as well as a few private membership groups. I've seen someone mention Shadowlane parties here too.
Have you been to a party, or want to go soon? How'd you like it? Was it what you expected?
What would make the ideal gathering for a group of real life spankos?
K |
Shadowrose45
New member
Username: Shadowrose45
Post Number: 13
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 08:31 pm: |
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I went to a scony in NY, but only, but was too chicken to play witn anyone (as a bottom) but there were some fun toys there to use on my little subbie's behind.
I think it should be a group of people that know each other, though. |
Angelbabe
Advanced Spanko
Username: Angelbabe
Post Number: 879
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 09:03 pm: |
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I wish there was really anywhere in the Uk that i could go there are none that i know of but would love to try it out
I should be good, i should be good but being bad is so much Better
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Pagan
Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 210
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 09:17 pm: |
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Angelbabe, there are HEAPS in the UK. A friend of mine (and Wolfie's) is a Master there, and they are always having munches. 
I have been to two spanking get-togethers. They weren't part of a formal group, but rather a group of friends that know each other from another spanking board.
One of them was last weekend in Vermont. My hubby and I went, as did Wolfie. We had a wonderful time. While I chose not to bottom to any of the Tops there, I did spank three women, and get spanked by two.  And my vanilla hubby spanked all five bottoms!  |
Angelbabe
Advanced Spanko
Username: Angelbabe
Post Number: 889
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 09:26 pm: |
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Ok then i don't know any In the Uk at all and haven't seen any from looking around on the net
I should be good, i should be good but being bad is so much Better
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Pagan
Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 212
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 09:30 pm: |
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If you're comfortable sending me a PM telling me what part of the UK you live in, I'll ask him if he knows of any groups in your area.
He's on vacation right now, so I wouldn't get an answer for a bit, but I'm happy to ask for you. |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 671
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 11:04 pm: |
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Angelbabe, go to Britishspanking.com and join the group there. Their a nice bunch from all over the UK, and they are constantly having meets, munches and play parties. My Master is in the south, and goes to get-togethers as often as possible.
I have been to 3 get-togethers with folks from another site. Pagan was at 2 of them. I have also met Naughtynature and NYbrat who are on this site as well. And I have joined NYbrat in going to a bdsm club in NYC. I've made friends there and been spanked by several of them.
But when it comes down to it, I would rather play with Steve any day. No one can come close to him in understanding what I like and need...and being spanked by the one you love is heavenly!
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
HAPPY SAMHAIN!
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Angelbabe
Advanced Spanko
Username: Angelbabe
Post Number: 948
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 11:11 pm: |
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I know this sounds mad since i have wrote so much here but thats cause ur all cool but im really shy and i don't really ever talk on forums
I should be good, i should be good but being bad is so much Better
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 676
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 10:50 am: |
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You dont have to do anything differently there than you have here. Just get to know people in your area...you can take your time about meeting any of them.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
HAPPY SAMHAIN!
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1615
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 10:56 am: |
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Okay, Wolfie I am just waiting for an invite!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 678
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 11:00 am: |
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Which one Fanny? To come visit me, or to come with me to Paddles next otk night? 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1616
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 11:30 am: |
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Either or both.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 134
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 12:02 pm: |
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I've been to 4 parties In Ohio that were put on by a group of people from a spanking chat room.
We have all gotten to know each other and are great friends. This year we just had a small get together. The Parties were getting rather large and people from other chat rooms would come and we did have a few problems with the past two parties. But for the most part they were fun we played games...talked..got to know each other...and for some it was a chance to meet for real. I have made some great friends from these parties!! |
Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 109
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 01:36 pm: |
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Wolfie, when we get a group from Detroit to go to NYC, we work it to fit in with OTK night, or at least a SCONY party. Maybe we'll meet you one day!
The first time I went to Paddles, it was a Friday night before a SCONY Fall Social. What a surpise for me to walk in and know 9 out 10 people there. Some came into town for the Social, and some were local to NYC that I knew from online in another spanking group.
I've found most everyone to be more than friendly and welcoming.
K |
Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 110
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 01:40 pm: |
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When I first came to enjoy my interest in spanking I tried to enjoy every group that was in the midwest and on the east coast. You do sort of a crash and burn going that fast sometimes though.
I doh't spank men in public, but I'm happy to flog anyone.  I enjoy some aspects of public type play parties, but just find spanking to be too initimate to share with an entire room of folks.
I do enjoy the fun brought about by being in a group, but still keep the spankin private (Thus my old name: Privte)
I go to spankin' parties to enjoy friends, and never to actually spank anymore (at least not in the party room). Sounds a bit strange, but it works for me.
K |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 682
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 03:41 pm: |
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K, that would be wonderful. I hope you come east soon! Maybe you could give me some pointers on dealing with a naughty young man who enjoys teasing? 
Fanny, the next otk night is the 12th of November. Let me knoe if you can make it, or if you'd like to meet somewhere or you can come stay at my house. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Pagan
Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 228
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 04:27 pm: |
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K, I don't think that's odd at all.
At the first party I went to, we left after observing two spankings. (Babysitter deadline, not because we were put off).
At the second, I did play publicly, but was only spanked by my husband. I think the other Tops would have been prepared to help out , but I was surprised to discover that I didn't want to be spanked by another man.
Two women tested out some implements on me, but it didn't have the usual spanking dynamic, so that just didn't count.
I know I'm not a casual spankee. I can't imagine being at a party when I can be hauled over the closest male lap simply because I'm a female bottom, no matter how playfully it would be intended. |
Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 111
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 06:49 pm: |
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At my very first party, a very large sized woman...and I'm mean HUGE, pulled her pants and panties down in front of me, and an inexperienced man decided to whack her behind with a wooden paddle. This all in front of me, a few feet away. I was shocked beyond belief. One, that she just yanked down her pants (and panties, although in a thong) in front of dozens of people, and two, that the idiot spanking her was...well, an idiot. He whacked her like he was trying to knock her into the next room. I could only remember thinking, "this is FUN?" 
Fortunately, I got over it all. It just was not a good first image.
It's really not a free-for-all, although some people do their best to take liberties that are not afforded to them, just because of their position. (That could probably be a whole 'nother thread. )
Most party groups are actually fun, but can be frightening to the first timer. I remember a woman that came to a party once, sat down for about two mintues and couldn't even handle the "talk" about spanking. She left immediately.
Spankin' Parties aren't for everyone.
K |
Neoserenity87
Spanko
Username: Neoserenity87
Post Number: 220
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 10:47 pm: |
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hey does anyone know if R/L get togethers in the North East? Like New England area?? Pls let me know!
my life is a like an Iraqi box of chocolates, you never know what you're going to get, and even if you did...how the hell could you read the Arabic written on the map inside the damn box?
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1619
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 11:05 pm: |
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Neo you are from New England? Another one from our area. We are dominating the board
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Neoserenity87
Spanko
Username: Neoserenity87
Post Number: 237
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 11:45 pm: |
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yea, originally NH and CT area, why? most of you guys are in my area?
my life is a like an Iraqi box of chocolates, you never know what you're going to get, and even if you did...how the hell could you read the Arabic written on the map inside the damn box?
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 686
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 02, 2005 - 12:34 am: |
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Ummm, let's be careful to maintain some privacy here ladies...there are other ears than ours.
I dont mind saying that I live in CT Neo, and I attend the otk night parties at Paddles in NYC. I usually take the train in and join friends from another group for a munch beforehand. Everyone is friendly, nice and we have fun together. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1636
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 02, 2005 - 07:59 am: |
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"we" are everywhere. I am not giving specifics but there are several of us living in the northeast corner of the country.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Poofette
New member
Username: Poofette
Post Number: 14
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 02:15 am: |
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm....Ftopinmichigan....I'm in Michigan too, Detroit area. How did you find out about the parties in this area? I'd like to know more.
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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 117
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 07:20 am: |
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Poofette, I'm IN Detroit. We should get together for coffee one day!
One group I found online, and when it went to M/F only play, I started another group, for everyone. Both groups are going through a bit of transition now, but we have great hopes for both of them.
I'll search out their link and send it on to you, but contact me, if ya have any questions. There's also a huge garage sale this Saturday, if you're interested in going...contact me directly for more info.
K |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 701
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 10:40 am: |
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"Garage" sale...or do you mean bizarre bazzar?
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Pagan
Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 244
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 10:45 am: |
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I was searching for a local spanking group last night, when I discovered that there is going to be a "Kinky Craft Fair" with over 80 vendors later this month.
I SO want to go. I know what I'm going to ask Santa for this Christmas! 
I haven't run it by my hubby yet, but I don't think he'll say no. |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 709
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 03:36 pm: |
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I so wish we had something like that around here!
Pagan, I thought you had too many toys already? What is it your hoping for? 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 119
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 04:10 pm: |
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We have a Kinky Garage Sale this Saturday, just north of Detroit, and an upcoming Kinky Christmas Sale the following week, with local and national vendors. One sale is run by a social/eduational BDSM group, and the other is purely for profit, and put on to promote sales for the same folks that put on a fetish party monthly. Can't lose with either event.
K |
Badgirljo
New member
Username: Badgirljo
Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 04, 2005 - 02:56 pm: |
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Angelbabe, I have PM'ed you about munches and R/L meets.
Feel free to contact me.
Peter[josie]
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Shadowrose45
New member
Username: Shadowrose45
Post Number: 45
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 04, 2005 - 09:22 pm: |
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Sighhhhhhhhh
If I was really brave and knew anyone in the scene anymore in r/l 
Ok, now I'm gonna go pout a while.
Seriously, though, the SCONY party I went to was very nice. No one was outrageous or anything.
LOL, if anyone had come up and tried to smack me without consnt, I'd have probably decked them. |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 720
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 05, 2005 - 12:16 am: |
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Thanks Josie, that was nice of you.
Rose I feel the same way. So far I have never been "accosted" or harrassed at any of the meets or clubs Ive gone to...most folks are nice and ask if your interested first. I'm sure there are some folks in your area who have get togethers, you just need to find them.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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